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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

Much love, Teza

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I have a Yorkshire Terrier and I think he's constipated. What can I give him to help his problem?

omg i so want that dog l0l but anyways try taking him to the vet and they can give it something

Ok well..to start off I was raped 3 years ago..and Ive been over that nightmare for a while. But Ive had two bfs since then and never had the same problem I do now. With my current bf I had the dream about my raper and his boys raping me again..noe my bf wasnt in the dream..but it didnt start having the dream until i dated him..and I love him..trully. But everytime I hug him I picture that in my head...and I do trust him..bte Im 15 years old

well sometimes dreams dont mean anything but if you dont feel comftrable with him or something then you might wanna break up with him or just take the time to get to know him more and sry that you were raped! x0

ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared

No, you can't.

hey i can't for the love of me figure why we have so many different social relationships. i don't even understand why goths r considered scary i mean i have friends who r goths and they r awsome...help me out!! thnx :)

every1 has a label and ppl judge every1 by how they look... and some ppl dont even get to kno the goths so .. yea

I think that I might just like the same guy that my best friend likes. What do I do? I thought this kind of stuff only happened on TV

um talk to her and tell her about it because its better if she knows know and if you tell her cuz who knoes wat might happen x0

im trying to brake up with my boyfriend things just are differnt between us and i really have no clue is on how to do it i cant just go up to him i have tryed it and i frezz so yea if any one can give me answers it would be helpfull
by the way im 15/f

well eather call him or tell him online and tell him why and everything.. x0

Hollister is just a fad like anything else, I wish you kids would get over it. (whoops thats not a question)

im sry u think that... i like hollister..

l0l yes im happy thank ya !

ok well i rele liked this kid n idn if he liked me some ppl said he didnt others idn and it got soo bad that i started cutting and now hes bring so ncie to me and evrythign and asking me to 4give should i ..i mean hes done alot of mean things but also is nice..

omg ..why in the world did you cutt!! especilly ovr some guy! dont listen to wat your friends tell you or other ppl because they arnt always right and its not wat they want you to do its wat you want to do! make sure he really means this.. make sure he isnt just saying and askin u to forgive him so make sure hes serious about this tho! i would give him another chance and if he does it again then i seriously wouldnt forgive him but do what evr yu think is best! x0

Hey Guys... I'm 17 Years old... and I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who ive been with for 5 months... I had my period the first of this month and it lasted about 5 days... and thats pretty normal... But my boobs are starting to hurt.. and I feel like I'm getting fatter... I'm scared.. is there any way i can be pregnant???

:(

well you might be but you might not you never kno.. take that pregnacy test thingy just to make sure! x0

i cry all the time. and im sick of it. i wish i could stop but i cant, i dont know what to do. i want it to be so that i dont cry at all. or not every day atleast. i feel so weak and helpless when i do. is there any way for me to stop or am i just stuck with it forever? i know this is a stupid question to ask but i really need help with this...

well it depends on what you cry about? what do you cry about? just anything or wat? well if its somethin and if you have a reason then its not that big of a deal.. every1 cryes but maybe you could hang out with ur friends more and try to be more happier! x0

Why do guys care so much if a girl has big boobs and butts? they don't even care about if your pretty or about your personality?

hmm who knows.. but not all dudes r like that.. some guys just want some ass so yea! x0

ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh

l0l to me it seems like he has a lil crush on you! there is no right way to flirt but do whatever you`ve been doing! i think he might no that you have a lil crush on him to but i think that you should tell your friend because its not good to hide it from her its better to tell her now then for out herself later! but wen you see him flirt with him!! l0l im sure you know how to do that it comes natrually hehe!! good luck ! x0

well ma b/f is acting like a jerk... he never has time for me and he is always tellin me about other grlzz.. it gets me soo pissedd... i hate taht hes liek this... and now when eva hes with his friends he is hella mean... also he hits me i have no idea what to do he is makeing me rally sad and i just started cuttin myself cuz of him.. please help me....

omg no! i beg you dont cut! but anyways you need to break up with him imidietly! please.. he doesnt deserve you at all and u defenetly dont deserve some1 like him cuz hes a jerk and you need better! he is defenetly not worth shit or for you to be cutting your self and for you to be sad! even tho if you really like him i think you should still break up with him because hes so rude and no one should ever hit you! you can find a wayyy better guy who wont treat you like that!! but please .. break up with him and dont ever ever ever cutt !! its not worth it and think abut it and if your freinds find out or something its not a good thing.. x0

Hi Teza. Well I have a sugggestion. I think that you should break up with Brad because he seems rude and he doesnt treat you right. You deserve better because you are really pretty and you need someone who can treat you better. I`m not trying to be rude or anything by saying this but I think it's true. I know all the bullshit that you have to go through but you dont seem happy. I don't know if it's because of him, but still make up your mind. Bye.

okay.. why is every1 is putting all this shit in mi colum about brad? wth is up with this .. why do all u ppl care how the fuk anybody treats me? but o well thx anyways! x0

is it bad to go out with some one if that some ones best friend likes you? Diane-age 13-female

No, not bad.

15/m a few days ago my friend asked me if i would mind if he asked out my ex-g/f and i said no because i didnt really care but ever since they started going out, i started to like my ex again. i dont know what to do. please help.

its normal to feel a lil jelous so try to find urself another g/f so u dont think about her anymore x0

i bought this libgloss thing... and well it's labeled TEN as the brand... does that mean it stays on for 10 hours???
plz help! i rate high!

l0l no its just the brand! i wish there was a lipgloss that stays for 1o hours tho ! x0

My dog urinates on my mothers pillow every few weeks I have no idea why. Can you give me any ideas why? Thanks. (PS- we have no other pets)

well is he trained.. he might not like ur mom .. hmm l0l maybe u should get it trained

Me and my mom are just not close. I can't talk about anything to her and she has never told me that she loves me. How can we get closer? If I try and talk to her about anything, like boys or make up, she just gets this look on her face, this kinda stupid grin. And then she tells me to shut up. What do I do?

same here with me n my mom but its worse... tell her that you want to spend more time with her and tell her how yu feel once again! x0

You see my best friend has this boy bofreind right. And to me she is spending way more time with him then me. Thats the only person she talks about to. I have been her best friend since the 4th grade he just been her bf for a couple of months. What should I do?

o0 that must suck! i think that you should tell her how you feel since you guys are best freinds! x0

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