Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 10:36 pm
15/m a few days ago my friend asked me if i would mind if he asked out my ex-g/f and i said no because i didnt really care but ever since they started going out, i started to like my ex again. i dont know what to do. please help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Greenday56889 answered Saturday February 19 2005, 4:05 pm: This is a sign of jeliousy its ok everyone does once in there life.! If you like your ex talk to your friend who is goin out with him/her. then im sure he will understand . Maybe you should talk to your friend and tell him/her how you feel and then ask if you could tell your ex. Maybe she has feelings for you just dosent want to hurt anyone! well sry if this is confuesing! lol
Teza answered Friday February 18 2005, 8:15 pm: its normal to feel a lil jelous so try to find urself another g/f so u dont think about her anymore x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
CraziForRey619 answered Friday February 18 2005, 7:29 pm: You should never let your friend date one of your ex's. It is the biggest way to destroy a good friendship. But I would just allow your feelings to pass. Normally that happens when you see your ex and your friend with eachother because you realize that your jealous. Trust me, once you get back with her its not going to be that great. Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
Karen answered Friday February 18 2005, 3:44 pm: You need to talk to your friend and tell him that you still like his girlfriend, your ex. It's great that he asked you if he could go out with your ex-girlfriend because not a lot of people do that. Don't say or do anything that might affect their relationship, since you were the one who said he could go out with her. Try to forget about your ex, and start talking to other girls. You will eventually stop liking your ex-girlfriend, once you realize that she is taken. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Friday February 18 2005, 8:25 am: It's probably just a case of wanting what you can't have. Her going out with him means that it's definately the end of the relationship - you can't get back together now. Even if you think you don't care, that'll most likely mean something to you, even subconsciously.
It all depends on how long you guys have been broken up. Under a month - I'd say have a word with your friend, tell him not to kinda 'flaunt' his new girlfriend around in front of you, or to talk about her too much, just until you've had some time to get over her. Over a month - get out there, find some girls and have a couple of quick, no-strings relationships (make sure you find girls who want that too) and have some fun!! You'll get over her in time, but there's nothing that will make it happen faster. Just remember to always look on the bright side and try not to wallow in it :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
DrummeR4LifE answered Friday February 18 2005, 1:51 am: Its fine, your probably just alittle jelouce or maybe you still like her and (which ever broke up) you don't know why you did. But hey! he asked you and i think thats pretty good. But talk to him if you think you really still like her and maybe you two can work something out.
h.i.h. [ DrummeR4LifE's advice column | Ask DrummeR4LifE A Question ]
shake answered Thursday February 17 2005, 11:44 pm: You cant do a thing because you said it was okay. Wait for them to break up then go out with her. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday February 17 2005, 11:37 pm: Well, their going out...and you cant do anything about it. Dont worry, you'll find a new girl to like soon! Just get your ex out of your mind and talk to other girls and stuff...pretty soon you'll find someone else to like! Think about any friends that are girls, or people you know that you might be open to start a relationship with or get to know better=) [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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