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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

sux my dick please

Suck it yourself.

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whats a virgaina supose 2 look like....???
i think mine looks wierd....can u please tell me??

Watch some porn.

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Just a random question :)

You know those jelly bracelets? The thin kind that come in colors like black, red, pink, white, etc.? Well I've heard that they mean different stuff i.e. black= had sex. So I'm just wondering, what do the other colors mean?

Thanks :)

everyone always makes up their own meaning but i found this on the internet ..

black:sex
blue:blow job
green:cunnilingus
clear:whatever!
Orange:kiss
yellow:hug
red:lap dance
purple:doggy style
silver:fisting
white:flash the chest
Pink:flashing
gold:make out

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for some odd reason.. i start to cry when i see people helping me, answering me questions. i dont even cry in the saddest movies.. or if a friend does something that hurts me. maybe its because seeing people who care who i dont even know are helping me more than any of my friends or anyone i know would. any more thoughts?

I think that you cry because a l0t of people want to help you and they care and sometimes a lil bit more then your friends. Just member that everyone here is here to help ya! =) x0

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I have one of these, and it's great, except for the pressure sensitivity thing. When I'm trying to digitally ink a drawing, the sensitivity creates wavy, inconsitant lines. Is there a way to switch it off?

huh ? ok

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i got a new computer i can donwload a free music site but it wont let me search for a song why not?

what do yu have? try downloading something else.. i have limewire and it works really good so maybe try downloading that! x0

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ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything..

You didn't have sex and you're not pregnant.

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Well, I'm a little unsure if I should be upset or not.
Okay. Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and I found out a few months ago that I was not his "first" (talking about making out.) He was mine without a doubt. But it's not just that i'm not his first that upsets me, it's with who. It's this girl from another school named elena. She's a slut and she knows it. My boyfriend "didn't even like her" he claims. But, what concerns me is that if he didn't like her, what if he made out with me and he "doesn't even like me." Am I upset over a stupid thing? Because if I am I want to not ruin our relationship over something so stupid.
Once again,
Retro_Romance

dont worry so much. who cares if he kissed another girl before its not a big deal and its not like hes cheating on you or something. but he obviously likes u because u guys have been going out for 6 months ! x0

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Whenever I am done with school, I go to track. After track practice, I go home and get home by around 5:00. I eat dinner, then watch some shows and go on the computer (like now, but it's only to get advice!). I end up starting my homework at 9:00 PM, setting my alarm for 5:00 to finish it, sleep through my alarm, and wake up at 6:00 with no time to do my homework. I always finish it on the bus and get off the hook, but I really want to stop and do my homework right away! How can I do my homework with plenty time to spare?

when you watch tv then do your homework! its way easier and its not as boring! thats how i do my homework! you can also do your homework while ur on the computer to! x0

- no seriously like dont watch it like watch it but just keep the tv on and turn the volumme down and just do ur hw. x0

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For me, high school relationships are about gaining experience and finding what you want in a relationship. But, what happens when you find exactly what you want your first try? And, do we ever really get over anything?

Well if you find exactly what you want then I hope it works out for you and do what ever it takes not to let that person go. im not in highschool tho but yes you do get over things! x0

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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever

there is a chance but then there isnt. when you get a lil older you will start to like other guys and you never kno if something might go wrong! dont keep ur hopes up but you never know! i hope it works out with you n him for a looong time! x0

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ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and we still havnt had sex, he had never given me a reason for it.. until my frustration forced me to have a chat with him about it and he said 'to be honest its because... the 'soldier' doesnt always stand on command' im 15 and he is only 18 is this normal?? can anything be done about it!?

uhm first of all he can get sent to jail because hes 18 and well ur 15 .. seconds.. ur kinda too young and think about it you dont wanna have any regrets later on !

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im 14 with a 2 year old 1/2 sister. i love her to death but sometimes i get fed up. i only see her every other weekend but if im trying to do my homework shes always trying to play with me. I feel bad to leave her, and i always feel im obligated to stay. my dad and stepmom dont really help no matter how much i stress i need to do my home work

well if you see her every other weekend then play with her for a lil bit and then do your hw! tell your parents to take her away from you for a lil bit until ur done with ur homework! x0

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Okay i have this best friend whos a boy people are spreading rumors bout him and me dat aren't true i tell them and tell them but they keep spredaing new ones* Like we where going out since 3rd Grade* and he comes over muh house to hang out you know* and that's y they spread them* do you have any idea how i can stop them from it?

you really cant make them people stop but just ignore what they say and laugh at it. i hate when people do that tho! dont let it bother you because people can say whatever they want and you know its not true! x0

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wut does lylas mean and how do u make those hearts?

lylas means love ya like a sis and

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Okay one of my best guy friends is home for vacation. And I really like him like alot but he doesnt know (like no one told him). And I want to go to the movies with him tonight but his cell phone and computer arent working. So should I call his house (even though we hardly ever talk on the phone and if we do its on his cell phone) and if so what should I say?
ps. I would also like to invite his best friend who is home for vacatino also
PLEASE HELP I RATE REALLY HIGH!

yes call him and just say hey u wanna go out to the movies tonight with so and so.. and next time go alone l0l x0

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I have this friend who loves boyz everywhere we go even if its a geek she goes up to him* she's been doing this ever since her gradma died* is it because of her or just the way she is growing up?¿*

i dont think its because of her grandma i think its just the way she is! every girl loves boys tho l0l

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this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery*

i think that you should tell your friends how you feel because it might make them think and maybe acually stop. i also kno a lot of ppl that smoke n drink n shit and its also cuz it makes them forget about problems but sometimes its really hard for your freinds to stop. i mean you really cant make them stop. its really their decision but tell you friends how you feel and maybe you can help them stop x0

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I think I've finally decided to tell the guy that I like, how I feel about him. The only problem is, I'm not sure what to say. We're old friends and he's shy and I don't want it to be anymore akward than it has to be. I need some ideas on what to say and some encouragement.

just tell him straight up! i think he will be exited that you told him because he probably likes you to! talk to him online about it if you dont wanna tell him in person ! x0

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Dear Teza,
I have a new Dog this is my 2nd one.What should i name it? It's A Greman Shepard*

Signed,Need A Name*

hi uhm! o0 gosh! im not that good with names but i will think of some and il ask other ppl so il get back to ya soon ! sry! x0

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