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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

Hi, i am new to this place but i do have a question. I am a 20 yr old male.My girlfriend wants to be friends cause she does't have the time in her schedule. She doesn't call it breaking up. And i feel like huh? When did she first feel like this. And now i am doing my best to get her out of my head but i still like her very much but i don't want to talk to her about it cause shes tired of hearing it. So for now i have been staying away from her. Ever since then i have been in a depressed phase and i am cranky as hell, but i do not think she cares enough about me as i do her, cause it seems her life and career are more important than i am to her. Can you tell me what i should do?

i think that you should move on. i know that you really like her but you need to move on. you need to find yourself a better girl who will acaully have time for u and other things. dont worry about it to much because you will find someone else that you like. x0

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there's this girl....i just know we would be really good friends because she kind of acts like me...i really want to be her friend, but i don't know how without being odd. The most we talked was yesterday, but that wasn't for too long...any advice is appreciated!!!

when you see her at school talk to her.. dont be shy because i dont think she would mind. be yourself! x0

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Ok, there is this guy in my class. I really really like him, cuz hes a good guy and stuff. But each time I try to talk to him he just looks at me and turns red and acts like he doesnt even know me. Does he like me or does he just hate me?

I think he has a crush on you.

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omg one of my best friends is getting on my nerves. ok well her other best friend that isnt really close to me was getting on our nerves cuz she was following abbey (best friend) everywhere. and she always had to be the center of attention. then me and my friend started ignorring her and it made me loose alot of friends. now abbey is friends again with her...and i really dont want to loose abbey but what if she does that to me? i really need some help . ThanKs

tell abbey that you dont wanna loose your friendship over that other girl. you shouldnt of ignored her tho... but try becoming friends with the other girl to! x0

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This summer, this girl moved across the street from me. It's been six months and we've been best friends ever since. For the past month or two she has been annoying me and we get into arguements like every day. She copies everything everyone does... it's likes she can't even be herself. Im not even sure I really know her. Not to mention... she thinks it's my fault that I get mad at the things she does. I don't not wanna be friends with her! What do I do?

tell her that the stuff she does annoy you! i dont think that you should stop being friends with her but take a lil brake from each other! x0

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Okay well I have been talking with this guy for almost 2 weeks now he lives in a different city about 20 min away (which isn't a problem). He is 19 (i am 14) he doesn't mind it and neither do I.. He is a great guy and I call him every night.. He came down last Saturday so we could "hang out" we did some stuff (making out.. ect. lol) I REALLY like him.. But I dont know if he likes me???

2/23/05

Since you guys made out, I'm guessing he likes you.

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ok
i dont feel comfetable around my friend...she is really cool and like it seems like i have to be perfect around her. like today she wasnt feeling good and i didnt no what to say. and its not like she isnt a real friend cuz she used to be easy to talk to and stuff and now its like umm...weird. ive tryed talking to her and she just says oh i luv you why would i be mad. please dont tell me shes not my real friend cuz she is ..
i just want to no how to make it rite
tHaNkS

Tell her how you feel.

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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?

o0 god ! go to the doctor and you need to call the police and tell them what happened! you need to get that loser out of your life because he doesnt deserve you! i hope everythign works out! x0

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Ok my dad lives in Atlanta Georgia and he doesnt send me anything like money and he said he would.I want a flip phone and my mom wont get it for me and i wanna ask my dad can he send me some money so i can get one. Is that being rude??? he needs 2 start sending me it or my mom is really going 2 get mad. So how do i tell him all this????
well thanx
signed,
Dont Know What To Do

noits not rude to ask ur dad for money i mean hes your dad and he should give you money so when you talk to him tell him that you would like a flip phone and if he could send you some money! x0

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okay, my friend is asking this question not me, she wants to know if the gyno can tell if you masturbate. She is going today and she masturbates but doesnt want her mom to know.

No.

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Hey! My boyfriend and I have been going out for ten months in March, and I really think that him and I are in love. Not just in a physical sense, but him and I connect mentally. We both really enjoy intellectual discussions about anything and everything. We can talk about any problems that we're having and the other can almost always relate. We can stay on the phone for hours at a time and not get bored, and both of us are extremely loyal to the other. We're just like best friends excluding the romance part. We're really close. The only thing is, sometimes it gets so discouraging when people say we're too young to be in love. I know we're both in love with each other, but other than getting married when we're able to (He and I are both fourteen), how can we deal with annoying old people who think love can only be understood at a certain age? Thanks in advance.

people dont know what they are talking about and they dont know how old you have to be in love. just worry about you and him and not what they say it really doesnt matter! it matters what u n him think ! x0

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Ok, Me and this guy just hooked up yesterday. Well today at school I didn't seem him very much and everytime we would talk he was like why arent you talking to me and i was like well i havent seen you and stuff like that. But still everytime he asks me that. what should I do. Please answer soon I need to know what you guys this for tomorrow

just tell himt hat you dont see him enough at school and find another way to talk to him. call him after school or talk online! x0

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i need quotes and not those crapy ones what iz a good site

www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net but that is closed and the owener opened a new site and the link will be there also try http://www.preciouscreationz.cjb.net/

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whore ur just a sluty bitch/whore/hooker

That's nice.

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it's yo boy guess*

No.

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Is Codeine bad for you if you take it when you don't need it, like if you take it just to get high or whatever? If it is bad, what does it do specifically that is harmful?

Yes.

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i have recently had a coldsaw but my girlfriend wants me to give her oral sex but im concerned that if it is not gone completely she may get infected. is it safe?

No, it's not. Wait until it's completly gone.

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my mom said she would buy me birth control pills and to just tell her if me and my boyfriend are gonna ahve sex because she knows him and she likes him and weve been together for a while...were thinkin about it but i just wanted to know how effective against pregnancy is a birth control pill?? is it safe to use a condom AND birth control at the same time? and should i just tell my mom or just do it behind her back because i heard you have to go to the doctor to get the pills...thats embarassing

Yes its safe and i think its acually better if ur on both because thers a less chance that you can get pregnant! i think that you should tell your mom and dont be embarassed to go to the doctor its acaully no big deal but ur mom will have to be there with you x0

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i am deeply in love with a girl, im 13m and shes 13f, but the thing is i will never be able to go out with her or even get to see her that much. this is all because i moved away, and when i say moved i mean like far far away. after knowing her for a year and loving her for about half of that time, i can just never get her outta my head or stop thinkin about her. she knows how i feel about her but i only get small chances to evre see her agian. but i personally think shes the one... i have no clue wat to do... and i wont give her up...

aw! well try keeping in contact with her as much possible. talk to her on the fone and aim and try to hangout during the summer or any vacaction. if its true love then im sure you guys will find a way to be together! x0

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When you eat lolly pops dye gets all over your lips. Does anyone know how to get rid of this? I have blue all over my lips and it's kinda embarrassing. So, does anyone know how to fix this? I'll rate.

Wash your face with water and soap.

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