Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 5:46 pm
This summer, this girl moved across the street from me. It's been six months and we've been best friends ever since. For the past month or two she has been annoying me and we get into arguements like every day. She copies everything everyone does... it's likes she can't even be herself. Im not even sure I really know her. Not to mention... she thinks it's my fault that I get mad at the things she does. I don't not wanna be friends with her! What do I do?
x0xdearachelx0x answered Thursday February 24 2005, 3:30 pm: Just tell her to change or she's not your friend anymore. Tell her you dont believe in her being someone else and that you think she should really be herself. If she doesnt listen and gets all mad then she's not a real friend. A real friend woulld value what you have to say and what you think.
Teza answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 7:50 pm: tell her that the stuff she does annoy you! i dont think that you should stop being friends with her but take a lil brake from each other! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:54 pm: I had, well used to have, a friend just like yours and she used to copy me with everything and so on. If you don't want to be friends with your friend anymore, then you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel about the way she copies you and blames everything on you. You don't deserve a friend like this girl. If you think that you still want to be friends with this girl but just want her to stop copying you, then you just need to tell her straight up that she needs to be herself and her own individual and not be just like you. Nothing is going to change unless you tell your friend how you feel.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
SiLenTxfAiRy answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:49 pm: well, obviously your going to get annoyed with eachother if you see eachother every waking moment of the day. thats a given. alls you need to do is tell her straight up that you need your space, that you need to be by yourself and she just needs to back off a bit. dont break off the friendship, just take a break. [ SiLenTxfAiRy's advice column | Ask SiLenTxfAiRy A Question ]
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