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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion.




"I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, or where I'm gonna wind up. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next."





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Hey, my boyfriend and I are real greatt ogether but the thing is. he keeps teasing me like calling me dork and stuff. It seems like hes joking, which i dont mind but. HE DOES ALL THE TIME. and then think its cute when i get mad..i dont like it. i dont know how to tell him i dont like it without making him feel like i hate him or something. Plus i once told him he can call me
his lil black slave cuz it turns me on (hes white im black) but he says it too much. but i hate it...and he likes to spank my butt. idk what to do...he's too kinky.

ok well first off if you don't like him to your butt and you tell him to stop and he doesn't that is ual harassment.


anyways,i would tell him that you don't like it when he calls you these things. if he doesn't listen to you and keeps it up, im sorry hunn, he's not a good boyfriend and i most certainly would dump him.

good luck!♥

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is it normal to get your period once a month for only 3 days?

yup.

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ok theres this guy, cory, iv always liked/loved we've been through alot togeather he was always there when i needed him we were like best friends, but im afraid that thats all we will ever be, i have a boyfriend (but he dosnt even compare to how much i like cory), and he has a girlfriend and it seems like they love eachother, but sometimes the get into relly bad fights, they date on and off, i think he dersirves better and i think i could be the one that treats him right but i dont want to tell him anything because im afraid that it will ruin our friendship can anyone help me?

woww i was in the exact situation like a month ago.


i'll tell you what i did..


first off i broke up with my boyfriend because i liked my friend alot more and even though i didn't know if my friend felt the same way i had to break up with him because i couldn't stop thinking about my friend and it just didn't feel right. then i told my friend my feelings and i told him that if he didn't like me i wanted our friendship to keep going. turns out he did like me =)



well that's my story but anyways my point is you should tell him he deserves better and you can treat him better. if he doesn't like you or thinks you're wrong about his friend then that's his problem.


take the chance. i doubt it will ruin your friendship if you guys are close. =)

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One of my bestfriends has like tons of guy friends (and alot of them are really hot) they always come up and talk to her. When they come over to her i dont know what to say to make them notice me too!! help with some convo. starters that arent like so how are you and hows it going! ha ha ha!!!

well..if she's your best friend you should just ask her to introduce them to you.


after that try and start a conversation ask what music they like or what they're interested in or something.


it's really not that hard just by outgoing and nice..they'll catch on! =)

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about a year and a half ago i did something so stupid. i cut a strand of hair in front of my head thinking it was no big deal because i just wanted it gone. then i realized it would grow back. so i shaved it but then i let it grow for awhile..then i couldnt take it and tweezed it.. that lasted for awhile but then recently i couldnt stand the random baby hairs i had in the front of my head from tweezing it so i shaved them off. you think i wouldve learned after one time..but no. so now im stuck shaving this area of stubble in the front of my head 2 times a day..which gives me razor burn and since its on my head it looks like acne. i just dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions of how to undo this mess?

stop shaving it. you're just going to keep making it worse.


it may look bad now so just try to wear a hat or bandana or something to cover it up.


then eventually it will grow back to normal and the burning will stop =)

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16/f and I can admit that I can be a bit spoiled/bratty at times but I've been trying to work on it. I really have.


Well, my boyfriend, and I know he doesn't do this to be mean, sometimes calls me things or says things to me about the way I act that really hurt. For example, when I try to get my way (like with what movie we see) he always says "Of course, princess!" and turns away. Well, you'd think that sounds nice, right? NOT.


He started calling me "princess" when he was over at my house once and I was mad because some family thing. When I walked out of the room, my sister and him were talking (so I listen in on conversations, who doesn't) about how if things don't go my way, I think it's the end of the world; like I'm a "little princess".


It pisses me off so much when he does this because he KNOWS that I'm trying to get better. But it doesn't help when he calls me that because I know what it means. And he knows that I know what it means too because I've tried to talk to him about it. He'd stop for like a week and then start saying it again. What can I say or do that'll get it through his head?

i personally don't think he's being a good boyfriend.


i think you should tell him that he should be trying to help you and not make it worse by calling you names. if he doesn't listen then, i don't know about you, but i would definetly break up with him because he is making your goal harder for you and boyfriends aren't suppose to do that.


hope i helped! ♥

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i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person?

ok well first off, you are definetly NOT a horrible person. everyone makes mistakes that's life.


some symptoms of miscarriage are blood clots, or a sac-like structure is seen. their are others but i don't really know them. if you want to know more about miscarriages then you can go to google and type in "miscarriages" or "symptoms of miscarriages"


lastily, how to tell people that you're pregnant. you said your family is good friends with his. if their that good of friends they would help you both with the baby, if you had it. you should just tell your parents that you're really sorry and regret doing this. tell your parents everything you said here because you're going to have to tell them sooner or later. hiding your pregnancy is NOT good for your health at all!


good luck!
if you need any other help let me know
ill be glad to help! ♥





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well there are many hospitals. im not sure their is a specific one because i don't really know where you live and what's around you. try asking like a friend that lives where you that you trust. if you can drive (you said you were 16 but i dont know if you have a license) then you can drive to the main hospital and ask them, they will probably know something.

hope i helped!

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I have light brown hair, blue eyes, and light skin. I need to know what color eyeliner is best for me and how i should apply it, and what kind i should get. Also, what color mascara and what kind do you reccomend (brands, etc.)

their isn't really a color eyeliner that is best for anyone..it's just what you like on you the best =)



well if it helps i have dirty hair blue eyes and semi-tan skin and i use dark brown or light blue eyeliner.



for mascara i use covergirl multiplying mascara or covergirl waterproof mascara. it looks really good! why not give it a try?




hope i helped!
hit up the inbox for other questions
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ok so i need a quick effective work out that will get my abs looking a little better in a short amount of time! thx

i do 100 curl-ups every night.



then i do those things were you lay down on your back then lift your feet up about like 2-3 inches off the ground and hold them there for a minute. (i dont know exactly what they're called sorry)


these workouts may seem a little hard at first (well they were hard for me at first) but if you keep practicing you'll get it!



hope i helped!
anything else
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ok, so my hair is half wavy half straight, but its not like the bottom's wavy & the tops not. i just have like, one or 2 big ugly waves. idk you'd have to see it its hard to explain. so i straighten my hair every day because if i dont it looks like crap. sometimes it stays straight all day but usually it doesn't, so i get this big wave in the back, like its in the shape of an inprint of my neck. it looks horrible. what are some ways i could help this from happening? thanks

i think it's your straightner.


you should get a new straightner and get it at like a hair salon or something.


while you're there you can also talk to them about which one is best for you!



hope i helped!
any other questions
hit up the inbox!
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Ok, There is this Boy that I like in My acting Class. and I think he likes me but I'm not sure.
Like I catch him starring at me alot and even when I look at him he is still staring but somtimes then he just looks away. Ok, and we talk alot. And he never arugued with me like he did with the other kids. Ok,
and This time I was smilling at him B/c we had 2 put on costums and I laughed he smiled too, what? he asked I said nothing, and he said what again, and I turned away and walked away laughing and he followed me kept saying what what what? laughing then my friends showd up and said "OMG (his name)!" he annoyed them I only laughed and he was wearing a hat so I pulled it over his face! was that flirting? does he like me? I dont even know what I am asking. so what?

well...he probably likes you. but don't just assume because thats only my opinion and i can't read his mind. that sort of sounds like flirting to me.


Or maybe he doesn't like you. Maybe he just likes you as a friend.



The only way to know for sure is to ask him. Go give it a shot he is probably waiting for you to make the first move! ;)

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i like this guy....(duuhh) ok uhh and we were pretty good friends but we had this fight(he told me he loved me and i acted kinda weird /mean) and he never talked to me since than! then i called him and appologized but he only was like:uhu yeah blablabla ok and i do like him and everytime i see him he lookes at me today he even smiled once but i thought that was just because he was laughing at a joke...and at the bus today he looked at me in a sad kinda way....and i wanna be friends again but im just scared that when i talk to him again he'll be like all weird again
so what should i say? and how should i act when he's weird?? does he still like me cause he also never talkes to me??
please help

i'll rate!!!

maybe when he said that he loved you and you acted kinda weird/mean he thought that was a sign that you didn't want to be friends anymore..


try apologizing again...make it sound like you really mean it. tell him that you use to love his friendship and that you really don't wanna lose it over something stupid.


if he's still being weird then you should just straight out ask him why is he acting weird and tell him how much you want everything to go back to normal

hope i helped!
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so theres these two boys... i like them both.. but im confused abt both of them. lets call one of the boys Bob.. Bob goes to school with me, hes a 9th grader, im a tenth. He tells my friends he likes me and hes told me and we dont talk that much. and we absolutely never talk in school, i guess hes kinda shy. Boy 2.. lets call him Fred. I met fred when i went to taco bell. he works there. ive seen him like once and then he found me on myspace and we've been talkin ever since. hes talked to my bestfriend and wants to go out with me.. and i do like him too. and he lives closer to me. ok well anyways. i like both of them and i dont know what to do or how to sort this out cause im soo confused!! plz help!! ill rate 5s for anything

well personally i would go with whoever i can see more if you like them both equally the same.


this is one of those times where you have to make a decision by yourself i can't help much with that but i can say if you like shy guys go with 'bob' and 'fred' seems more outgoing so if you like outgoing guys more then go with him follow your heart :]


hope i helped
good luck! ♥

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16/f

i REALLY REALLY like this boy. hes soo cute and nice. i talk to him online kind of alot but we never really talk in school. hes a year older so i dont have any classes with him. and when we pass each other in the halls we never say hi. he says that hes kinda shy when it comes to talking to girls and im the same way when it comes to guys. i want to invite him to the movies but i dont want him to think that im being too forward cause i dont know how he feels about me. and i dont want to invite more friends cause i want to it to be just me and him. but i want to start talking to him in school too. so what do i do?

wow i know how you feel i was in this exact same situation once..well i would just be really outgoing most guys like outgoing s because well..they're fun to be around :] since you said you never talk to him in the halls you can talk to him online about hanging out then you should let him know that you've never talked in school before and maybe once you start talking to him, he'll realize how outgoing you are and he'll feel more comfortable talking back to you! good luck hope i helped! ♥

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I have applesauce for AIM but if you see a font color that you really like from someone else's profile, how can you copy the exact same color so it's your default color. And I'm not talking about a color that looks like it, I mean the exact color.

the only thing i have is to ask the person who has that color in their profile what the code for that color is. if they don't have it im sure one of the color charts might have it. if you need a color chart website let me know and ill give it to you! hope i helped! ♥

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so theres this girl in my class who used to be my best friend in elementary school. of course im 13 and we're in 7th grade now. so anyways sometimes shes really nice to me and we have a good time together.. but lately shes been hassling me about my clothing? idk probably just becase i dont buy everything from abercrombie. i have some stuff but i have mostly a variety of clothing brands. so today i had this new outfit which was really cute, and she kept giving me this horrible look and asking me questions about it.. and then she was talking about me becuz of my clothes? i have no idea what this girls problem is, but right now i dont know if i should still be her friend or if i should ignore her..

5's for any answers =]

ok well from this point of view it seems like she only wants to be seen with you because she has to like what you're wearing..i dont know if thats true or not im not judging anyone because i dont know her. but if she is then she's not a good friend. maybe she was giving you a horrible look because she's just jealous? im not sure. but if she keeps acting like this i dont think you should be her friend anymore because she wouldnt be acting like one to you.

good luck!♥

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i cant listen to any music on the internet because i dont have some sort of program? but idont know what it is because i used to be able to listen to music on myspace but now i cant, does anyone know the software/program that i need to download in order to listen to music? please help! i will rate anyone a 5 if they help!!!

you can go to www.launch.yahoo.com and sign up there or you can go to itunes and buy songs off there and then you can listen to them. that's all i really got. hope this helped!

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My boyfriend is getting "confermation"(sorry about spelling guys!!) and i am invited to his party.. I was wonderin, hes realy religous, well not a freak about it but he truely beleives in god. anyways, would it be stupid to give him a congrads card with will 10-20 bucks in it? If so how much money???

Let me know asap!
Thanks bunches you guys!

~meg~

Ps. It doesnt matter how long we've been going out so dont ask. We've been going out for 2 1/2 months but we were best friends, and i mean best friends since 6th grade. and i mean best friends.

thanks.

of course it wouldn't be stupid to give him a card with 10-20 dollars. it's nice of you and im sure he'll like it! hope i helped you.

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Aside from flowers poems letters notes what are good ways to win a girls heart. I mean really melt her heart. We broke up but I still love her. I dont want to lose her. Any ideas. I ran out of ideas. Something(s) a girl cant resist. Im not good with what women desire or what melts there heart. Your advice tips etc will be highly appreciated and I will rate you high.

just tell her how you feel about her and how you don't want to lose her. tell her that you would do anything to get her back. a lot of s just like it when you talk sweet to them.

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Why is it that when I shave my legs I can still see dark small circles where the hair used to be?

Is there any way to make them stop appearing?
Does this happen to anyone else?


Please help.

i've never heard of that before..maybe it's your razor? im not sure though. try switching razors and if it still happens i would go see a doctor. hope i helped you!

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