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i think i love him but i cant do anything
ok theres this guy, cory, iv always liked/loved we've been through alot togeather he was always there when i needed him we were like best friends, but im afraid that thats all we will ever be, i have a boyfriend (but he dosnt even compare to how much i like cory), and he has a girlfriend and it seems like they love eachother, but sometimes the get into relly bad fights, they date on and off, i think he dersirves better and i think i could be the one that treats him right but i dont want to tell him anything because im afraid that it will ruin our friendship can anyone help me?
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woww i was in the exact situation like a month ago.
i'll tell you what i did..
first off i broke up with my boyfriend because i liked my friend alot more and even though i didn't know if my friend felt the same way i had to break up with him because i couldn't stop thinking about my friend and it just didn't feel right. then i told my friend my feelings and i told him that if he didn't like me i wanted our friendship to keep going. turns out he did like me =)
well that's my story but anyways my point is you should tell him he deserves better and you can treat him better. if he doesn't like you or thinks you're wrong about his friend then that's his problem.
take the chance. i doubt it will ruin your friendship if you guys are close. =)
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first of all sweetie- you spelled deserves wrong seond of all- if you like someone other then your boyfriend its not fair of you to date him while you have feelings for someone else. and thirdly you have to choose between friendship and romance if you really think this thing with cory will work out and your willing to risk the friendship then go for it. if not then just stay friends but follow your heart its the best advice giver out there
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Tell him that you think he deserves better.
Let him know that you have noticed that he isn't being treated right.
Maybe be a bit more affectionate towards him but not over the board to start off with.
Drop a few hints before you start anything...just start off slow.
Take him to his favourtie places and give him a really good time. Show him that you are the right girl for him.
he'll appreciate what your doing for him and he will notice you a lot more...who knows he may like you as well!
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Well honestly,
if you have a boyfriend,
and he has a girlfriend.
You need to leave them alone,
you can be friends, but nothing more.
Never mess with someone when they are in a relationship.
You may think she doesnt treat him right, but I mean if he didnt like her, he'd dump her.
And we always tell ourselfs we would treat someone better, but theres always someone saying the same thing. you know? =/
You are right dont tell him it will most likely ruin your current relationship with your boyfriend if he finds out, and your relationship with Cory - he will be weirded out, especially since he's in a relationship and really dont confuse him.
<3
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