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confused by 2 boys

Question Posted Monday May 1 2006, 6:16 pm

so theres these two boys... i like them both.. but im confused abt both of them. lets call one of the boys Bob.. Bob goes to school with me, hes a 9th grader, im a tenth. He tells my friends he likes me and hes told me and we dont talk that much. and we absolutely never talk in school, i guess hes kinda shy. Boy 2.. lets call him Fred. I met fred when i went to taco bell. he works there. ive seen him like once and then he found me on myspace and we've been talkin ever since. hes talked to my bestfriend and wants to go out with me.. and i do like him too. and he lives closer to me. ok well anyways. i like both of them and i dont know what to do or how to sort this out cause im soo confused!! plz help!! ill rate 5s for anything

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drama_queen_101 answered Monday May 1 2006, 7:01 pm:
ok then, well first off, which do you know better, LOL, fred or bob(im laughing cause the names, not the question) and then try to figure out which 1 you get along more with, and which 1 of them do you click with and feel more comfortable around. and make sure their faithful and that they r both gonna b there 4 you no matter what. if you havent got trust then you havent got anything. thats what i always say. and remember, love is faithful, love is kind, love is patient and never jealous, love is comfortable, and when you find the right person, love is wonderful. and when your dating someone, its just being ur self with someone else.which guy is your heart telling you to go out with? and remember, dont try to make urself seem desperate at all, thats the last thing a guy wants to c in a girl. it makes them seem easy to get and vulnerable.i hope i helped. ;)

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coconutcatastrophe answered Monday May 1 2006, 6:32 pm:
well personally i would go with whoever i can see more if you like them both equally the same.

this is one of those times where you have to make a decision by yourself i can't help much with that but i can say if you like shy guys go with 'bob' and 'fred' seems more outgoing so if you like outgoing guys more then go with him follow your heart :]

hope i helped
good luck! ♥

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Sapphire_Lily answered Monday May 1 2006, 6:29 pm:
Personally I think you should go for Fred. Not only do you talk to him more but he's closer which means you'll probably be able to see him more often which is very important in a relationship. Plus he isn't at school which means you'll both have lots of things to talk about which you won't know, unlike Bob who may already know some stuff that has happened at school.

However if you are still undecided, here's a little test to help you decide. Pluck up the courage and ask them both out on a date. One on one night and the other the next night. Go to exactly the same place and try to do everything the same as you did before. Then you will be able to see who you click better with and who you enjoy being round more. Cruel I know, but a truly effective way of seeing who is better for you.

Good luck

Sapphire Lily xxx

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