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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp!

I know someone who didnt get it until they were seventeen, and she was healthy and everything, she just got it later. That could be the same with you, or you might be sick...Go to the doctor deffinitly and just double check to make sure that your ok. Your doctor can probably tell you when you will get it....Good Luck!
~Brina~

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Hi,
I was wondering if anyone can pick some randon screennames that would be good to make. I don't care what they are. I just want a few ideas. Thank you so much! :-)

Here are a few websites you can go to, they have lists of screen names.
http://www.play-mania.com/snideas.html

and

http://www.expage.com/erinzsnideas

they both have some cool screenames. Hope i helped!
~Brina~

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i need some tips for my pitching,like how to increase my volosity and stuff

Hey. I'm a baseball type of gal, so i'm happy someone has asked this lol. Ok, practicing your throwing arm without the ball, so your pitching with an "imaginary ball" lol. Do foward arm circles also. Start lifting weights also. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.

so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.

i rate 5 if it helps even a little.

Well, you have a lot of determination which is good. Like you said, you've heard STORIES were you can change someones orientation, and the stories most likely the guy was bisexual. It sucks, cuz, gay guys usually are awesomly nice and hott, but you cant change how someone feels. There really, isnt a way to turn him straight...Deffinitly dont give up, i mean, if you dont want to stop trying then dont, maybe you could become awesome friends with him. Good Luck!!!
~BrInA~

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okay well i really like this one guy.. and i mean hes like soo soo perfect... and i know hes noticed me and i think we might have a chance of going out cuz were already friends and i just dont know what to do.. i mean i no i cant ask him out soo please help me please hes soo important to me but he just doesnt know that..
signed so so confused..
*I RATE* please answer me soon*

Hey. I know how you feel. And, i've regreted not telling guys that i like them. If you think you have a chance with him, then i say go for it. Let him know the true you.You can ask him out! Dont be afraid to either. Not only guys but girls can be the ones to ask out also. Tell him that he's important to you. Hopefully he'll be good about it. He most likely will ask you out. Good Luck.
~Brina

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hey.. i was wondering where i could get a playlist fora myspace.. also some music links



thanks in advance!

Go to hotcodez.com
there are bunches of music links.
~Brina

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I'm 17, and I have my first job interview ever at ShopKo on Friday. The only problem is that I don't know what appropriate attire for an interview is. What am I supposed to wear?

Wear a nice blouse. You should wear like, nice pants, not jeans or anything. Just, wear something sofistacated. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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I`m at home right now, and i really dont have anything to do. I cant leave the house or anything. Does anyone know anything fun i can do inside ( websites, arts & crafts, etc.) thanks ♥ i will rate

Hey, go to http://www.bored.com
www.addictinggames.com
www.habbo.com

Or, you could read a book, draw... etc.
Have Fun!
~Brina~

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i am 5'3" and weigh 104 lbs( i am a girl)
i just got back form camp and now my mom is telling me that i look too skinny, but i think i need to loose 5 pounds. how can i make her see things my way so she doesnt get mad at me when i diet.

Well, how old are you? Are you between the ages of 12-15?Because, the average weight for those ages are 90 to about 120 pounds. So your weight is completely normal, and let your mom know that. Tell her that you are loosing weight in a healthy way. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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my best friend has a new beatfriend. HEATHER. im incredibally jealous of heather nd there new friendship. my bestfriend krystal is ALWAYS talking about heather like i dont exist. i told krystal that to but she just doesnt get it. to further help me, you can IM me my sn is x simply romance. krystal's away message rite now is
AT MY LOVERS HOUSEE:-D

......heather of course.! hehe i luv it

nd its really pissing me off. how do i over come jealousy?

Why dont you move on. Find some new friends. Theres no need to be jealous, there are worse things than worrying about one friend who doesnt treat you well.
~Brina~

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okay,

im 13 and i am this

hieght::: 4'9
weight::: 60 lbs

a few questins that has to do with that.

1) is that NORMAL?


2) i wanna gain, but i only eat sugar and meat. i just stay the same. i eat alot of fast foods, and i stay the same!

3) i want to gaim 5 pounds by school starts.. aka 3 weeks. can that happen?


please answer..... DONT SAY


1) lift weights.


2) eat veggies


and all of that stuff, like, you know.

ill rate higher then 5!

Hey... well, i wouldnt say it's normal, but its not unormal either. At your age you should at least be 80 pounds. I know a couple girls who are like 70 pounds in my grade, and they are both 14. I would suggest to go to a nutrition doctor, and find out what you can eat to put on a few more pounds. I think there might be weight gaining bars that you can purchuse to add a couple pounds, but find out if they are something that wont hurt your body. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up?

Hey.No one can make such a big decision for you. Keeping or getting rid of a baby is a very big deal. Make sure your boyfriend will truly be there for you. If you go to college, will you have someone to look after both children while your there? If your not ready to take on another child then dont have it. But, if you are, and have a job, and everything you need to support it then go for it. It might be hard to pay for both children, at this age, you know? Well, i wish you the best of luck!
~Brina~

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hi there, me again, the guy i slept with, we have spoken but nothing about what had happened, this was like, last week sometime, and his sister has invited me to a party, where i know he will be ther, do i go or not? tell me as it is tonight
thank xx

I say that you should go. And if he is there talk about it. Are you two boyfriend and girlfriend? It is important to talk about what happened considering that it is sex. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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Anyone know any good webpages for cute icons?

Yep i sureeee do lol. Alright, you can go to
www.dollisland.com

www.buddyputty.com

http://www.msndollies.com/

http://www.dollbuddieicons.net/

http://dollsnow.com/


Hope I helped!
~Brina~

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okay well im 13 and all my friends (they're 13 to) have like huge or big breasts and i feel left out cuz like i only have alittle of them and like i wear a bra n everything but like it still looks like i dont have anything... what can i do?? is there any way to make them grow faster!!>>>well I RAT HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS!! MUAHH!

**please help**

Aww. Listen, all girls go through different stages of adolecense at different times. It's alright that you dont have big breats at the moment, because your only 13! Most average girls dont start "developing" until there 13 or 14. There really isnt a way to make them grow faster, but, you can do butterfly exercises. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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Hey, I'm Rae! Well, I recently got into the band HAWTHORNE HEIGHTS! I really love that band! I became an instant fan after hearing one song! Lol! Well, I wanted to know what other bands are like Hawthorne Heights? I really love Hawthorne Heights and want to know other bands like them! Thanks so much! - Rae.

Hey. I just started liking them too! They rock! Alright, some others are three days grace, Reliant K, My Chemical Romance,Simple plan is a bit like them also. Hope i helped! Rock ON!
~Brina~

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LONG BUT i'LL LOVE YOU FOREVER=/. i'm not a total idiot, and i usually don't need advice i just give it. me and my ex- [we will call danny] were going out since Nov. 7, 2004, yeah but broke up 4 times. the second to last time it was for a month because i liked another boy [we will call him cody] and i wanted to give him a 2nd chance, yes... i already had gone out with him. so it ended and with a little struggle started going back out, everything back to normal... felt good. i was always comfortable with being with danny. last friday, i'm dissapointed to admit, i cheated on him with cody. danny hadn't been calling me, and when he did VERY RARELY. so i called him yesterday, he doesn't know i cheated, and we argued & he said he didn't know if he wanted to go out with me. so i just said it's over & he said he wasn`t happy but was going to go. i haven't talked to danny since. cody REALLY likes me and everything and he's a really good boyfriend, but i always end up just wanting danny. please just give me .. SOMETHING, anything. my friends are too dumb for this stuff.

You shouldnt have cheated on Danny, but that's my opinion, because i dont like cheaters. Thats not right even if you do like cody. I think that what you and Danny had is over, it lasted for a while, but a relationship were you keep on breaking up isnt good hun! Why dont you just go out with cody. If you still have feeings for danny after a while then talk to him. Tell him your sorry for cheating on him. Let him know how you feel. Good Luck!
~Brina~

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i always wear my hair up in a ponytail cuz i dont like it when it gets in my face so i wanted to do a sloppy bun but because my hair is so long it doesnt work to well...any tips?

Why dont you get your hair cut a bit? Maybe it's time for a new look.
~Brina~

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Umm Ok, I play Basketball and Softball and I love them both but I also wanted to try Soccer...I know how to play a little bit but I don't know the postions, or the rules does anybody have any good websites or know all that stuff??? And do you think I should try out next year? I have to admit I'm A little nervous

Soccer rocks! You should deffinitly try out for it. Here are some sites you should check out.


http://www.drblank.com/slaws.htm
^that one is all about the rules^

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My b/f is really nice but shy b/c im his 1st g/f and all mi friends think i should go with this other guy that is lik mi best friend and i lik him ALOT and every1 thinks he liks me so wut do i do ??

I would rather go out with the other guy b/c mi b/f started 2 get kinda stupid!! and the other guy tlks 2 me alot and we hang everyday at school!! EVERY1 tells me 2 go out with the other guy b/c we r such a good couple and he showed me that he liked me bi wen i said i had a b/f he put his head down and looked REALLY SAD and didnt tlk 2 me that much and gave me his # !! Wut should i do ???

Heh? Your spelling made me get confused a bit. So, your boyfriend is being annoying and you like your guy friend? If the current boyfreind is being stupid then dump him. If you wanna go out with your friend,then that's your decision not theres. I can't tell you who to choose, just pick the one you have a better connection and like for. How old are you? Good luck
~Brina~

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