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Usually I don't need relationship help. oh well...
LONG BUT i'LL LOVE YOU FOREVER=/. i'm not a total idiot, and i usually don't need advice i just give it. me and my ex- [we will call danny] were going out since Nov. 7, 2004, yeah but broke up 4 times. the second to last time it was for a month because i liked another boy [we will call him cody] and i wanted to give him a 2nd chance, yes... i already had gone out with him. so it ended and with a little struggle started going back out, everything back to normal... felt good. i was always comfortable with being with danny. last friday, i'm dissapointed to admit, i cheated on him with cody. danny hadn't been calling me, and when he did VERY RARELY. so i called him yesterday, he doesn't know i cheated, and we argued & he said he didn't know if he wanted to go out with me. so i just said it's over & he said he wasn`t happy but was going to go. i haven't talked to danny since. cody REALLY likes me and everything and he's a really good boyfriend, but i always end up just wanting danny. please just give me .. SOMETHING, anything. my friends are too dumb for this stuff.
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That's a lot of break ups. I think it's best to let it go. If you've found happiness in Cody, you're OBVIOUSLY unhappie with Danny, so what's the point in even continuing that?? If you believe you have a 'future' with Cody, I suggest devoting your energy to THAT instead of the sour relationship with Danny...
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tell him what u did and why u did it!
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You shouldnt have cheated on Danny, but that's my opinion, because i dont like cheaters. Thats not right even if you do like cody. I think that what you and Danny had is over, it lasted for a while, but a relationship were you keep on breaking up isnt good hun! Why dont you just go out with cody. If you still have feeings for danny after a while then talk to him. Tell him your sorry for cheating on him. Let him know how you feel. Good Luck!
~Brina~
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tell danny you were really disappointed with your self...apologize because he was right...you shouldn't have cheated on him and he has the right to be mad...but talk to him...swear on your relationship or something that you wont cheat again...and i know how danny felt...my best friend went out with someone who was cheating on her the whole time...she must have cried for 3days straight...it hurts and let him know that you know that now and you will do anything to earn his trust and relaitionship back
~Rachel
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heya,
woah that's a tricky situation.
if you still have strong feelings for danny, then you shouldn't be with cody, until you're positive you're over danny as it's unfair.
and if you're finding it difficult to decide which guy you have real feelings for, then I suggest you "take a break" with cody whilst you sort your emotions out.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
XxXxX
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You will just have to put some distance between you and Danny until you are completely over him. It could take a while. I mean no phone calls, no talking in halls at school etc. No more contact than is necessary to be polite. Once you get over him if you want to be friends then you can, but until you get it through your head that he is not a boyfriend you want to have keep your distance. Otherwise you will waffle back and forth indefinitely. Good luck with Cody :)
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You need to pick one and stop leading them on. If you have feelings for Danny, it is cruel to Cody to stay with him. And why are you with Danny when you cheated on him?
You left Danny for a reason. Remember that. You can live without him, and another guy has come along.
Go with Cody. But if you can't give him your love and attention, leave both Cody and Danny behind. Take some time to yourself to get over it.
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