okay so im a 16/f and ive never had a bf. I dont consider myself ugly or anything, and its not like i cant get a bf..i could if i wanted too..only thing is, when i start liking someone im all flirty and then i find out they like me and i TOTALLY stop liking them, I think im scared of a relationship or something because everytime someone askes me out i think its the biggest thing in the world and i just cant find myself to go out with someone...theres ONE guy that i would say yes to on the dime..which is my best friend in the world, me and him are like getting married one day haha, but yeah, anyone know WHY im like this?! WHY am i scared of having a BF?!?! and How do I stop it, or help myself ? :( helppp please, * i rate everyone a 5*
your scared your going to mess up somehow. your afraid your going to do something wrong, and your going to look like an idiot. you just want to have fun and your afraid that he'll be judging every move you make and that scares you. dont be afraid to take chances, thats how you learn.
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I dont want to make out with my boyfriend but everytime i want to kiss him he trys to stick his tounge in my mouth. it kinda grosses me out. but lately ive been wanting to kiss him. how can i tell him i just want to kiss him but not make out?
CiArA
just like you just told us. its really that simple. your thinking too hard, cut that shit out
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No rude comments like the last time, but heres my situation. my bf had to get tested for a sperm count and it turns out that he has a low sperm count or is possibly infertile. We had sex a few days ago and while we were, his condom broke. He didnt cum yet though and he pulled right out and put on a new one. My question is, after hearing about everything related to this. Do you think theres a chance I could be pregnant? All info would help or anyone ever being in the 'broken condom' situation. Thanx.
the only way you could be pregnant would be if his small amount of little spermies got inside your body. now you should know this. theres this little thing called pre-ejaculation. where ur bf cums a little..before he really cums. the condom broke? well that sucks. i doubt ur pregnant but yea its a possibility, a slim one, but its there. just but one of those crappy tests in a few weeks, then go from there. cause theres not much you can do about it now.
but hey at least you use protection. good for you
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So my mom and my dad fight constantly and they are kind of alcholics...I always find myself crying myself to sleep and wishing that i had different parents...But neway..one night my dad locked me and my mom out of the house and it was so bad that my mom had to call the police on him....I have never done nething to my dad to make him treat me this way....This may sound horribe but im actually terrified of him...What should i do...please i need advice really bad bcuz this is something that has been bothering me for awhile and i never really had the guts to talk to ppl about it......HELP!
move in with a friend or something. thats not safe. your dad seems to be unstable, and you dont know what he'll do. sadly it'll only get worse if your parents dont get help. they never get help. just move out. try talking to them both about it first though. tell them how they make you feel and tell them you love them, you just want everyone to be happy. that if they cant help themselves that ur splitin. maybe itll help them realize wat theyve got at steak.. stake. watever
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i have hair down there. and me and my bf are ready for sex. he knows i have it down there but should i shave it???
uhg yes. for his sake and your own..yes shave that shit off
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ok i cant handle being told "I love you" by anyone or like people that just say luv ya chick bye bye because i know theyre lying i mean i always think theyre lying or if someone tells me im beautiful i automatically think theyre lying and i dont know why and everytime guys ask me out i say no because i dont want them to like me or love me or w/e and i dont know why whats wrong with me btw im 14/f if that does anything helpful but im so confused why cant i handle it
hey pal, im 16. and i feel the same way, and i do the same thing. its all about trust. we have no trust. theres nothing wrong with you. your just the type of person who will end up dating a long time friend, because youve built trust with that person. it sounds to me like you must have been hurt somehow in life. maybe not necesarily by a bf but just in general. i hope it gets better as we go through life, but im not saying it will. just dont stress over it cause youll still find love and companionship and all that good stuff. it just may take a little time and patience. but hey..im right here with ya.
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I'm treated pretty badly at school. Like, people pick on me and call me names. I don't do anything to deserve such treatment, and it's been like this since Kindergarden. I have friends and all that, but a lot of people still threaten me and what not. Don't tell me to tell a teacher or what not because they already not yet fail to do a damn thing about it. I can't defend myself because I can't fight, and I don't like making fun of others. If there is any advice people could give me to maybe help me stop the torment, that'd be great.
Thank you for your time,
♥Shattered Soul in Shelby♥
P.S-Don't ask to be rated.
if you dont try to stand up for yourself or defend yourself, dont ask us for help. we cant help you or make you feel better because your too pussy too stand up for urself. people make fun of you..make fun of them right back. they do it because they know you wont say anything. if it bugs you that bad, youll do it, because its the only way to get it to stop. beat the shit out of people. take some martial art classes or some damn self defense shit. hell you dont gotta take a class on punching sum1 in the face. so either you stand up for yourself or quit bitchin..because thats all you can do.
STAND UP TO THEM.
now if that wasnt bitchy enuff..i hope things get better for you
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okay i've been in this fight with my guy friend and well i brought him soup because he was sick and so i could say sorry and i did! well he hasn't talked to me and my friend i tried to invite him 2 dinner with us 2morrow nite! he said he can't he's busy with his so called "friends" who smoke and drink and so does he ever since he started hangingout with them! he's hanging out with the wrong crowd! what should i do?
dont do anything. your not his mother and you have no right to choose what crowd is or isnt right for him. your just sad because your not friends with him anymore. the sooner you accept his change the better off youll be.
if you insist on doing something, the only thing you can do is let him know how you feel. let him know that your not trying to change him and your not mad either, that your just there for him and you care.
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah
no it would definatley not be inappropriate. tell her that your there for her, shell appreciate it. more people need to do just that, for everyone. not just because someone appears to be in need. if you do it then good for you, i wish i had more friends like you.
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ok i realy like this guy and i thought he liked me for a little bit but then a couple days ago his friends told me that he said " i wasnt that hot" and that he used me pretty much jsut to "do stuff" and now i dont think im going to talk to him before i see him again and im just wondering what i should say to him about him .. im not mad i just want to know what the hell is going on and why!!
why dont you say that then? your thinking about it too much. you asking us the questions you should be asking him.
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I do. Lol. I dont steal. I smoke with friends. I do drugs with friends. my friends cut worse so really not so good hanging with them
find some new friends. go on a vacation or something. or excersise. i used to have some 'problems' too, but i started doing so much shit all the time, that i was always busy and by the time i had some time to myself i was too tired to change into my pjs. you get wat im sayin? join some school activity crap and stay away from home as much as possible. maybe take some prozac.
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I cut. But not like most people. My arms aren't coverd nor my legs. I have scars on my thighs, ankles and wrist. I've recently taken to cuttin my shoulder. my parents know and found them. They know check every so often for blood or anything. they took all my pointy objects away but i still have a knife. they wont let me get cousling or anything because they think its bad for teens to go on meds. i cant go to my schoo counsler because-well if you knew him you wouldnt. Anyways, there are peole with bigger problems then me that need the help. my life is perfect. I have horses. i ride. i get w/e i want. Im spoiled. my parents r nice n everything unlike my friends who r abused/assulted. yet i always feel so depressed. like i cant pull myself out. i constantly cry and hide most of my feeling until i can hide to cut. i dont partically like people knowing but people find out n i dont like being known as a cutter. i get straight a's n im the good kid. least u use to be. now im this depressed, mean, cutter lil freshmen. this isnt who i wanna be. help. oh right..14 female.
dont you have friends? hang out with friends, and keep urself busy. also, do some shit. get into troubpe, spice things up and make things interesting. try smoking, steal some shit get ur adrenaline goin. dont kill urself or get arrested, just have a little fun. its obvious u have little good girl fun. cut that lame shit out
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hey guys it is funkyfresh.. i give advice but now i need some bad! well okay.. there is this guy matt k and a guy matt n (best friends scary i kno) they both like me (even scarier!) and i dont go to the same school as either of them! i have mixed feelings and have no ideas on what to do! any advice!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
if you can handle em both, date em both. but unless ull see them a lot its kind of pointless. maybe you should just find someone at your own school
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I really like this boy named demetri. He looks so good.......mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!~~~well i guess i dont really like him, but i wanna get to know him so bad and he dosn't wanna get to know me at all. He ignores me and he avoids me. Hes friends with these girls that are such b*tches!!She tried to pick a fight with me in the lunchroom. I know he was behind this!!!!!!I juss met him this year, but he acts like hes hated me forever. How can i make him my friend or at least talk to me??? Dont tell me hes not worth it----people always tell me that. But theres just something about him........I like it!! Amd my instincts are usually right........Help!!!!
treat him the way he treats you, dont show him any special attention at all.
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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
x3 confused
dump his ass. wat a freak. ur friends are way more important then his lame ass. dump him..move on..find someone better.
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well im really good friends with this guy and i like him a lot because were so close and similar and i think we both like eachother and we talk about everything but he always asks out other girl who turn him down, doesnt he know that im righ tin front of him and were perfect for eachother how can i help him see that?
they never see it. and theres nothing you can do but tell him.
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me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?!
we cant tell you if thats wierd. its up to you wether its wierd or not. you either love him and want to lose it to him or you dont know. and if you dont know then dont do it. follow your heart
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my exbf just broke up with me and now im looking for people. well i didnt know this till yesterday but i met his cousin and his cousin was flirting with me and i was flirting back. his cousin even knew i was his exgf but he still flirted but i didnt know so i didnt think i was doing something wrong. now i feel like im doing something wrong! can i go out with my ex's cousin?!?! im so confused and his cousin seems intrested in me and he knows a couple things i never told any1 bfore. is it right to go out with him? i really like him and i know he likes me so please tell me or should we just stay friends? i think my exbf would get mad but he broke up with me. kk
thnx
signed,
CONFUSED
yea, do watever the hell you want. its not wrong that you two like eachother. ur ex broke up with you, and you have every right to move on, and you need to. who knew it was his cousin? big deal
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I know someone who is really big on theater just as I am, but I don't think she likes me very much. I have tried talking to her, but she doesn't listen. What should I do?
its obvious she doesnt care, and yea, probably doesnt like you. get over it, and talk to someone else. dont you have other friends?
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erm hey... i guess i really need help..i cant stop cutting myself i can not see the real colour of my skin on my arms now they are totaly coverd in purple and blue scars everything depresses me and i cant handle the smallest things i get so caught up with things that i just go for the knife and cut..i've lost many friends for this and been called so many things half the time its what people say to me ''why dont you just fuck off and kill yourself slit your wrist like you do you know like a good goth'' and 99% of the time i do ..im so weak i'm not good for anything..but i really need help too stop if someone could plz help me?? thanks ^.^chok^.^
if its that bad you shoukd have enough will power to stop. but its pretty fuckin sad if you dont. take some prozac.
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