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Scared of BF's
okay so im a 16/f and ive never had a bf. I dont consider myself ugly or anything, and its not like i cant get a bf..i could if i wanted too..only thing is, when i start liking someone im all flirty and then i find out they like me and i TOTALLY stop liking them, I think im scared of a relationship or something because everytime someone askes me out i think its the biggest thing in the world and i just cant find myself to go out with someone...theres ONE guy that i would say yes to on the dime..which is my best friend in the world, me and him are like getting married one day haha, but yeah, anyone know WHY im like this?! WHY am i scared of having a BF?!?! and How do I stop it, or help myself ? :( helppp please, * i rate everyone a 5*
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hey hunny,find someone and stick to them!But make sure you be yourself and make sure its someone you can talk to like they are your best friend!I think you might just be scared your going to mess up!Don't be,we are all human and make mistakes!And if the guy you end up dating cares about a silly mistake it shouldn't matter!hope i helped and everything works out!xoxo nicole
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your scared your going to mess up somehow. your afraid your going to do something wrong, and your going to look like an idiot. you just want to have fun and your afraid that he'll be judging every move you make and that scares you. dont be afraid to take chances, thats how you learn.
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well the thing to do is to try to find someone who makes you feel like your best friend does...its completely natural for people to be afraid of commitment so dont feel bad about it..eventually youll grow out of it...
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Maybe your scred of getting hurt? Like scared of going out and then him leaving you...I think you should keep being flirty and all and if he asks you out just tell him to wait a while so you can get to know him better and trust him more. Hope I helped
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