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I love my bf and I feel like we still have a major connection. We've been going out for about a year and we haven't really done anything. I want him to touch my boobs but I don't want it to go too much farther than that. What should i do? (link)
if you feel like you have a connection with him it shouldnt be to hard to talk to him about it. if your still not comfortable talking to him about it then you could always take his hand and move it to your chest. if he has a normal brain he will understand. on the other hand if he trys to do other stuff that your not comfortable with then you must tell him to stop.

hope this helps


Okay, so sometime this month, i'm getting my hair cut. i want it just a little lower than my sholders with lots of angles,layers,and heavy side bangs(kind of edgy,like that style). but i cant find pictures ANYWHERE! i was wondering if you could help me find some that are of normal people with hair like that..? thank you so much! (link)
http://www.freewebs.com/sarahs-hair


I'm at college level reading. 14 years old, female.

I'm looking for any really good reads that anybody knows of. I like basically anything, just no historical fiction.

Please don't tell me to google or look on the "myspace books section".

Thanks in advance. (link)
Night by Elie Weisel
The Watchers by Dean Koontz
Stormbreaker by Anthony Horowitz
Hope Was Here by Joan Bauer
Squashed by Joan Bauer
Rules of the Road by Joan Bauer
Best Foot Forward by Joan Bauer
With Their Eyes by Annie Thomas
The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen
Just Listen by Sarah Dessen
This Lullaby by Sarah Dessen
That Summer by Sarah Dessen
Dreamland by Sarah Dessen
Keeping the Moon by Sarah Dessen
Someone Like You by Sarah Dessen
What My Mother Doesn't Know by Sonya Sones
One Of those Hideous Books Where the Mother Dies by Sonya Sones
Hit the Road by Caroline B. Cooney
Twilight by Stephenie Meyer
New Moon by Stephenie Meyer
Uglies trilogy by Scott Westerfeld (Uglies, Pretties, Specials)
Year of Secret Assignments by Jaclyn Moriarty
Dairy Queen by Catherine Gilbert Murdock
Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson
Saving Francesca by Melina Marchetta
So Yesterday by scott Westerfeld
Peeps by Scott Westerfeld (also Last Days)
Blue Bloods by Melissa de la Cruz
When it Happens by Susane Colasanti
First Impressions by Marilyn Sachs
I'd Tell You I Love You But Then I'd Have To Kill You by Ally Carter
The Girl Who Invented Romance by Caroline B. Cooney
King Dork by Frank Portman
Looking for Alaska by John Green



I was searching ebay for a white chanel purse, and I found one that's REALLY cute. it pretty much looks reall, but im not 100% sure.http://cgi.ebay.com/authentic-chanel-purse-beautiful-white-leather_W0QQitemZ190104017355QQihZ009QQcategoryZ63852QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
thats the link, if anyone could help me, thatd be great thanks =] (link)
fake. if you think its an ok price you could buy it
ps you could sue them for saying its authentic but im not sure youd win because you havent bought it
but if you did you could prob sue them and then get the money back because its illegal and ebay specifically says its illegal to list a fake item as authentic, but you can SELL fakes, just not allowed to say theire real


Heyy everyone!! Okay so i know what im gonna ask you is kind of out of style but i dont care :)
Remember those braclets like those "sex" bracelets well i hav a bunch of *black* ones. But HOW do some people get them like weaved in and out..like it looks like their is 2 of them crossed over eachother (its really hard to explain im sorry) I wish i could show you a picture but i cant find any..:<
But if anyone could tell me how to make,where to buy those bracelets then i will be the happiest :)) (link)
yea i know what you mean what you do is put one over the other so it looks like a venn diagram and then just pull one through the other.

you can buy them a lot of places, especially places like hot topic.


yeah so my friend gave this kidd head can she get preguant from that? (link)
no and if you dont know that and neither does she shes too young to be doing that


how do u grind with clothes, and with out? (link)
well ive never grinded without clothes and i dont see when you would but i guess it would be like mostly hte same thing, but with like more touching and trying to be even close like rubbing bodies? i dunno...


Okay well i asked the question about my best friend and her b/f.. and YES i told her i liked him the night before they started going out... but i felt bad because i KNEW he liked her.. and not me. so to answer your question Yes it was before they went out. and if you have any more advice... thankss! (link)
hey

i'm terribly sorry to hear that. it must have been really stressful for you to have encountered that. i think if i was in your position, i'd start crying.

but you're being really strong & you just have to wait it out. talk to new guys. make some new friends & dont spend so much time thinking about your friend & crush going out. it's probably nothing serious anyways - & if they DO get serious, talk to her about it. if she's bitchy, she wasnt your friend to begin with, sweetie. so please don't feel bad about yourself.

i hope the best for you & dont have much to add since your last question, but i will say : dont waste too much time on them. if you get really super jealous, don't go telling your friend cause she probably already knows or can imply that you are jealous. but DO let her know when you actually stop liking him. be honest. dont lie to her and tell her you stopped liking him when you haven't- she will probabably talk about him more and if you slip, telling her you lied, she won't trust you, always assuming you like him. just be honest.

i hope i helped & good luck, strong girll :]


I was searching ebay for a white chanel purse, and I found one that's REALLY cute. it pretty much looks reall, but im not 100% sure.http://cgi.ebay.com/authentic-chanel-purse-beautiful-white-leather_W0QQitemZ190104017355QQihZ009QQcategoryZ63852QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
thats the link, if anyone could help me, thatd be great thanks =] (link)
it looks exactly like my fake one.
so yes it is fake.


wht r some good indie rock bands? (link)
Ambulance
LTD
Ratatat
Fugazi
Interpol
The Strokes
Grandaddy
Stars
Franz Ferdinand
The Shins
Modest Mouse
GBV
The Killers


is it normal for you to have a goey like discharge stuff and for it to have an odor?? (link)
Yeah it's normal, but it only has an odor when it's old... so you need to change your panties more often.


me and my g/f act really close around eachother like she'll let me tickle her put my arm around her and stuff..but i never tried to do anything else.to me it seems like we both wanna go further.but how can we tell if the other one wants to too? (link)
if it seems like you both wanna you should prob just go for it.
like if you wanna feel her up or something im assuming your saying start by just going up her shirt, slowly so she can like say no if she wants.
wait and ifyou mean you two havent kissed yet... then i dunnO!


Okay well my best friend and i have been best friends FOREVERRRR and she just recently got a boyfriend... and i like him. i told her that i liked him.. and shes fine with it. and she knows that i will NEVER do anything to break them up. But i dont know what i do.. do i wait??? should i tell him?? or what.. please HELP! (link)
hey

my suggestion is to just wait it out. because if you tell him right now, it will be awkward between the three of you. and it's not a very high probability that he will dump your best friend, who will then dislike you, and go out with you.

i think, after they break up, you should talk to your friend about it first, asking her if it would be okay if you asked him out. if she says, "it's fine; i'm over him," then go ahead! but if she is like, " : / ... idk i still kinda like him" consider the gains and losses of asking him out. will you lose your friend? what if he doesnt like you the way you like him?

you may even stop liking him by the time they break up. problem solved! but the worst thing to do is tell him now, have an awkward relationship with the both of them, and then have them break up, only to not go out with him later.

this is just my opinion. although i have been in your position. that is my strongest suggestion & the smartest thing to do. just wait for them. if you get seriously jealous, talk to your friend about it. if she was really your friend, she would understand how you feel.

one question: after you told her you liked him, did she go out with him? cause that's not very friendly. or did you tell her while they were going out?


there is this girl on my team and she was once my best friend and then all of a sudden she hated me and so i didn't talk to her but now she is being nice again. She has done this to some of my other friends but i don't know if i should be friends with her again or just stay away. (link)
That's a tricky one lol, but my advice to you would be to confront her and talk to her about how you feel about the situation, mabe there is a miss-understanding between you guys and she feels the same way about you. Well GoOd LuCk!!!! i hope i helped!


how exactly do you grind, and get agirl togrind with you (link)
you normally stand behind her and just put your hips against her ass.

if you wanna know how to front grind, leave one in the inbox -- (this one is good for like if you and her wanna start making out!)

sorry but its the boys job to make the move normally girls will just grind


what is a blow job, hand job mean? also what does giving head mean? (link)
blowjob and head are the exact same thing.
blow job/head means sucking on a dick
and a hand job is just rubbing your hand up sand down erally really fast, like your matsurbating him.
its kinda like sex, except for the blowjob its your mouth instead of v and hands for handjob
in case you were wondering... theres also such thing as a foot job, which is with your feet!


someone told me that if i sleep on my stomach, itll like stop my boobs from growing, will that happen? (link)
hey

no, of course not. that's not true.

and you only probably spend a couple hours sleeping on your stomach anyway, even if it does affect the breast growth a little.

your boobs grow no matter what. how do you think your boobs still grow when you wear a bra?

example: if you wear a size 0 jeans when you are 14 years old, the jeans wont stop you from growing.


what is a blow job, hand job mean? also what does giving head mean? (link)
hey

a blowjob is the act of sucking on a guy's penis. hand job is using your hand to stimulate an ejaculation in a guy buy using an up and down motion on his penis.

giving head is the same thing as giving a blow job - just in a slang term.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=blowjob
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=handjob
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=give+head


how do you give a hickey? (link)
hey

you suck gently on the neck of your loved one & then slowly get more vigorous. its way arousing when youre making out and then transition into licking down to their neck, then give the hickey.

http://www.wikihow.com/Give-Someone-a-Hickey


what are the bases? like sexually. what do you do to be at first base, what do you do to be at second base, what happens to be at third, and to be at home. (link)
some people say french feel finger fuck... but then where would the oral for either gender go, and finger is basically feel
so its more like make out, feeling around (feel up a girl, fingering, handjob for guys), then oral whether its blowjobs or pusys licking and then laaaaast sex.




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