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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

is it normal 2 get a boner when your making out with a girl or flirting with one,& if they could tell that you had a boner would they get freaked out & think im wired or anything!?

well some girls may think that is disgusting ! but its perfectly normal and stuff because like all boys do and its so freakin normal maybe girls freak out because they never had a guy get a boner over them! just tell them that y are you going to get grossed out bye it when all boys have them!

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hey i was just wondering if u think a 8 or 9 inch dick is big????

Sure.. why not?

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Hey how can you change any font on your Advicenators page?

You can't.

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hey im 13/f and i have been shaving since i was 11 but my mom doesnt know cuz i never asked her im way to scared to talk to her about anything
what do i do?
real question:how do i ask my mom that i want to shave?
boy im inbaressed

Dont be embarassed because everyone shaves. Your mom will understand because its normal at your age.and jsut tell her that you want to shave because you think you have hairy legs does your mom shave? ask her when she started to shave? maybe she started and maybe she might just say you can!but well dont be scared its not like your mom will like tell every one its your MOM! but dont be scared just talk to her shell understand!

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hi welp im having guy problems. i have been talking to this guy that goes to my school a whole lot. we talk on the phone, online, at school, text, and just wherever. he is one my best friends. everyone at school has been coming up to me and telling me that he likes me and i like him too. i dont know what to do because i have just been waiting for him to tell me he likes me or ask me out or something. i am definatly not going to make the first move and i dont know if i should just keep waiting for him? help please!

Well honestly I think that you should tell him how you feel. You should tell him now before its too late if you know what I mean. He might be shy and not tell you how he feels because he might think that you dont like him. He could also not be ready to tell you. But I still think that you should tell him because if you dont then he could end up moving on and then you would be sad and you wouldnt want that! Tell him how you feel before its to late!! x0

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My dog barks at the slightest movement or sound. He chases my four cats around and when hes on a walk he chases cars. He is a Border Collie, so it is natural for him to try to herd things. He is so out of control sometimes that he will see the neighbor dogs from the inside window and will throw himself at the window, barking like a maniac. What do you suggest I do?

I dont know much about dogs but maybe the best thing to do is get him trained. Hire a dog trainer so they can train him. Give it treats when its good and it will learn. x0

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I have this aquaintence that I see on campus from time to time. We went to the same high school. 21/f. We had this class together and some girls were talking about her and being really catty because she has lots of money and she is sorta fake but not offensive. She has never been anything but nice to me. I didn't appreciate that those chicks that didn't even know her were judging her. I still see her every week and I think about that often. Should I say anything or is it just water under the bridge?

Who cares what they think. Just ignore them and keep being a good friend to her. People like them are just annoying and probably jelous of what she has. x0

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There is this girl that I used to be really good friends with but she ended our friendship because she found new friends. I was fine with it because she sort of just stopped hanging out with me because I wasn't "punk enough" to hang out with. I didn't really care that she ended the friendship but now everyday she acts like we are still friends. Today she blew up in me & my friends face because we heard from someone that she was talking about us again (she's done this before and said she would quit because she's scared of me and my new friends) and she started screaming and got this really scared look on her face. Plus yesterday in our Science class me and my friends were talking and talking about my friends religion (Jahoba Witness) and my ex-friend walks over and says "so is that a TV show or something?" and we all told her it was a religion and she said "So you're a Jahoba and a Witness? Well I'm prejudice" We all looked at her in shock and she later told us that she has no idea what prejudice means anyway. The whole problem is that she keeps talking about people and thinks that makes her cool. My friends want to jump her but I don't know what to do. We aren't friends at all not even FWB. She just won't leave me and my other friends alone. How can me and my friends tell her to go away?

Ugh! I hate people like that! They are so immature! Tell you ex-friends to get a life! They obviously got nothing better to do then bother you guys and the more they can tell it bugs you the more they will do it. I would just go off on them so they can keep their mouth shut. If I were you I would ignore then and who cares what they say. They seem pointless anyways! Dont let it bother you so much! x0

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this is kinda imbarrasing to ask... but i gotta know. i shave down there, ya know? and well sometimes it gets gross. i usually wait like 2 days before doin it again, but i dont know its wierd. and sometimes it even bleeds! OH! and i get these little red bumps. is this normal? is there somethin i can do to make this stop?
thanks in advance!

l0l dont be embarassed about it! It is normal expesilly if you dont do it so often and if you just started. After a lil while it wont hurt. Its fine if it bleeds just be careful tho. The lil red bumps are also normal. Try using a better shaving cream and a better razor and also warm water! x0

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I think I have a problem. You see I am terribly clumsy so I bump into stuff,fall, and trip alot. As a result I get really bumped and scratched up. My problem comes in with the healing. While my wounds are healing I enjoy the sensation of the pain. I enjoy it so much that when they scab over I tear them off so I can feel the pain all over again. I don't bump into stuff on purpose. But I do enjoy the reprecussions alot. 21/f. Is something wrong with me? Could this lead to a cutting fettish?

Yes it could lead to cutting but cutting isnt only for fun. If you cut then you are going to depression and stress stages. It could also not lead to cutting but that depends on you. I dont know how you could enjoy hurting your self but I guess you do. Try to be careful where you`re walking and stuff and try not to hurt your self. If you continue to do that dont ever start cutting because you can get addicted to it and its really hard to stop! Think about it! x0

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have you ever got high?drunk or do you smoke!if so tell me how to stop? or should i stop?

Yes I have. And I`m sorry but I'n not sure how to stop. Why do you do it? Just for fun or because it kinda takes your anger away? Well thats why I do it . I think that you should stop because there is no point to it and its not really all that fun and its worthless! x0

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ok i started cuttin myself like 3 mouths ago because my friends they have been getting mad at me for nothing and theres the hole family thing. and it seems like everything is falling apart and i dont no what to do... and i cant stop.i dont no how to stop

Oh gosh!! It was really hard for me to stop but then I did for about 2 weeks. It was really hard for me but I just tried doing something else. Please try to stop because the only way you cant is if you dont try hard enough. The next tiem you feel like cutting call someone y ou trust and talk to them about it. Im sure they would b able to help you! PLEASE try to stop! Think about all of the people who care about you even if sometimes they get a lil mad at you they still love you. You wouldnt want any of your freinds and family cutting or anything so think of how they would feel if they knew you did it. A lot of people care about you and dont want you to get hurt! I hope I helped!! Im always here if ya need anything else! x0

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hey my mom wont let me wear thongs and lyk ever1 i'm friends with does do u kno how i can get a thong cheap and so my mom dosent know? or make it look like i'm wearin on?


p.s. do u where thongs?

thnx bunches...

Well tell your mom that they are just underwear!! Thers nothing bad about thongs! They are more comftrable. If you want to buy one behind her back then just go to Aeropostale or something and they have some cheap ones and yes I do wear them! x0

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what does emo and rad mean ? like em0sexual and ur rad im ran lets kiss or something ?? xOxO!! u give AWSOME advice gurl !!

l0l thanks ! Emo sexual? Im not sure about that one but Emo is a type of music .. its emotional music and there are emo people. They dress a certain way and they do their hair a certain way. When someone says I`m rad your rad lets hug! it means like your cool or you awesome! Something like that! x0

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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...

You would get morning sickness and you would throw up a lot. You would also feel sick have a fever. Also you would start to eat a lil more and always be tired! x0

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ok i have a problem also.. but first of all im in 7th grade.. so its about a boy nd like not many ppl go out with ppl.. cuz its a catholic school..just to let you know.

well i liked this guy since like november.. and my frend thought that he liked me too.. but hes like super popular.. and im like 1 step away from being a total loser.. but theres only 3 groups and im in the 2nd.. so i got 2 shy 2 ask him if he likes me or sumthin.. and i have a major crush.. like HUGE.. and now i just found out that he is starting to go out with this girl.. and im just really mad.. i dont know how 2 like feel better.. im misrable.. and im always really hyper in school and i'm always smiling and laffing.. no one has seen me sad.. except for like once.. but only a couple of people saw me.. so today and yesterday i was happy as usual.. so no one knows that i like him.. except for my frends..but no one could really tell.. so today i was really misrable.. and i was soo sad.. and now i hate the girl that hes goin out with.. and idont know what 2 do.. please help me!!

Aw well you should of talked to him when you had the chance! Dont let this guy bring you down! Just have fun like you do everyday and try not to stress out about this! He will break up with his girlfriend eventually and when they do let him know how you feel before its too late again! Im sure he would like you!!! Dont worry about him too much or anything. I know how much you like him but it will be fine. Sorry if I didnt help much! x0

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see i really like two guys...one was my ex boyfriend but i never stopped liking me and he likes me. Then theres another guy who i went on a date w/ but it never went farther but i like him a lot and he told me cared about me. He proved it to wen he asked about me wen talkin to my sister. i talk to them both about the same and idk which one i like more...And im not for sure about the one that talked to my sister cuz i keep getting mixed signals...does he like me? what should i do about both of them?

I know how ya feel! It's so confusing and I hate it! Maybe if you talked to this other guy and see if he really likes you. But I also think that you and your ex boyfriend might have a better chance then this other guy. If you really like your ex as much as you say you do you should try to make it work with him! x0

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Ok. well yesterday I asked a question about breaking up with someone without having them hate you. I broke up with him.. and now i am regretign it SO much!! sometimes i think that i ruin everything good that happens to me.. everytime i feel the same way about someone... i tell them i dont like them for some reason.. why do i do this? is it because i think im just not ready? or am i just a heartbreaker..? help pleasssssssse!!!

I think you say that because you try not to get to attached to the person. You dont want to fall in love with them so you dont get your heart broken. Try to go back out with this guy and explain why you broke up with him. x0

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hello = )

well theres this guy that i rele like but everytime i try and talk to him i start to
blab about crap and stutter. know anything
that i shuould try and do around him to
get him to like me a little more? thankss!

xo

Aw l0l thats okay! Pretend that hes just one of your freinds and theres nothing you should be nervous about because hes not much different! Talk to him and you will get more comftrable around him! x0

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14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help

Well you gotta give her signs that you like her. Always flirt with her, talk to her a lot, give her nice comments and stuff like that! Make eye contact with her! And she will get the point that you like her then maybe later you can ask her out! x0

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