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I am deaf but i can hear litle and i can talk i have good speech but my voice make me sound like little kid. I want know how to writ songs and how you end it and how come up with ideas of makeing songs any tips

As far as the voice thing, take some voice lessons, and you can take some speaking lessons as well, which can help you change the way you sound.

As far as songwriting tips, try checking out these websites:

http://www.musesmuse.com/

http://www.crikeymoses.com/songwriting_tips.htm

http://www.sherriedavis.net/discus/messages/3/3.html?1031335284

http://www.songwritingtipoftheday.com/Songwriting-Tips-Archive.html

Good luck! :o)

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I'm 11 and I'm a girl (lol)My friend Madison is going out with this guy and I like him (a lot) but I can't flirt or anything cause I feel bad. And I don't want Madison to know that I like him because she won't be exactly happy.I really like him and I don't know what to do. Plz help.....:(

Just wait your turn :o). Don't rush into things, though, because people tend to get angry if a friend goes out with the same guy they JUST broke up with. Try flirting with // getting to know some other guys for now.

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i really want to make out but i dont know how and then wheni wit a guy i feel like if i make out with him he is goin to think i suck enev if its my frist time idk what to do i dont know how to do it what should i do ?? i dont want to feel stupid when i doing it???=(

please help?!!

Don't think // worry about it, it'll only make it worse! It usually just comes naturally, and if it's his first time too [[ i don't know if it will be or not ]], he won't know the difference! Good luck + have fun! :o)

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ok well i met this boy chris at the begining of the year...and we bacame good friends...we liked each other but i had a boyfriend so nothin ever went beyond friends...well a couple weeks later me and my boyfriend broke up and me and chris grew closer...then a week later he asked me out...well we went out and everything was good but then we broke up and i cant remember why but n e ways...me and him became even closer after we broke up and we were best friends all year...well we were friends with benifits gess you can say...but then a couple weeks before school let out for summer break he started going out with this girl tasha...tasha is my friend and she has liked him for so long. well im still in love with chris and i just cant stop...he means everything to me....now hes always with tasha and barely talks to me....i dont know what to do...what should i do plezz help me....i cry everytime i think of him..

For now, try to be happy for them, don't try to break them up or anything, because that's just cruel. For now just wait it out, and maybe wait until they break up and then have a talk with him about how you feel. I know it's hard, but you don't want to cause problems in their relationship and have two of your good friends angry with you! Good luck :o)

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Just recently I went on vacay to see my moms friend that she had made recently on a college course. So we went down to see her friend and her family b/c my mom wanted to introduce me. So of course she has a son a year older than me and I'm head over heels, you dig? So anyway we had an awsome time almost everything in the world tells me he liked me back, so I gave him my home # and my sn. We live miles and miles apart and i just left a couple weeks ago. He hasnt called or been online and I've been missing him so much. I'm starting to wonder if this is a sign if he doesn't like me at all... or i d k. But I can't go ahead and call him b/c I dont want to look desperate if he wanted to talk he would have called or went online. But hes a great guy I'd never give up liking him so... at this point idk what to do b/c i d k if i will even get to see him ne time soon... and I just cant take it ne more... its more than i can handle.

Long distance relationships are hard .. this guy might not be interested, but .. yeah, he could. Just give him a call and talk about it, it can't hurt, right?! Good luck :o)

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i like this guy so much ever since october 30th 2002 and like its been abt 2 years now .. and i dont know wut to do . i went out wif him 6times before .. buh hes wif one of my friends now . buh like were more like enemy's now . i mean im her friend and i want her to be happy buh i dont think she wants that for me cuz i cut myself and like she does too . but at least she's happy i mean i told * dan * how i feel and still . he still sayz i love paulina and shyt ! and i hate it i mean .. wow i kryed so much over him iono wut to do anymore !!


plzz help me !!


xOXo maYa xOXox

First of all, STOP cutting yourself over him, and stop it NOW, because no guy is worth that. Just try to be happy for your friend for now, because honestly, it sounds like this guy is not the one for you. There's nothing you can do about it now, so just try to forget about it. In the meantime, you could always try going out with a different guy :o)

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I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me!

A lot of guys that age are like that =/, but there are also a bunch that aren't! Chances are, though, you'll be able to find someone who doesn't care about that :o). [[ and don't worry, you still have plenty of time left to grow! ]]

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when i was in 4th grade my dad came to my school and told me he was leaving forever. My dad is a very abusive person and threatend a lot of stuff on my family. Its been 5 years and hes back. My mom is afraid she wont meet any guys again. So my dad is living at my house and he yells at me a lot when my moms not home. Im scared of him bcuz he might still be abusive. My mom doesnt understand and i dotn know what to do. i get in a fight with him every day. Please help.

I'm really sorry about all of that, it's not a fun situation to be in =/. I guess, when your mom's not home, try to get to a friend's house or go to a park or somewhere, just to get out of the house. If that's not possible, just go in your room + close the door, and hopefully he'll leave you alone. Good luck!

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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?!

At our school, you don't have to unless it's during swimming in gym class, and then we all wear our swim suits, so it's no big deal. If you have to shower during regular gym, bring a bathing suit [[ and if the floors are grungy looking, some flip flops :o) ]], and it'll be fine, cause nobody really looks at each other anyways.

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?

Um, it's illegal, and if your parents find out they can press charges + he can get in some pretty big trouble. But if you don't care and you're sure you're ready, I guess .. go for it. It's your decision.

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my dog has started rolling around the floor growling and makeing strange noises. Is this normal?

Haha, yes, it's normal. My dog does it all the time, he'll just start rolling + flopping around and making the oddest noises. But, yeah, he's probably just itching :o)

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My horse started limping yesterday and I dont know whats wrong with her. She is 23 years old but acts like a young horse. I cant afford to take her to the vet because Im only 13 and I already babysit to get her food. i even got her for free! I would really like to know what is wrong with her.

You really need to call a vet. Maybe you can work out some kind of payment plan with them or get your parents to pay for it, because otherwise you'll never really know, and you can't fix her by yourself.

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Ok, Well, my hamster Cocoa is acting very sick latley. I love him so much and would do and thing for him. He seems to be shaking almost and sneezing/sqeaking and i think he might even be trying to cough! He is now forming this crust around his nose and just a lil around his nose. I'm so worried about him, does any one know what sickness this could be or how i should handle this?

Aww .. take him to the vet! It sounds like some kind of respiratory infection, + one of my hamsters died from one of those =/. They can give them medication and it'll usually help. Good luck :o).

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Is 5'5 tall for a 16 almost 17 year old girl? I am worried that I am too tall...

I think that's about average .. I'm 5'2", and I'm on the short side compared to the other people in my school.

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how do you get stars next to your name??

By being rated at least 5 times.

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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?

You can get it permanantly straightened :o)

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okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help?

- Cats don't take a lot of general care, but they do like a LOT of attention.

- Hamsters, gerbils, and small animals like that are really easy to take care of, and can be entertaining.

Go to a pet store and look around .. ask questions before you buy something though!

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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!

Nah, I don't think so, unless you're like, ripping them out! I've done it every day since like, 8th grade, and I don't have any problems, so I'm pretty sure it's fine!

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Okai will my friend she asked me about her clothes like she can NEVER find any store that has clothes that will fit her n shes skinney and around the world we have the same kinda stores so shes about 5'1 and she wears like size 0 in pants n like xs in shirts so if you can help me with that like if you knwo where she can get clothes that fit her! The other thing is her hair she has black hair n red streaks which are fading away now n her hairs medium length n if you know how she can cut her hair so it looks cute on her lol n plus she has a babi face n I was thinking like layer but would that look good?

Most stores at the mall carry size O or OO and XS. Try express, hollister, a&f, abercrombie kids [[ they have stuff that's not like, childish or anything ]] .. pretty much every store I've seen carries those sizes, so .. yeah.

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Alrite I have blonde hair and it is so boring. I want to dye it....I have tan skin and light brown eyes...do you think that i should get it dyed browner or wut? I need help

You could have them foil in different shades of brown // blonde. It'll make it darker without being *too* drastic.

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