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If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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I'm 21 years old, but I already have an almost constant back pain. Can anyone tell me a daily exercise I could do to make my back stronger and less likely to get strained when I pick up a piece of paper? (link)
At your gym,there's probably a thing you can lean over and you use your lower back muscles to pull yourself up. It comes up to about your crotch and it leans upward and you have your back pointing at the wall and you simply go down and come up. There's also a lot of machines that work not only your lower back,but your upper back too.


My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*( (link)
He can have precum and that contains sperm. He can indeed get you pregnant without cumming. He's either stupid or flat out lying.


ok i need a guys point of view... ok welllllll i mean i'm not fat but i still have baby fat i mean i'm not as skinny as the popular people but i'm not fat either i just have a little baby fat left do you think that it would be gross to wear a thong? :-/ (link)
I can't honestly answer this question without seeing you. If you want to wear a thong,do it. Nobody is gunna care.


im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx (link)
Absolutely. I'd go.


hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG (link)
No.


this is a continuation to my question from earlier about the boyfriend doing the new things in bed.

well i asked him where they came from and he told me that we needed to try new things. alot of people told me he may or may not be cheating. like i said im just suspicious becuase we havent had sex in a while, and then all of a sudden we do and its all this crazy wild shit. i'm not saying that i didnt like it... its just strange. strange since we havnt done it in a while, and also cuz he didnt even like discuss these new techniques with me, he just went about them. and of course i went with them cuz they werent bad ideas and all. also, i am pregnant, so like my sex drive is always down, and his is always up. i read that this is very normal, like there is just something that turns guys on about thier woman being pregnant, and there is something that turns woman off about being pregnant, i guess cuz we get all fat. but yeah, because of my low sex drive, i kinda have been pushing him away. could there also be a possibility that he just gave me some space to wait for me to want to do it again? or maybe he got self consious, and was thinking he wasnt that good anymore and wanted to find some new techniques for us to do to make things better? i dont know, but i am like really beating myself up wondering where he got them from. what i really need is a guys oppinion. and if there may be any girls who have experienced this sort of situation that would be good too. (link)
Ok,I will reiterate what I said earlier,you're blaming your guy for something he probably didn't do. Some guys get turned on by pregnant women,it's a little unusual but it could happen. The thought that you have both of your lives inside of you can be a turn on. You get turned off because you've gained some weight and you feel insecure about yourself. I don't think he's cheating on you sweety.


ok, i asked a question a little bit ago about asking a guy to hang out and such...well i did, and he said yes. i think we are tomorrow, but he said he didnt know what time, and i asked a couple times (because idk, it seemed weird) , cause to tell you the truth i dont like when he calls me cause phone convos are always awkward. and then he didnt say anything, except that he had to go. i dont know what to do now, i dont know if hes calling me tomorrow or what...but im confused :( sorry you had to read this... (link)
I really don't know if he's gunna call you either. If he told you he would,then you can only hope that he will. If he doesn't,then he's a rude prick that doesn't deserve you anyway. Why are the convos awkward anyway? Shouldn't be.


what does eating butt taste like? (link)
I'm guessing shit.


hey guys im a 15 f n i was doin some jumping jacks the other day and for some reason my stomach started to hurt. it felt like i did too many sit ups but i was doing jumping jacks. i was just wondering why that happend cuz its real weird. (link)
If it was a stabbing pain just under your ribs,it was a cramp.


if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman. (link)
No,he probably read them in Maxim or something or Cosmo has sex tips,too. I know becuae it's one of those magazines I read when I'm waiting for the clothes to dry.


i have a boyfriend kevin but i want another guy named mike and kevin is like the hottest guy alotta ppl like him n mike is just soo much nicer n there is a less chance of him hurtin ur feelings becvause kevin is the kinda guy who would cheat on you and has already done alotta things that i dont know if im into yet...but lately i have been talking to mike alot and hanging out with him when im goin out wit kevin n i have NO IDEA what to doo....because alot of girls would be lucky to have kevin and i think i have alot more feelings for mike ... what should i doo?? (link)
Even though Kevin has an awesome name,don't be taken in by his looks. Mike could end up hurting you too,but it's less likely. I'd give him a shot because this Kevin guy sounds like an arrogant(I know how great I look)prick. If you have more feelings for Mike,go for him.


Wow that sucks like majorly! I guess you just have to keep thinking tha everything happens for a reason..and what does not kill us only makes us stronger...;/ Who knows though. Anyways, i'm sorry about your doggy. The root canal thingy isn't all that bad though- my brother got one of those and he's a big baby and he said it wasn't too bad. Sorry about not getting the LSU tickets..maybe one of your friends got em and will invite you to go! Things could perk up. Try not to stress about school to much!!! But I guess I am a hypocrit cause I totally stress about it! I just finished my like second week of school today- wasn't bad at all. oh except this kid in my english class always runs his fingers through my hair and pats my head cause im so short..argh. that girl is dumb to be staying with her boyfriend and even more dumb for not wanting to be with you. you are a GREAT person. you are AWESOME!! her loss!!! and if it makes u feel any better...ill be ur pretend girlfriend!!! hahaa!! :) jk! but seriously ur awesome and n e girl would be lucky to have you..oh and dont feel too alone..the guy i like totally isnt interested in me...oh well. anyways!! i miss talking to you but I never get on anymore cause i dunno whyyyyyyyyyyy but maybe i will to talk to you since you are my boyfriend !! haha jk...anyways!!! love ya! -sasha (link)
Beat the shit out of that kid who does that. I actually don't believe EVERYTHING happens for a reason. I just don't think God has time to find significance in everything. If a spider farts,what's the reason there? I'll live. And the games'll be on TV.


my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do (link)
If she still likes you,then what's she doing with the other guy,dude? If she likes your friend,then it's not right to try and break up somebody's relationship. Why did you break up with her in the first place if you still like her?


im a freshman going into catholic highschool. we normally have to wear uniforms, but we have orientation on sept 1 and we can wear our own clothes. they said they have to be "dressy/casual" yet approriate, like no skin showing and whatnot. does dressy/casual mean that you should wear nice pants, or can you wear jeans? and im into REALLY standing out, i like wearing stripes, polka dots, bold bright colors, jewelry, bows... what do you think i should wear on that day... without being "inappropriate"? (link)
What would you wear in front of your grandpa? If you wouldn't wear it on front of him,don't wear it to school.


You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~* (link)
Why is he your ex? Don't you think the same problems will come up?


I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15? (link)
No,it's not wrong at all. It's good to wait until you're older.


This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!! (link)
Yes,you should go. It's a good way to pay respects and you could also tell him "Sorry I didn't call." He can hear you by the way.


whats a good way to ask a someone to hang out? especially when they are extremely unpredictable, and you dont know what they would say. also im very shy. oh, and you have asked them before to hang out, but just could never a good time. lol thanks (link)
Hey,so and so,do you wanna come watch a movie at my house? Do you wanna go ice skating or w/e? My point is just ask them. If they say no,their loss.


I'm really attracted to my friend. Hes 17 years old and is a total hottie. I really would love to spend the rest of my life with him. He gives me chills down my spine to see him happy and when hes sad it kills me ... literaly. The only thing is, that is stopping me from being with him, is my religion. In my religion it is against my code to have sex with another male. What do you think i should do? I really want to be with him and have sex with him but when i do i feel bad... help please. im an 18 year old male. Weve known each other for 5 years now. please help. (link)
Well,in pretty much EVERY religion it's againist the code to have sex with another male. The thing here is you need to talk to your friend about how you feel. You can't be scared to tell him no matter what he might say. If he doesn't like you in that way and he's a true friend,then he'll find some kind of way to let you down easy. You didn't say if you were bisexual or just gay,but I'm assuming you're just gay. If you're not gay,then please give this some more thought and make sure this isn't just a fantasy you may be having.


I have a problem with dwelling on embarrassing things that happen to me. How do I move on? (link)
We all have that problem. Just laugh it off with your friends,otherwise,they'll make fun of you forever about it. Or,you could always light heartedly make fun of their embarrassing things.




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