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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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this guy, well im pretty sure he likes me. he's super nice & i was thinking of asking him to a dance. should i do it? & how do yu do it?

pleez help

I think you should definitely do it. I mean, what do you have to lose? The worst he could say is no. And since you're pretty sure he likes you, I'm sure you'll get a yes from him. To ask him to the dance, you can do many random things. You could write him a note asking him to go to the dance with you, and slip it in his locker. You could give him that note yourself. Or, you could simply call him or ask him face to face.

ok so my dads birthday is on wensday and i still have no clue what to get him i have decided to make him something and make it really personal and sweet any ideas?

You could write him a poem, (if you're good at writting poems.) You could also make him a scrap book. Put pictures of you and him in it, along with memories and funny moments you guys shared with one another. Or, you could always do something really cute a different. Take a sheet of paper and make it all pretty. Then, write down 50 reasons why he is the best day in the world (or how many reasons you want.) Then, at the end explain how much you love him and how great of a dad he is.

I like this boy in class and he always talks to me but at the same time he talks to his buddy. I am just wondering if he is including me in the conversation because he likes me or because he just nice. the other day he just kept on staring at me even when I saw him he kept looking. He is a sophmore and i'm a freshman and today he kept talking about how freshman stink and that he is going to whip the all the freshman. I am just wondering if he likes me.

He could be crushing on you, you never know. It's very hard to tell, though. He does talk to you, but that could be coming out of kindness. But, he always looks at you. And when boys stare at you, that could mean that he's possibly interested in you. If you want to know if your crush likes you or not, I suggest checking out the following website: http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you They'll give you some signs to look for, to tell if he is digging you or not.

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okay well i know this guy and let me tell you he is fine!

we're kind of friends and all but i don't know if he likes me he's al ways messing with me and when i asked him does he like any one at our school he said yes. So i ask him who and he was all like i don't wanna tell you so i kept bugging him but he still wouldn't tell me.

could he be likeing me?

I mean he puts his arm around me always tries to make me laugh but does he like me?

tahnks!

He could be crushing on you, you never know. It's hard to tell, especially since he won't tell you who he likes. If you want to know if your crush likes you or not, I suggest checking out the following website: http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you They'll give you some signs to look for, to tell if he is digging you or not.

hey iam 17 years old and there's a feild trip tomorrow at school and i don't have a buddy becouse all my friends have buddy partner's already and they can't have more than 3 in a group and they all have 3 in a group and iam the only one without a group what should i do

I think you should talk to whoever is in charge of this field trip - a teacher maybe? Explain to them that you don't have a group and there isn't anyone left. Ask them if they could make an acceptation and place you with a group that already has 3 people in it. I'm sure they will allow you, since you have no one else to buddy with.

my friend typed this up and asked me to put it in for her.
please give some advice, thanks
I have a friend coco [boy] and a friend sam [girl]. Coco really likes me, he told me he loves me but i dont know if i love him back. I like him but i dont know about love. Sam is cocos ex girlfriend and hes over her but she's not over him. I want to know if coco really cares about me, or if he's in it just for the action. What should I do?

I think you should talk to 'Coco' about that. Explain to him that you think he's just in it for some action, because is ex girlfriend is not over him. Ask him if he really turly likes you, or he just wants you as a rebond kind of think. You have to ask him and talk to him about this. If you don't, you'll never know what you should do. So talk to him, than take it from there.

I like this guy so much but the problem is, he don`t like me the way i like him. How can i get his attention or what i should do to love me.He is my boss before.Now, he used to go here in our office.
I have one more problem. He already have a girlfriend. The girl is sleeping with him.

I think you should forget about him. He already has a girlfriend and he doesn't like you in the way you like him. I think you should move on and find another guy. You shouldn't mess with guys, especially if they have a girlfriend. And you can't make someone love you. If they don't love you, there is no way you can chance their mind. You can't force someone to like you the way you like them. The best thing would be to move on. There's tons of guys out there and I'm sure you'll find one that likes you. You just have to get out there and look for him. Because this guy you're crushing on isn't the right guy.

i know this is gay .. but my boyfriend keeps trying to make out with me and like , i dont know how !? so like .. how !?

I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.

I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.

Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing

it's not like i want to know because i smoke pot, i really dont; i was just wondering because someone was talking about it..
but what's the difference between a bong, bowl and pipe??

thnx

Bong: A water pipe or bong in which smoke is bubbled through a chamber containing water.

Bowl: The part of a device for smoking weed that holds the weed itself.

Pipe: A tube with a small bowl at one end.

ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do??i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me.

Lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 16 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first boyfriend, yet. You're only 13, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends!

As for you being ugly, I'm sure you're a very beautiful girl. Everyone is beautiful in his or her own way. EVERYONE has something gorgeous about himself or herself. You need to be more confidence about yourself. Don't be down on your looks. So what, you have glasses. A lot of people have glasses and they're still beautiful. And you weight and height doesn't matter one bit. It is what is inside that counts. And I know that not a lot of people know that and a lot of people just judge others on their looks. But I assure you, that one special guy will find you and he'll love you for every single flaw you have. And no matter how ugly you feel, he'll be the one telling you you're beautiful everyday.

But for now, just have fun with your friends and doing things normal teenage girls do. Don't be down on your looks. Be yourself and if people don't like that they don't deserve to be your friend. Don't change for anyone but yourself. Cheer up a little, hun. If you feel like you're beautiful, you ARE beautiful; inside and out.

i think my friend is trying to make me jealous over stupid stuff. why would she do this? how do i just "brush it off"?

Obviously she isn't a good friend if she's trying to make you jealous over stupid stuff. I suggest ignoring her. She's only making you jealous because she knows it's getting to you. So, just ignore her. Or when she goes to make you jealous just laugh at her and walk away. Once she knows this isn't getting to you anymore, she'll stop.

this guy and i were talking. i don't know if he likes me but he always says im hot and stuff. anyway, he was like, "your real chill." what does that mean? like what was he trying to say ?

He just means that you're really cool and easy to get along with.

Its time for a new myspace layout... NOT A PICTURE...BUT A LAYOUT

Any color is fine except black

Nothing with hearts or love

Something that is fun and crazy... not too crazy though

I like swirls and cool designs

Something unique.. not whats popular at the time

No repitions of pictures... just something simple but still good

If somebody could give the website or the code... that'll be AWESOME!! thank you! I'll appriciate it, even if it's not what i'm looking for... thanks for taking the time to help

http://www.myspace.com/xohromancex has A LOT of cute layouts.

what are the chances of getting pregnant the first time you have sex? are they less than if you've had sex before?

It doesn't matter if it is your 1st time, 20th time, or 100th time for that matter. Your chances of getting pregnant is always the same.

well, a couple nights ago i was at my best friends house, and her brother was there and we both really like eachother! well when my friend fell asleep so he came into his sisters room where i was and he started making out with me. So we were just making out for a while and then he fingered me and i gave him a hand job! well then he had to go cause his mom didnt know that we were making out and everything so he left and then on monday he had a g/f. so i do not know what to do cause i really love him and i thought he loved me to! so do i talk to him about it or do i just let it go??? please help!

This guy sounds like a total jerk and he doesn't deserve a girl like you. When guys are younger, they have one thing on their mind; sex. They don't care about hurting the girl they're with, all they want is some skin. It sounds like that is all he wanted from you too. Since he did that stuff with you one night, than had a girlfriend the next. It shows that he isn't a good guy to be with. I know you may have feelings for him, but I suggest just letting it go and getting over him. This guy isn't even worth your time. There's better guys out there, that'll treat you right. Don't be stuck on a jerk, when you could have a sweetheart.

I noticed on myspace, a lot of people have names similar to this: Sean Suicide [FGDG] or Bree [BPSE]

What do the letters mean on the end in the brackets??

They mean anything you want them to mean. Usually the letters, or words in brackets are because they're in a group with friends. It could also be the initials of that persons' whole name. It could be anything really.

ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.

Since you said no and he kept going, that is called rape. You didn't want to have sex with him and he did this against your decision. So in other words, you were raped. I wouldn't consider this cheating. I mean you didn't want to do it, so you didn't cheat on your boyfriend. I suggest telling your boyfriend about this, though. (If you didn't already.) He has to know. Actually, he needs to know. He is your boyfriend, so he has the right. Just explain to him everything that happened. Of course he is going to freak out a bit. But I'm sure he'll help you through this and will be by your side. I suggest going to the doctor, too. Just to get checked out. Better to be on the safe side.

Is Ben Savage from Boy Meets World dead?

I saw myspace bulletins about his death but I heard it's a joke.

Ben Savage is still alive. :]

Hi.
I was wondering if anyone knows where
I can get cute myspace layouts besides xanga blogrings and createblog.com. Like, divs and skinny layouts? Thanks so much.

http://www.myspace.com/xohromancex has A LOT of cute layouts.

my dad whos a doctor told me by age 12 50-80% of your body is its adult size, at least if you dont gain a lot of weight or give birth or lose a lot of weight or get surgury. I am 13 and im about 5'6, i have C cup breasts, and about 40 inch hip/butt measurment. im i finished growing? i have no way of knowing because my entire family is large.

You don't stop growning until you're 18. So, you still have awhile to go yet.

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