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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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ok i hav webbed feet is that normal sould i cut them with like scissors or something?

DONT CUT THEM! have your doctor look @ them if they bother you thatmuch but dont hurt urself!

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Hey. I really want to join the step team for my middle school, but I don't know how to step. I don't know if they will teach you how to step or if you already have to know it. Please give me advice because I really need your help! thanx.

i know in my school, they teach you how! step is about rythm and moving on signals, and if you can keep an 8 count and remember moves than you should be ok! most schools will teach you, so just try out! you have nothing to lose, and youd get to learn to step! good luck!

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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do?

from what you said..it doesnt seem like he cares about anyone but himself!! if you dont want to be in a relationship w. him n he makes you uncomfortable..then you should get out now! in these kind of situations you HAVE to put yourself first...i kno u dont want to hurt this guy..but dont let him hurt you either!

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Me and a girl started talkin about a month ago.....but she has a boyfriend...........and i am friends with her boyfriend and me and her talked about kissing cause i really lik eher and she says she likes me but i dont want her boyfriend to find out!.........should i kiss her? or not? P.S. i really like her alot!!!!!

HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dont lt her cheat on her bf w. u...if u rly care about you..you should be willing to wait. if she cheats on her bf thats just gunna cause her pain in the future...so just wait until shes single..and then go 4 it! as long as she wants too..

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ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this

personally i think physics are fun every now and then, but mostly theyre just people looking for easy money!! dont let anyone tell you how your life will go, YOU control all of that, not a crystal ball!! if you two really care about each other, you'll find a way to make your relationship work no matter what!! sometimes physics take that stuff a little too far, but you are in complete control of your life, so if you really want to stay together, you will!! dont think your waisting your time, even if the relationship doesnt work out in the future, at least youre having fun and making great memories right now!! good luck with the whole thing!! x0x0x0x

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ok well my hair isnt curly but its wavy and frizzy and juss like i hate it...i straighten it with a straightener and ive tryed like 3 diff kinds...and they get it soo silky but it never stays straight and the ends curled in and it juss pised me off...so i started ironing it...it works gr8 (yea a clothes iron on an ironing board)...it stays straight all day and is pretty straight when i wake up!! after i shower it gets ugly again and its jsus a hassle ironging and straightening ur hair eryday!! wat can i do?? r ther ne like straighting conditioner/shampoo that will help? ne good straighteners...i really dont wanna iron it it kills it!! HELP

theres a certain product you can buy its like a straight perm but you do it yourself..its expensive though its like $100 n it keeps your hair straight for like 6 months even through water n shampoo n all that good stuff!! but your better off going to you haircutter and having them do it b/c its about the same price, the only difference is its professionally done!

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I think i like this one guy who got into a lot of trouble at our school what should i do?

dont judge him by him getting in trouble..get to know him better and if you feel comfortable around him and you think hes a goodperson that you could have alot of fun with, thn go 4 it!! if you dont feel comfortable, then just try to move on! x0x

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anyone kno where i can get cute but cheap bikinis? like any store like walmart 2 the mall? thx, muah! erin

SEARS! or JCpennys

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This category probably doesn't match my questions but oh well. Anyways... I really don't have that much body hair but most of what I have is black hair. Does anyone know how to bleach my like arm hair blonde? Don't say "be happy with who you are and don't try to change your looks" but just to make it clear to yall, I am doing this for myself, not for any 1 else. Please help asap atleast answer b4 like July 9 or 10 or w/e. Please and thank you! I will rate you if you answer and if it's a reasonable answer. Thankz so much! Luv yall!

if you go out in the sun alot your hair will turn blonde!! the sun bleaches it! or u could just put lemon juice on them n sit outside for a few mins!

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I have medium-long super straight blonde hair. i was going to go super hippie and grow it out to my butt, but lately i have been wanting to cut it really short.. any opinions?

i say you cut it short for summer! :) the great thing about hair is it grows back!!! lol. if you dont like it short, you'll know for next time!! im sure anything would look nice though!

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i have been sitting in my house eversince summer break started from school and i haven't realyl done anything fun the whole summer break and we have been out for like two weeks and like i tend to find my self calling like everyone i know to find something to do and i noticed the other day i let me friend say some shit about me and normaly i was have been pissed off i just took it
and another thing is i keep lookin at all my pictures of my friends just wishing how much i had a g/f and just the other day i called my x /gf and told her i liked her? i dunno why? i don't i just miss it so much cause when we were goin out she was always there for me some times to much so can someone please tell me if i am depressed? or what the hell is wrong with me cause i am seemin to feel really sad and it seems like NOTHING is going right for me at all!

go out and do something you wouldnt normally do! try new things,go bowling, go-cart racing, rent movies, something!! take a hobbie of yours, and turn it into something deeper. if you like to play basketball, get on a team. if you like to write, publish some of your work, stuff liek that! if you like staying online, meet new people! if you eve get bored you can always tlk 2 me!! :) my infos on my column if u ever wanna talk. n about ur xgf, dont lead her on if you dont really like her, because if she starts to like you and you realize you dont like her, that could cause a problem. i hope you star having more fun!!! x0x!!

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should i tell the one i love how a feel even threw a 2 year difference in age and a hour distance in where we each live ?

i think you should cuz if it works out, then you can work around all that other stuff and still be together, and if things dont go for the best, then you wont have 2 c him very much...but hey he could have feelings for you too and you would never know..so i say go 4 it!! good luck hun!

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I have almost no ones instant messaging address. My mom walked in while i was talking to one of my friends online and saw that i only had ten people on my list. Since i had a different s/n last year i didn't bother getting a lot of people's IM, so she sent me to this counsiling group for teens who can't get along with others. I went to the group once and they said that i just don't want to talk to people. Should i stay in the group, or leave, i don't think i belong in there, but should i give it another day?
Please help
Lizzy

if you dont think you belong there, then dont go! just because you dont tlk 2 ppl online doesnt mean that you cant get along with people! plus, no one knows you better than you know yourself, so if you think you have a problem, then go to the group but if you honestly think nothings wrong, then just keep living your life the way you are!! if you think theyr babbeling about stuff that doesnt relate to you, then dont waste your time! x0x0x0x

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My friend Marina cuts,smokes, and is threatning to kill herself. I've told her plaenty of times suicide is not the way, but she is not listening. Should I ignore her protests and contact someone? But who?

Please reply, thanks :)

honestly...if she wanted to be dead, she would be dead right now and you wouldnt be having conversations about it. theres a reason thatshes not dead..its because she doesnt want to die. but i know how ur feeling, iv dealt with friends who go through all of that...its a really tough thing to deal with...dont ignore her..that will just antagonize her...but you should try to get her help...and just be there for her!! let her know tht ur always there for her to run too. if you need 2 tlk then u can contact me anytime...good luck n i hope ur friend is ok!!

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my family and just switched to a new church that my cousin goes to. My youth group is taking a trip to flordia to a camp and we just moved so i don't know anyone. i really dont want to go alone and i asked my cousin if she was coming and she said she doesn't know. and i dont think she likes me very much but i really cant tell. the trip is this month and I'm scared that i'll be all alone.

consider that a blessing!!! you just have more room to make even more friends without being hounded by the people your already friends with! introduce urself 2 different people...and just be open!! everyone loves to make new friends..and being alone can just encourage you to talk to more ppl!! good luck and have fun on ur trip!!!

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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends

just walk up to people and introduce yourself!!! most people wont approache you unless they think they'll get a good response...so let them know who you are...and just be yourself!! everyone hates fake people! plus from what you wrote, you seem like a really sweet person!!

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wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)


thanx!! luv ya!!

other -- CRUNCH BARS!!! hehe

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im 13 dating a 17 year old we've been dating fo 3 and a half months and my parent dont know..so that ok?? i mean he dosent ask me to have sex and stuff like that and he treats me great..but my friends get mad when me and him r together...they dont want me with him ...are they just jealous or are they lookin out fo me???

i think its ok i mean age is just a number...but maybe there a reason your not telling your parents and you just dont know it yet?? if he treats you great and you think he genuinly cares about you then i say keep up the relationship..no need to break it off now as long as things are going good!! but you ever get the impression that hes using you, then you should probably break up with him. i think your friends are just looking out for you b/c most 17 year old guys ARE just looking 4 ass with sum1 our age...but who cares wut they think...right now its about how you feel so go 4 it!! tell your friends its your buisness, and how would they feel if you did that to them? its not such a nice feeling! so good luck w. whatever happens, and your relationship!!!

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this isnt really an injury but when i walk my feet crack. you cant hear it with sneakers or slippers on but when i wear flip flops or just socks u can hear it. is there something wrong and how do i make it stop cracking?

lol theres nothing wrong with you! its just how people crack there knuckles or elbows or something, yours just dont do it volentary!! lol but ur ok!!!

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i wanna work out my legs BUT i dont like running and already walk and dont have a swimming pool and dont have any machines so how do i work out my legs?

use the stairs!!! go up and down the stairs during different periods of the dayeveryday!! that will build really good muscle!! n i dont mean once or 2ce a day, i mena more like 50 or 100 tiems a day! lol. hope this helps...

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