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My friend Marina cuts,smokes, and is threatning to kill herself. I've told her plaenty of times suicide is not the way, but she is not listening. Should I ignore her protests and contact someone? But who?
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honestly...if she wanted to be dead, she would be dead right now and you wouldnt be having conversations about it. theres a reason thatshes not dead..its because she doesnt want to die. but i know how ur feeling, iv dealt with friends who go through all of that...its a really tough thing to deal with...dont ignore her..that will just antagonize her...but you should try to get her help...and just be there for her!! let her know tht ur always there for her to run too. if you need 2 tlk then u can contact me anytime...good luck n i hope ur friend is ok!!
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you can do research on self mutilation/sucide..and whatever else it is she's doing. There are many orginaczations out there that are willing to help, if talking to your friend isnt working..try to find her help.she obviously has a serious problem and you have to start somewhere.
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you should get ur friend a theropist
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get her help! usually if she is sticking around after saying all that, that usually means she wants help, and she trusts u to help her. tell her parents, ur parents, and then ya parents or her parents can get her the help she needs:)
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Hey Grr, NO! don't ignore her protests. Tell your school counselor, because they keep things and they won't give away your name, but now that it is summer, the best way would to be tell an adult you are closets to. ASk your friend Marina why she wants to end her life? She still has a good life infront of her and she can party it all out!
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Ignore her and immediately tell someone: her parents, her teacher, the guidance counselor, a member of the clergy. Absolutely do not hesistate.
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i think its a bad idea to ignore her protest and contact some one else cuz parents aint gonna help cuz its ovious if she isnt listenin to u she wont listen to her parents...u should tell her that soon life will get better and keep tellin her how important she is to everyone and that she matters.
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This is serious if she's threatening suicide. You've gotta tell someone. You could start with your parents, and ask your mom or whoever you feel closer with what to do. Mothers are good advice givers. I go to mine for most of my problems. Give it a shot. She'll be able to help. (Or your dad)
-Siren =)
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hun, tell some one. tell her mom, or ur mombut tell sombuddy. i telling yuh if she commited suicide it u probally would feel guilty. trust me i kno, i found out this person was gonna kill them self, and tthot it was nuffin but it was sumthin,a nd i felt really guilty afta i found out wut had happened. plz try to get help.
xoxo-love, looza
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Definately.Don't listen to her.She sounds like she's in a state of depression.She doesn't know what she's talking about.But yes tell someone right away.You could risk your friendship.But it's better than finding your friend dead knowing you could of done something and helped.Who to contact though.....ummmm.....I'm not sure who to call on it.Look around on the internet or maybe the phonebook.Hope I helped on at least the first part of your question.
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no u totally dont need 2 ignore her. u need 2 contact someone in her family that u & her both trust.i have 2 of my very close friends comit suicide and several to say they were gonna do it.and the 2 that did it i would have never expected it.so in other wrds ppl who talk bout it usually dont follow thru.the silent ones r who u need 2 watch out 4.
jessica
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Well I wouldnt ignore her because this is a serious problem. I think you should tell someone you can trust in also helping, or you should tell her parents, or tell your parents to call her parents so they can get her help. I hope my advice works.
*Zoe*
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