Mackenzie's advice column

♥[?]♥ i rly wanna no:
Mackenzie

F.R.I.E.N.D.S. or 7th heaven

blue or pink

going to the movies or watching a movie at home

dogs or cats

britney spears or jennifer lopez

chad michael murray or justin timberlake

taking back sunday or yellowcard

morning or night
thanx!

Hey; sure, thanks!

-7th Heaven
-Blue
-Depends on who I'm with. If I'm with my friends... the movie theatre is awesome, because we get the HUGE tub of popcorn with extra butter!!! Then we hit the mall and find cute guys!! If it's with my boyfriend... renting is awesome, because we put it in and leave the room and hit the bed!!
-Cats
-Britney Spears!!!!!!
-Chad Michael Murray
-Yellowcard, I suppose?
-Night

♥[?]♥ i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

There's NOTHING wrong with masturbation whatsoever!! It's perfectlly natural and many many many people choose to do it!! Hope I've helped! Enjoy!

♥[?]♥ ya one of my friends wants me to hang out with them but i just got a gf last night and well i haven't hung with this person for along time and would really like to

That wasn't really a question. I suppose I could see the problem though. If this girl you're going to hang out with is just a friend.. then who cares if you have a girlfriend or not!! UNLESS, your girlfriend feels uncomfortable about it! Even in that case, there should be no reason for her not wanting you to see this girl. Relations are a 50-50 thing, requiring work from BOTH partners, and whilte it's VERY important to spend time with one another, it's EQUALLY as important to carry on your own separate lives!! Goodluck deciding. Please feel free to come back to me with more questions/comments!

♥[?]♥ when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!

Just strike up a conversation. Ask what kind of music he likes, what school he goes to, how and how long ago he met the person you met him through. It's not that hard! Just get to know them! Keep it goin' and enjoy the conversation! Goodluck! =D

♥[?]♥ Hi...ok i just got 2 baby turtles and i have read a lot of aticles (like be4 i got them and everything so i would know what 2 do) and stuff but i was wondering if anyone with turtles would reply 2 me when they got there turtles and how big there tank was and how they took care of them and how long u have had them and anything else...ok thnxxxx!!!!! :)

Hey! I'm not so sure I can provide you with a lot of useful information, but I'll sure try. I went through two turtles in one day. It was my 13th birthday. I got the first turtle from my friend as a gift. It was a land turtle. I had him in a sort of big plastic container [without a lid]. It was about 5" high, 18" in width, and 26" in length. I just put little pebbles on the bottom and a big flat rock for him to easily lay on. He died that same day I got him though. I believe this was because my friend thought he was sick when she gave him to me [She could no longer keep him, and she knew I loved him. She was suspecting it was ill for a while now] That's why I think that one died. Then I was upset over the horrific loss, so my Mom took me out and bought me a TINY water turtle from a local pet store. His back was about 1" by 1" - he was really cute!! I stored him in the same container. I cleaned it out really well, and filled it up with water. He died a few hours later. I'm not sure why this is, and to this day have no idea why. The only reason I could think of is that the water temperature might have went up or down, causing it's death, but I have no clue. [I'm horrible with animals!! I'm surprised my dog is still kickin'! I've had her for almost three years now!!] Anyways, goodluck with your new friends!! =D Sorrie I couldn't be of more help!

♥[?]♥ so my friend wanted to make plans with me today but i was chillin wit her allllll week and i about had enough so when my other friend mel asked me to hang wit her i said shua. and then she called mel on her cell and found out i was with her and now she wont talk to me. wut do i do? please help me asap!

Just tell her to chill. Tell her your time spent with her this past week was awesome, but you need to make time for this other friend too. I'm sure she'll understand. If she is such a good friend, she should respect your decision.

♥[?]♥ what do i do when the guy ive liked for so long has lied to me about something serious .. i hadda good relationship w. him and then we got in a fight ... we didnt talk for a few weeks and then we started talking again .. i guess he started to like me again and i never stopped likeing him .. after about a week i found out hes been lien to me and he hadda g.f for almost a month .. and then he was saying he was sorry and he didnt wanna hurt me and blahhh .. well .. it doesnt change that he lied to me .. i really still like him and no one likes his new g.f i think they might break up wut shud i do .. wait or move on?

Definitely move on! He lied to you.. that's BAD! He lied to you about having a girlfriend.. that's reeallyy BAD! You're going to wait around for this guy, then when you two start dating, he's going to lie again about having a girlfriend! There's no need for you to put up with this whatsoever! Don't settle for someone like him; you deserve a whole lot more! There will be PLENTY more guys comin' your way. Just be patient and keep your head up!

♥[?]♥ i have this friend who always makes these really unessessary comments about things i say, and it gets on my nerves real bad, i wanna talk to her, but every time i talk to her about anything we get into a fight, so what do i do?

All you can do is talk to her. Tell her it's unappreciated and it bothers you. Make it clear to her what the problem is, so there's no misunderstandings. Don't be afraid to be firm. Goodluck!

♥[?]♥ me n my friend sam have this big arguement goin on for months now wen you put a tampon in do you insert it upwards or downwards? plz help me!

Upwards. =D

♥[?]♥ whats the best way to get a babysitting job?

Have your parents recommend you to their co-workers. Then check around with neighbors and family friends. Also, print out some flyers and post them on candy store windows and your local grocery stores! Goodluck on your business! =D

♥[?]♥ i like my boyfriend a lot but i have started to like my guy mate. he kinda likes me back and knows i like him but i don't want to ruin our friendship or hurt my bf cause i like him alot still. what do i do?

One of my favorite quotes is : "If you love two... you don't love either one enough" I suppose I like this quote, because it's how I think. Maybe that's just me? If I sense a relationship isn't going to work out, I end it. I mean, really, what's the point in continuing it? The way I see it, the guy should come along and sweep you off your feet. You SHOULDN'T like anyone else, because no one else can even come one-tenth to comparing to your current boyfriend! However, I suppose you'll just have to choose one [or none?] If you sense that by dumping your boyfriend and getting together with your "guy mate" may ruin your friend with your "guy mate", it's not worth it. If that's the case, you'll lose both of them. And if you don't want to be with your boyfriend anymore, you need to explain to him how you feel and decide together what the best solution is. If you DO decide to date your "guy mate", just please, please, please, make sure you and your current boyfriend are through! And to your 'Additional Info' comment: don't worrie about looking like "a slut". Honestly, who cares! You need to do what's best for YOU! Goodluck! I hope things work out! =D

♥[?]♥ its ok to have a 23 year old male as a best friend right? ...lol... i'm a chica... they say to put ur gender..so i did.

I don't see why not. As long as you're responsible and don't engage in any kind of activities you normally wouldn't to impress this older guy... Then again, if he's your "best friend", then he should respect your decisions and understand your reasonings. Just remain responsible and be yourself, and NEVER be afraid to say no!! =D

♥[?]♥ I have this friend *Amy*, right? Well, before me and my boyfriend started going out she used to be obsessed with him. All she would ever talk about was him and she literally *stalked* him. Well, me and my boyfriend started going out and she backed off a little bit. She got a boyfriend and he just recently dumped her for another girl. Now she keeps trying to talk to my boyfriend on AIM, asks ME for his screen names, his email addresses, and where we're going for our dates. This is really starting to annoy me and I don't know what to do. How should I tell her how I feel without EXPLODING in her face?

Just tell her that it makes you uneasy, and let her know that it's unappreciated. Make sure you express yourself clearly, so she understands exactly how you feel about the situation. Don't be afraid to be firm and bold! A best friend's boy/girlfriend is always off limits; It's just one of those known friendship groundrules! Inform her that there will be PLENTY of guys comin' her way, so for the moment... keep her head up and be happie for you! Goodluck! I wish you the best! =D

♥[?]♥ i really like this guy but hes gay and hes soooo nice and cute and he likes me but hes neva had a relasionship with a guy idk y he says hes gay???? what should i do

If someone's "gay", there's not much you can do about it, sorrie, and unfortunately, you can't make someone like you. However, I think you should definitely tell him how you feel. Perhaps he'd be willing to give a relationship with you a shot! I wish you the best!

♥[?]♥ Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!

I think it's GREAT!!! You can be happie with your friends and family, but I feel like having a boyfriend brings a whole new level of happiness! However, you gotta make sure you get the right guy!

♥[?]♥ I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!?

Nothing! There's nothing wrong with it! Oh well.. you enjoy it, and that's all that matters.

♥[?]♥ Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head

www.poetrypoems.com/bleedingeverywhere give me feedback on my site and dont try to copy and paste cuz these are published

wow! That's very impressive! I was touched! It really is a remarkable poem! Good job! Remember my name if you ever need more feedback. I'd like to read more of your poems!

♥[?]♥ is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??

Yeah!!! Personally, I won't date guys unless they're two or three years older than me! Just be responsible, and don't EVER be afraid to say no!! You shouldn't do something you wouldn't normally do just, because you're trying to impress some older stud! Goodluck & have fun! =D

♥[?]♥ I have a very bad head ache right now. It hurts all behind my left eye. I've taken two extra strength Tylenols, but they don't seem to be helping. Is it safe to take more then 2 within 4 hours even though the bottle does not recommend you to? Are there any other solutions out there to save my brain from splitting in half?

I'm soo sorrie to hear you have a headache!! I know what it's like; trust me!! I LIVE with a constant headache!! I have MSG sensitivity! Unless they has it also, there is NO way anyone could understand my constant headaches! It NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER goes away!! I've had it for years!! I get it from the foods I eat! Do you get headaches often?? Daily?? And I wouldn't suggest taking more than two extra strenght Tylenols. It's probably not a good idea. You should try sleeping! However, if you can't sleep.. then what the hell.. take ONE more pill! It's NOT a good idea to make that a regular thing.. but one time won't hurt you. I hope you feel better!!

♥[?]♥ How many people are fed up with the really silly questions.. ok ready everybody

1. if theres a guy you like YOU TALK TO HIM!!!! you dont need to ask about that ne more.. you cant get a guy to like you without being friends first...

AM I CLEAR?

thanks!

XOoxoO-- not trying to be rude but just trying to answer questions that are ALWAYS being posted...ALWAYS,ALWAYS,ALWAYYYYYS

Fish Sho! ;D

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