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love triangle


Question Posted Thursday July 22 2004, 2:12 pm

i like my boyfriend a lot but i have started to like my guy mate. he kinda likes me back and knows i like him but i don't want to ruin our friendship or hurt my bf cause i like him alot still. what do i do?

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Additional info, added Thursday July 22 2004, 2:17 pm:
I don't know who i like more and i don't want to dump my bf for the other guy and look like a slut..

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Mackenzie answered Thursday July 22 2004, 7:46 pm:
One of my favorite quotes is : "If you love two... you don't love either one enough" I suppose I like this quote, because it's how <b>I</b> think. Maybe that's just me? If I sense a relationship isn't going to work out, I end it. I mean, really, what's the point in continuing it? The way I see it, the guy should come along and sweep you off your feet. You SHOULDN'T like anyone else, because no one else can even come one-tenth to comparing to your current boyfriend! However, I suppose you'll just have to choose one [or none?] If you sense that by dumping your boyfriend and getting together with your "guy mate" may ruin your friend with your "guy mate", it's not worth it. If that's the case, you'll lose both of them. And if you don't want to be with your boyfriend anymore, you need to explain to him how you feel and decide together what the best solution is. If you DO decide to date your "guy mate", just please, please, please, make sure you and your current boyfriend are through! And to your 'Additional Info' comment: don't worrie about looking like "a slut". Honestly, who cares! You need to do what's best for YOU! Goodluck! I hope things work out! =D

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marebear96 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:48 pm:
Figure out who you like more... then go for who you choose... dont lead two guys on... you dont wanna hurt your bf... and i totaly understand... so why dont you help him out a little... if you like him be with him if you dont... dont be with him just to keep him from hurting... go to the other guy... so basically all you have to do is choose who you like more... its not a slutty thing to do ... but say you and ur bf break up... wait at LEASt a week be4 dating the other guy... ~ *mare*

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angita answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:25 pm:
honestly u gotta see who makes u happier who u lyk being around more and who u lyk more.. n im pretty sure u wont look lyk a slut.. cuz if u do this all the time then ok u do.. but u gotta think about ur self n no1 else.. think about it carefully! gud luk xoxo angie

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Hotblonde123 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:20 pm:
I think that you should tell your friend that you like him, but you have a boyfriend. I think that you should tell your boyfriend what had been going on just in case he finds out from someone else and breaks up with you but you may feel different. Tell the other guy that you do want a relationship with him but after you and your boyfriend break up. Hope I helped a little.

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BeachBum5724 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:20 pm:
i think you should stay with your bf. it's hard when your going out with someone and ya most girls do tend to start liking other guys while they are already in a relationship. but i don't think you should dump your boyfriend for this other guy. stick with him. if you love him enough, you'll stay with him.

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