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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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Ok I have this PIT feeling inside of me--I think that Britney and Justin should totally get back together..I know that some of you may not be their biggest fan, but please don't reply to this unless you want a negative rating. I think that they BELONG together..and this feeling is really bothering me..I hope that in the future they will get back together...I don't know why I'm feeling this way but it seems like it's meant to be. Now, I know I have no right to decide who should be together since I don't know what really went on in their relationship...but If they're not together, it seems like everything isn't right. I love Britney Spears..she's an inspiration to me...and Justin is just amazing also. I'm soo sorry if this is long but I just need to get it out. Don't you think they belong together?? This feeling in me is really strong..

Hehe! Theres nothing wrong with thinking that. I think they should get back together tho but she seems really happy with her new husband. Sorry I dont know why and how they broke up. x0

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is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
i rate high

Uhm no! If you like him then you do. Who cares if he is one year younger. Thats nothing. x0

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can sum1 please tell me when a disposable razor needs to be disposed of? i've 13/f and i've never used a disposable razor before.. whats a way to check if its dull or how do you know when you should throw it out? thanks

You will know. It will be dull and be just kinda gross looking I guess but trust me you will know when you need to throw it away. x0

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This guy I loved broke up with me because my exbff told him i was cheating on him. But I wasn't, It was all a lie because she liked him. He told me he loved me over the phone but then the next day he broke my heart. since i started dating I promised myself that i would never cry over a guy. im 14 and i just broke out and started to ball. ever since that day my friends keep saying thaht i should get over him but i just cant!!! PLEASE HELP IM STILL CRUSHING ON HIM! 14/F

Aw! I know how that is .. but sometimes you cant keep the promise where you dont cry over a boy. Your ex should of never listened to your best friend and she was just jelous. Talk to him!!! There is a chance where you might get him back. Tell him you would never cheat or do anything llike that to him because you love him. x0

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i got a sun burn on my face today..and my face is like kinda red..like along my nose and forehead and cheeks..well i dont really wanna looks so red tomorrow for school....is it possible that i can lessen the reddening by tomorrow? Thanx!

Foundation or moisterizor! x0

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Ok, I have a serious problem. I have become very suicidal because of depression, and other things that I don't want to say. I called my boyfriend one night, telling him I wanted to kill myself, he called my parents and told them. My mom was too busy with her boyfriend, so she just said, "I'll just call her dad and have him check up on her." My dad came over and just brought me food, it was very nice of him, but he didn't know what to do, I am seeing a therapist. But I know that if I told her that I felt as if I were going to attempt this, she'd get me in a hospital. So, here are my questions.

How can I get my parents to take my very depressed feelings of dying seriously?


[I tried telling my mom, my exact words were, "I seriously want to die, everyone thinks its just a phase, but I seriouly want to be dead."] I got nothing out of this. I feel like my mom could care less. And as for my dad, he thinks I'm being ridiculous, and so does my sisters.

When you are in a hospital/mental institution, what exactly happens?

I fear that I will be trapped in there screaming with everyone ignoring me. So, if anyone could tell me as much as they can please, details.


This would really help me, thank you

Why do you want to die? There has to be reasons and some issues. Find the problems and try to fix it. Killing yourself solves nothing at all. It makes thinks worse for everyone and for all the people that love you. A lot of teenagers go through this stage where they are very depressed and just want to die trust me I know. You will get over that feeling and you will relize how good you have it. Some people dont even have parents that care so you should be happy. You mom does care and so does your dad but they just dont take it so seriously because everyone goes through it. They love you so dont ever question that. As for the hospital thing they will ask you why you feel like that but going to a hospital isnt a good idea because they can put you on medication. Talk to a counslor and just do the things you love to do and hang out with your friends. Good luck! x0

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Before my younger sister had signed up here, I always made it to where it automtically signed on my name, but now she has been prying her way in my personal questions, I changed my password 2 times, but it still automatically signs on. Someone please help me, she keeps repeating the questions I ask to people.

Logout before you leave. I hate when people do that. Tell her to stay out of if or else you will get in her privacy. x0

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i got my school report last week and it was okay.my maths teacher said that i should ask for help when i dont understand,so i have ever since but everytime i ask its like its too much effort for her to help me. well today i asked for help and she did a real big sigh and i just lost it and sweared at her and stuff. anyway she said she would forget about it if i said sorry but i refused cos i was still angry.well now im waiting to go into the heads office and i dont know what to do or say? anyone done this before?please reply quick xx

Say you are very sorry but you just got mad. She said if you ever needed help to ask her but when you did she just made a big sigh. She shouldnt of said that she would help you if it was going to be a problem. x0

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well ive been going out with this guy tha i love and ever since ive been going out with him my best friend has been gettin all pissed at me and trying to break us upp....and now im not friends with her anymore cuz of this...and she said she wont be mad at me if i just break up wit my boyfriend but i love him and im not going to do that....i think maby she is kinda jallous that i have a bf n she dosent...but than again i dont know....help!!!
~*! *~panda~*-!*~

She is jelous but you shoudnt of stoped being friends with her because of that. Friends come before boyfriends no matter what even if she gets mad. Talk to her and let her know how much you love your boyfriend and she has to accept it. x0

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ok i have two best friends, lets call them jill and Sue. Ok Jill and Sue have been hanging out A LOT! and its making me really jelous. Ok me and Jill were BEST friends until Jill and Sue started hanging out. ok Sue recorded something on Jill's phone and i thought it was funny so me and Jill SORT OF did the same thing and put it on her phone. Sue saw it and got REALLY mad so she recroded something saying..."You know what (my name) you need to stop stealing my stuff and making it look like yours!" i REALLY don't know what to do! what should i say to her? or to both of them?

*ThAnKs A BuNcH!*

*XOXOmeXOXO*

She shouldnt get mad at you because you wernt the only one recording. Tell her it was your other best friend too and I think you should just tell them its bothering you and that they leave you out sometimes.. If they do? Being jelous is normal so dont worry about it. Just talk to both of them. x0

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last week was spring break for me, and i went to the beach. While i was there, i got sunburned. My face is peeling and all. My question is, will it be ok to get my eye brows waxed tomorrow or will it make my face peel more?

It might hurt a little bit since your face is burned but I dont think it will peel. You should wait a week or so until your skin cools down. x0

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ok .. sorry if this is confusing but i am lydia(14 yrs. old) and my sister(15 yrs. old) is brittany. there is this guy name jason(13 yrs. old). Well last summer i was goin out with josh(14 yrs. old) (jasons friend) and jason liked my sister. When me and josh broke up, jason started liking me. Jason has liked me for like 4 months. But then a couple of weeks ago, he started liking my sister again. I think i like him and last night i asked him if he liked my sister and he said yea. Then later on last night, i was like "jason, i like you." then said i was just kiddin. About 10 minutes later, he asked me was i serious about liking him and i said "why, do you want me to like you or something?" and he tped "no comment". I didnt know what he meant. Should i take that as a yes he wants me to like him, or a no? whenever i say no comment i mean yes. So i dont know what to think. someone please help me!!! ohh yea, and last night jason asked me if i still liked josh and i said yes so i think he got a little mad.

i rate high!!!

When people say "no comment" it usually means a yes. Jason is just a little bit jelous but you shouldnt of said you liked him and said just kidding. Thats just mean. He likes you and you like him so just tell him so dont waste your time. x0

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ok so i really like this guy and i perposly try to walk by his and stuff so he'll notice me.. i dont talk to him in school and im not sure if he knows me...but i talked to him on aim a few times. and the other day my friend imed him because she got the sn from looking off my buddylist.. and she asked him if he was friends with me.. and he said yes. its really weird because i didnt even no he knew who i was...and im really scared to talk to him in person so do you have any advice other than that?

Dont be scared! Maybe when you talk to him online just be like hey! how come you never say hi to me in the hall? If not that then just say hi in the hall or if you have any classes together. Just be friends with him because you never know if you will be more unless you talk! x0

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Hey!

I don't know where else to get some advice for this but I was just wondering what color of eyeshadow/eyeliner would look good with a light turquoise blue dress?

I have red hair, blue eyes & I'm somewhat fair-skinned.

Thanks so much!

Eyeliner- dark brown.. Eyeshadow-Gold or tanish. x0

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Ok,yesturday i went to the bathroom,did my busness[sorry sp].Like anything normal,of course.Then today my area smelled really bad after i took a shower. It smelled all day and other people could smell it to!I was so embarissed but they didnt no it was me.I didnt no what was wrong!! I havnt had my period yet[i dont mean this month,i mean i NEVER have] [i turned 13 a couple of days ago,and obviously,im a female] Dose anyone no whats wrong?
i rate VERY high.

It might be discharge which means you might get your period soon. Start wearing light pads so it doesnt go on your undies l0l. Its really no big deal but it wont stay for a long time just wear pads.. x0

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i have lots of make up,but i dont no what kind of make up to use for me,and what i should focus on.I have brown hair,brown eyes,and fair skin. My eyes are a little big. Can anyone help?

Usually if you have dark hair and eyes you should focus on more natrual and light colors. If you use foundation then use Covergirl or whatever brand you like. Dont get anything that is darker from your skin. Eyes.. you could also do a smokey eye but Im not sure if you know how to do that. Use eyeliner but dont get black just get dark brown its way better. The eyeshadow I would use is light colors like tan, goldish, brown natrual colors like that. Use a little bit of mascara but not too much so your eye lashes stick together. For your lips use a clear glossy lipgloss or whatever you like. Anything else lemme know. x0

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I was just wondering how long it takes for your boobs to grow in after you get your period.Dose it happen right away?
i rate high. thanks :)

Around your first period but your boobs dont stop growing until you are 18. x0

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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
will rate

Do you straighten your hair because thats how it usually get greasy. Wash you hair every morning and dont use too much conditionar just a little. x0

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My parents want ot get a new TV and throw away our old one which is kinda crappy but still works! and I want it in my room but how can i convince them to let me have it?1

Tell them its not worth throwing away because it still works and you want it in your room. Dont argue and just be a good kid towards them. l0l x0

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okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/

Shes too young for sex but its worse not knowing. Tell her to take a pregnancy test before its too late. x0

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