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in love with my ex who is hot but treated me wrong
This guy I loved broke up with me because my exbff told him i was cheating on him. But I wasn't, It was all a lie because she liked him. He told me he loved me over the phone but then the next day he broke my heart. since i started dating I promised myself that i would never cry over a guy. im 14 and i just broke out and started to ball. ever since that day my friends keep saying thaht i should get over him but i just cant!!! PLEASE HELP IM STILL CRUSHING ON HIM! 14/F
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Aw! I know how that is .. but sometimes you cant keep the promise where you dont cry over a boy. Your ex should of never listened to your best friend and she was just jelous. Talk to him!!! There is a chance where you might get him back. Tell him you would never cheat or do anything llike that to him because you love him. x0
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Ok, first of all, good goal setting! Well, you are in a tough situation right now. What i would do is go tallk to that guy and tell him that you feel really sad and that you didnt like it when he treated you wrong. If that doesnt work, i guess just don't think about him. Don't worry, im in the same situatuion exept my ex is in another country and he also cheated on me..
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I think its great that you've set yourself a goal to not cry over guys, but thats a very hard promise to yourself to keep, especially when you are 14. Dating around when you are a teenager just flat out sucks. You've got to find someone who you are into, and whose into you, you have homework and school aside from less dating and hanging aroubd them, you have to stick with your friends, and then on top of that, you have your family. Anyway, now that I've got that out of the way, basically you should get over him, it would be better for you, hes treated you wrong, move on from him. Peoples minds and hearts' change a lot during these ages. One minute you love him, the next minute you see another guy you like. Everyone changes, and it sucks. I know you see no possiblity in getting over him, but if you really find that possibility, that is your key to get over him faster. But telling yourself you aren't good enough and you're too in love will make this process much slower, and most likely won't happen. Ask your friends to help you get over him, they can help!
-TheTeenGirl
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