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ok well lets put it this way i laugh alottt.. im one of them people that laughs at the randomest stuff, so pretty much everything. but it gets kinda embarrassing because whenever i laugh i tend to laugh really hard and my face turns SO red and i start "crying" even if i dont really intend to laugh hard or even if ive only been laughing a few seconds. people kinda tease me about it. not rlly "tease", but you know. any thing i can do to laugh less hard and less ..dramatic? lol (link)
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I use to be like that! It was who I was I mean everybody's different right? Its nice to laugh though but laughing to much really annoyed me too. So you can just put your mind to it. Thats what I did and I reminded my self that. Once you do that alot so you'll be more calm. But sometimes its good to break down laughing! But always smile and make sure you do laugh!
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ok so i like this girl in my spanish class. we occasionally talk and when we do we talk for a long time. she flirts with me through myspace and stuff. i talk to her on the phone from time to time but other than that we dont rele talk to each other much in spanish. she said she wants to take me to the mall this weekend so i plan on going. how can i impress her and try to ensure that she likes me. and when would be a good time to ask her out? please help. thanks. i rate high for advice (link)
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The mall thing is great. Most girls like it when you make them laugh it makes them have a good time! The true way to find out if the girl you like, like you is to tell her that you like her she will probably say how she feels. Oh yeah! Don't try to hard if you know what I mean. Just be yourself have a good time!
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okay well i ahve like this guy for 2 years and i sware he is like the only guy i wnat and i have been through a lot just for him to notice me and he is on my mind 24/7 well not literally but you gt the point i kd what tothink am i obseesed or do i really like him....my friends say i'm obsessed but idk (link)
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You might be obsessed but I have the problem too. He is on my mind almost every momment but try not to get it in the way, trust me! If you have acted like someone you aren't to get him to notice you thats not the right way to go. Like I know the usual be yourself thing but it works. Talk to him and stuff he'll notice you more. It might be a big crush though. I hope everything goes well for you!
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My boyfriend has to work on Valentine's day so we're celebrating it the night before but I was thinking of maybe buying or baking something to bring in to his work. I am not that great of a baker, but I can do it if needed. Does anyone have any ideas as to what I should bring to him? He's not a huge fan of chocolate and he likes various candy, I just don't want to buy him something and give it to him, some thought should be put into it... (link)
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If he dosn't like chocolate then how about different candies like you know those little heart ones in a box, I don't really like them but I know alot of people who do! Cookies are good to make you don't need to actually bake them you can get them from the store and stick in in the oven. Oh a cute little gift would be nice like and heart picture frame with a picture of who guys in it! There are also tons of other candy so thats not much of a problem if you know what he likes. I hope you guys have a great valentines day!
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i had a rough night one night and the next day at school, i still wasn't too happy or perky like i usually am. my whole group all stands together in the mornings and my best friend was in the group and she didn't notice a thing. it confused me because i can always tell when there's something wrong with her. i put in my ipod headphones and just blasted my music. then this girl next to me was like "your music is really loud..are you ok??" and i've only known this girl for like 4 months and she is noticing.
so here's my question:
is my best friend tottally insensitive to others feelings? or is was she just not paying attention? (link)
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She might not have noticed, trust me my friends were like that once too. She might have noticed but didn't say anything about it.
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alright. i've been told that i'm pretty by guys and i do have a good personality, but the thing is; i haven't had a boyfriend since 7th grade. which was 2 years ago. what's wrong with me? i don't want to throw myself at a guy because that would freak him out. i'm just worried about being jealous of couples holding hands and being all lovey for the rest of highschool. should i just wait it out & see what happens?
(which will be nothing at the rate i'm going:p) (link)
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Well you have a good personality and you are pretty right? Well there might be a guy crushing on you right now! Well if you like a guy you should tell him how you feel, chances are he'll probably like you back.
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idk,
lately it seems like all guys are jerks. atleast all the "decent ones", and the ones you REALLY like, are way out of your league.
:S (link)
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Yeah I know they don't mature as quick as girls it seems! But even when they are adults they still act like kids, lol, But you know they still want to have fun. Basically from the ages 12-15 they act immature. Well most of them do!
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my crushes birthday is coming up soon and well see i'm friends with im but only for about about. i don't talk to him that much and err yeah my situation sucks. i only talk to him on the phone once inawhile..but i think i have crus on him. but what should i do for his birthday? should i call him and just wish him a happy birthday or do i give him a present or what? (link)
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You can give him a card I think he will like that or chocolate. You don't really need to get him a present but a card will be good. Oh and like leah87 said about the hanging out thing that would be good too. Or if you don't want to do that a sweet phone call saying happy birthday will be awesome.
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If it gets confusing, I'm sorry. It shouldn't be too bad though.
There's this guy, we'll call him "Scott". I went out with "Scott" for about two years, then we broke up becauase of a lie. After the break up, we didn't talk. We basically hated eachother. That was in November of 2006.
Now, he has a girlfriend, and I still love him. He tells me he still loves me, too. [I'm guessing this goes with the whole 'You will always have feelings for your first love' type of thing] But I really still love "Scott". And I'm not too pleased with the way his current girlfriend is treating him. He deserves better.
I am best friends with one of his best friends. And he tells me all about "Scott". He told me, if I find a way to prove to him how much I truely love him before Valentine's Day, he'd give me another chance. Which is exactly what I need. I love him and I'd do anything for him.
So far, I already got him a Teddy Bear and a locket that says "You Hold The Key To My Heart." And I also wrote him a ten page paper about how much I love him. But, knowing "Scott", this won't be enough for him.
Any ideas of what I can buy or make for him? Money isn't an issue. I just really need to get this guy back..
Thank you so much (link)
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The stuff that you are getting him now is pretty good and if he thinks thats not good enough that is kinda bad. But here are some ideas. Chocolates and other candies is nice espeacially for valentines day! Maybe a cute picture frame (heart shape ones are good) of the two of you guys! Hope you guys have a good valentines day!
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13|f kae. as we all know Valentines Day is only a short way away me and my boyfriend have been going out since January 16. i want to know what i should get him | i dont even know even know if he is getting me anything . what should i do | get him ? (link)
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He might get you something but just in case get him something not to big. Candy is a great gift especially for valentines day! Maybe a picture of you two, or maybe take him somewhere nice but it might be expensive. I hope you guys have a great valentines day!
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i am 18 female. i have meet a boy who is 16 and will be 17 in April. he is a wounderful person great personialty and soo sexy. i'm s0 worried about what everyone is going to say about me and him? right now he is grounded and it's hard for us tohang out with each other and by the time he is gettting off grounded he will be moving over here closer to me and i'll be getting my license back. my question is. should i give this a shot and just say screw what everyone says?
cuz i can honestly see my self fallin in love with this guy (link)
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Its not a huge difference I think you should give it a shot and forget what everybody else says, its your life and who cares what everybody else says!
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My best friend got DUMPED by her boyfriend, for NO absolute reason, except for another girl of course. And her boyfriend cheated on her several times with another girl, and she knew it. I guess because it was her first boyfriend, it's hard to let go, so she let him. She didn't even confront him about it! I wanted to, but she didn't let me.
I knew from the start he was disloyal. Now this guy is asking her out again and I know why. It's because he wants to make another girl jealous. I tell her, and she says that I was making things up just because I wanted to go out with HIM.
Okay. I thought that was ridiculous. I HATE guys that play around with girls like their toys, and this guy is one of them. I don't know where she got that idea, but now we're not talking.
What am I supposed to do???? (link)
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The best thing to do is to talk to her about it. But just don't get into the way when you get into a fight. Trust me I've seen that happen because of a guy and you don't want to lose a friend because of her love problems. She can choose what she wants to do but just watch him (but not to much) and make sure he isn't toying her around. Then get proof to her and she will probably will apoligize. Just tell her to be careful. I hope everything works out for you!
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There's this guy and he's.. just all trouble.
He tried beating up this other dude. But he was harrassing the dude's girlfriend. So he just walked away from them.
He came over and talked to my ex. Managed to get into a fight. A little thing, maybe 2-3 punches were thrown.
My throat closed up. My heart was beating so loud. My eyes burned and I wanted to lay down.
Of course there was no serious damage..
but
I don't know why I'm feeling like this.
I'm really sad and I feel like I'm having an anxiety attack.
I really care about my ex [as a friend] and I don't want him to get hurt. But it happened so many hours ago and I still feel all weird by it.
Is there some reason why? (link)
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I agree with with the other person that its normal to still care about your ex as a person. Its hard to see someone you liked alot get hurt.
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There's this guy I've liked for a while now and he took me out on a date Saturday night. I had fun and so did he. Yesterday I thought I might as well tell him that I liked him because everyone was under the impression that he liked me--not only did he take me out, but I went over his house and met his family and he picked me up, drove me home, payed for the date (it was a dance and he bought the ticket and went through a lot of hassle so that I could come), and walked me to my house and everything. When I told him I liked him, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was having issues and was unsure. I'm just really frustrated--how come he was sending me mixed messages? I'm really angry at him for leading me on like that and taking me out, just so I'd be there if things with girl #1 didn't fall through. I'd like to give him a piece of my mind but I don't even know where to begin. I wrote him an angry letter that I might give to him...and it's all about how he pretty much led me on and played little boy games with me and how he's an a-hole, but he's also a great guy, generally, and just because he didn't treat me right doesn't mean I'm over him yet. I even say that if he were to ask me out, I'd say yes. (Although I didn't write that I'd probably have to see a little more effort on his part, although it's true.) Should I give him the letter? (We don't go to the same school and we rarely see one another so I'd have to give it to a friend to give to him.) Or should I give him a piece of my mind someway else? Or should I just give up and leave him alone? What should I do? Thanks. (link)
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If you don't see this guy alot then don't send him the letter. Like twistedlover said either talk to him over phone or face to face. He dosn't need to use you just because his girlfriend and him has issues and he needs someone to go out with! Lots of guys do that and you need to tell him your not gonna get stepped on like some doormat! Tell him what you wrote. You could leave it alone if you want to but if you want to give him a peice of your mind then tell him. I hope everything goes well for you!
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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated. (link)
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Yeah you can do that stuff. It sounds cool! I like to take pictures of my pets and my family also my friends if they let me! lol! You can also spend time with friends, at their houses and hanging out with family even! I also like drawing so that is something to do, scetching of stuff outside and inside. So I hope those are some good idea's! I hope you have fun!
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I met this nice guy at work. I'm 23 he's 26... but I don't think thats a big deal. I just said hi to him one day and we got to chatting. He hangs around to talk to me for a few minutes here and there after his shift is over and we do talk on the phone. We did go out to the movies one day and ended up kissing. I told him that I liked him and all he said was "I didn't know you liked me " I felt awkward but neither of us brought it up again. I'm not really quite sure what to do (link)
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He might like you. Talk to him and bring up if you want to hang out and then if you do then ask him then and he might feel the same way too. Don't be scared to ask him because you won't get anywhere if you don't! I hope everything goes well.
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i need some advice regarding my 9 year old son.
he wanted a cell phone and a laptop for christmas. he didnt get either and wrote a statement "no cell phone or laptop i want you dead i swear"
in addition he has a facination with guns and knives.all he draws is blood & death useing guns and knives. hes consitantly defiant especially when it comes to picking up after himself
ex: wrappers or soda cans left wherever he decides where he wants to eat. he is always lying about trivial things and constantly breaks or looses possesions and then lies about it even though it wouldnt have gotten him in trouble.
no punishments or rewards work ! at all ! he'll do things right until hes off punishment and he'll just continue with what he does when he gets rewards.
this all started after his father died and i do not believe it is his way of copeing with it .
he has many problems with school and cannot concentrate
pleas help . any advice will do. im really frightened by what he does and worried about how this will all end.
signed by,
concerned perent
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If he's like that do not reward him. He dosn't deserve that if he dosn't listen. He probably also has a really bad group of friends and bad influences in his life. You are going to have to keep punishing him until he gets the hang of things here.
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ok.. the kid i'm hooking up with makes no sense.. everytime he calls me i can't pick up the phone cuz i happen to be busy. so he'll leave a message ranting about how i never pick up and yet he never picks up when i call him..
and also i have a stalker so my hook up agreed to help me get my stalker away so everytime i text my hook up i'll say "help me" and he just types back.. "ok"... and does nothing. yet whenever i see him he is soo friendly.. but when we're communicatinig through texts or email.. he only types one word.. i'm lucky if i get a sentence once in awhile. i don't know what to do.. i don't know what to say and i don't know what he wants.. what should i do? HELP ME! (link)
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I agree with Kate, he might be a jerk or he might the normal confusing guys. I met this guy he was trying to act cool so its sorta dumb but thats what guys do. Call him and if he dosn't answer tell him you need to talk to him but don't do what he does when you don't pick up the phone. And tell him whats going on and ask him nicely if he would email and text at least a sentence. But guys don't talk as much so that also might be the reason but I hope everything goes well for you!
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Me and my sister are both teenage girls, 15 and 16. We butt heads on a daily basis. We fight at least twice a day, and by fight I mean physically and definitely emotionally. We've physcially fought so badly that we leave bruises, marks and scratches on each other. Emotionally is the worst though. She has no idea that everything she says to me/calls me hurts me so badly. As my older sister everyone expects us to fight, but this type of fighting is over the line. We fight twice a day, at least!
We're past the point of working it out, our parents have tried everything. And honestly I'm sick of crying everyday.
What do I do? And please don't say ignore her, that NEVER works. (link)
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Yeah thats like me and my brother I know its different but in some ways its the same. Like the other person said get out of the house for awhile. Go to a friends house and go out somewhere and have some fun, you guys have been together alot so thats the problem. You said it hurts when she says stuff like that? When you both are calm say how you feel but you know in a calm way it might make everything a bit easier.
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Okay, I'm fourteen, a girl, and in desperate need of some advice. There's this guy I like (he's two years older than me, if that makes any difference) and he goes to a different school than I do. So, I only see him once a week at karate--sometimes not even that! Now, I found out that he likes practically everything I like. He seems a little nervous when he talks to me though, and I find him occasionally looking at me. But if I look at him, he quickly turns away.
Now here's the problem. I convinced him to try out for his school's play, since he never did before, and he tried out. Not so bad, right? My friend's friend knows more about him though, so I asked her about him. She said he was in all of the previous plays, that he's never had a grilfriend, and that he's a loser! That's horrible! But, did he really lie to me? We're friends, why would he do that? It's just...some people say he likes me, and it's just...no one I know is like him. And the signs are there...so...does he like me?
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It sounds like he likes you! It dosn't matter what your friends friend said! If he's nice and is honest then it dosn't matter what they say. If he did lie to you ask him why and he will tell you what happened. But it does sound that he likes you!
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