He tried beating up this other dude. But he was harrassing the dude's girlfriend. So he just walked away from them.
He came over and talked to my ex. Managed to get into a fight. A little thing, maybe 2-3 punches were thrown.
My throat closed up. My heart was beating so loud. My eyes burned and I wanted to lay down.
Of course there was no serious damage..
but
I don't know why I'm feeling like this.
I'm really sad and I feel like I'm having an anxiety attack.
I really care about my ex [as a friend] and I don't want him to get hurt. But it happened so many hours ago and I still feel all weird by it.
MSMWBTUA1718 answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 11:02 am: It's normal that you still care. He was someone you once had feelings for, and unless he was terrible to you, you both still care about each other as people. It's not easy watching someone you loved/had a relationship with get hurt like that. i think it's normal. [ MSMWBTUA1718's advice column | Ask MSMWBTUA1718 A Question ]
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