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ok.. the kid i'm hooking up with makes no sense.. everytime he calls me i can't pick up the phone cuz i happen to be busy. so he'll leave a message ranting about how i never pick up and yet he never picks up when i call him..
and also i have a stalker so my hook up agreed to help me get my stalker away so everytime i text my hook up i'll say "help me" and he just types back.. "ok"... and does nothing. yet whenever i see him he is soo friendly.. but when we're communicatinig through texts or email.. he only types one word.. i'm lucky if i get a sentence once in awhile. i don't know what to do.. i don't know what to say and i don't know what he wants.. what should i do? HELP ME!
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Guilt him.
Text him saying like
"Yeppp, I love when you pretend that you care about what I'm saying to you =sarcastic="
My bf = the worst at answering texts and IMs. A lot of the time, he doesn't answer me at all, and then after like 20 minutes will be like "hello?" It's pathetic and it worries me.
So I guilt him, and then he fixes it.
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I agree with Kate, he might be a jerk or he might the normal confusing guys. I met this guy he was trying to act cool so its sorta dumb but thats what guys do. Call him and if he dosn't answer tell him you need to talk to him but don't do what he does when you don't pick up the phone. And tell him whats going on and ask him nicely if he would email and text at least a sentence. But guys don't talk as much so that also might be the reason but I hope everything goes well for you!
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If he's that difficult to talk to and doesn't even seem like he cares about you,I'd just break it off.If you do,tell him exactly that.
If you don't want to,just tell him how you feel.Ask him why communication is so rough between you two and why he's so apathetic towards you,or just flat out tell him that you don't like how he treats you.
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okay i see 2 possibilities for this boy.
either he's just a jerk, like the other girl said, or hes just a normal, confusing boy.
ill notice a lot of the time when im with a guy in person he'll be so sweet and absolutely perfect. but when im talking with him on aim or through texts, like you said, he uses one word answers. he may just be trying to act cool and hard to get. even though to us he just seems to be acting jerkish. boys are stupid that way. find a subtle way to tell him that you wished he talked to you more through e-mails and texts. and be nice about it.
and maybe this guy isnt the best person to help you get this stalker away. this sounds like more of a best friends job or something. im sure u and a friend could have fun with that. a lot of times when a guy who likes you is involved in a situation that includes another guy who likes you, he gets uncomfortable. deff work this out with just a friend, girl or boy. but JUST a friend.
and about the calling thing, if you call him and he doesnt answer, then try to say nicely in a message or whatever that you would like him to call you back because you want to talk to him. dont rant on like he does. this way he'll know that you want to talk to him. and maybe he'll realize that he was being a bit of a jerk.
i hope i helped, good luck!
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Um hes basically just using you to get what he wants, no feelings attatched. I'd say get rid of him, if he really cared he'd help you and he'd communicate the same when your not together and when you are. Hope i helped!
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