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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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What are really fun hings to do with friends? not too many people just like 4-6. It has to make me seem like a reall cute sweet and fun girl. What can I do? How do i act? What do i wear?

Hang out at the mall, go to the movies, have a movie night at your house, go blowling, in the summer or when its warm my friends and I like to hang out at the park hhaa, but that one kinda depends on your friends (we think its fun). Anything really, and their your friends, act yourself dress normal, they like you for you.

Jes

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Well the guy i like has a girlfriend and i liked him for about a month and they were going out for about two weeks now, but i go to my brothers football practices and he stares at me and smiles.. and he knows i like him and my bother and him always talk about me.. i am soo confused i dont know if u likes me or if he is looking at someone else. what do i do to find out.. besides to talk to him?? Please help me!

You say the advice under you was "gay" but its ture. IF he has a girlfriend then thats it. Unless you want him cheating on her he off limits. Sorry if that not the answer you want but its the truth.

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if i go to a cheap nail place, how much does it usually cost to get fake nails put on? and also around how long do they stay on?

Depending on where you are the cost will be differnt. I have gotten them from anywhere from 25-50$ but the average is like 30. They will stay on for about 2 weeks then they will grow out so you can get them filled or just take them off. Gettin them filled is less money maybe like 15? or depending on how much you payed the first time it will probabaly be half of that.

Jess

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how do i change the fount on myspace to like strikeout or make it bigger or change the color?????????????

strikeout is < s >TEXT< /s > (but take out the spaces)

to make then bigger use < h1 > and you can change the numbers 1-5 depending on how big or small you want it (again take out the spaces)

to change the color < font color = COLOR > TEXT < / font > (take out the spaces)

Jess

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Well I was thinking about being a gothic girl for holloween. But since my mom doesn't like holloween she won't buy me a gothic costume. Any ideas what I could wear?. It has to be like things that I could get at home because I have no money thanks!

Haha that what i was gonna be too. Well basically anything black. Maybe just a blak shirt and black pants, with like chins on the and stuff and theyshould be baggy. Then use lots of black eyeliner, stuff like that.

Jess

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how do you reduce/eliminate the apperance of scars and/or stretch marks? any kinds of lotions or something?

Lotions or creams with coco butter help alot.

Jess

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i want to start babysitting for money bc i need money haha but my parents said i need to take a class to learn how to do cpr and all that before i babysit. is this true?

Well yes it is good to know. If your gonna babysit for people you already know then they normally dont care because they trust you, but if you are going for random jobs then it is better to know cause you are more likely to get hired.

Jess

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How should I tell my friends that I'm moving 14 hours away? Today is the 1st day I'm "allowed" to tell people & I just don't know how. I told one friend that was over at my house on saturday & she about started crying. A lot of people I just see at school. Should I tell them individually or what? I want to tell my closer friends first but I just don't know. I won't see them very often when I go away. A lot of them will probably think I'm kidding but I'm definatly not. I'm moving in about 2 and half months at the latest. Any advice? thanks sooo much!

Well deffinatly tell your close friends. Just call them or talk to them online and be like..ther eis really no other way to tell you but im moving. Because that really is the only way. They will be dsad maybe some will cry but its better they know sooner. Then the rest of the pople at school will just eventually find out from other pople and stuff ya know. IF thaey think your kidding then that pretty lame, because its not really something to joke about so if they do then whatever when your gone they will relize you didnt lie.

Jess

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Well.. normally Im a pretty outgoing, like laid-back kinda person.. not too laid-back, but I'm comfortable. Like around my family, and close friends. I'm really energetic and stuff, which is like the complete opposite of how I am in school. I dunno, but in school people usually see me as like a shy, quiet girl when my personality really isnt like that. like sometimes i feel like i shouldnt say some things, when its like my opinion.. i mean i raise my hand in class etc and im a good student, and i dont want to like fail or whatever, but i want to be as easygoing and more comfortable in school like i am in school and stuff, because sometimes it stops me from being friends with people and stuff when i know i'll get along with them and stuff. i guess it takes some time to know me.. and because of my softspoken and quietness in class, i got put in speech cause the teachers couldnt hear me when i could pronounce like all the words. i dont get it.. its like my voice kinda lowers and seems kinda dull and boring when i speak well sometimes, and like everyone in the class hears what i said except the teacher, of course. i mean sometimes i even pretty much shout it, and some kids like mumble and the teacher hears the mumble but apparently is deaf to me speaking?!? like i always have to repeat stuff. i mean seriously.. maybe i should just not care about what people think cuz sometimes i wonder if i say something like really weird i dont want to be labeled like that, when people like my friends really know me and wouldnt judge me like that. and ya i love myself and stuff but i dunno why i do that. i try to stop doing it and be like more outgoing every day, but sometimes i feel less like a kid and more.. like strict and junk, when i dont want to entirely be that way, and like be more flexible and stuff. i guess i'd like tips on how to be like.. more comfortable in school and stuff? or overall. thanks a junks for helping! =]

I use to be like that. In school i would never talk. I was so afraid of what people would say when i said stuff so i just stayed quite. But then i relized that i hated being shy because im really outgoing. So i tyred to be more outgoing, like talk to more pople and make jokes and stff like that. I relzed that kids liked that wy better, and i made a tonn of new friends from it. SO basically you just need to let go. I know its hard it took me a year to be more outgoing, but in the end its so worth it. Also chances are that everyone will ike the real you better.

Jess

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Heyy y'all :D

I'll get right to it -
lets say there was a list of 10000 different classes you could take, everything from cooking to selfdefense, what class would you take? ölike, what would you actually ENJOY doing (not like math and physics haha) what seminar would you willingly go to, to hear about a class..

so basically, if you could invent a class that doesn't exist what would it be?
or have you ever been to some kind of class that you would love to go to again or even have as a real class in school??

I would absolutly loveee to have a photograpy class. My friends school has one but mine doesnt =(

Jess

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Whats like the official definition of "hooked up" I thought it meant having sex, some of my friends just say like making out. So when I watch shows like Laguna and such, I never know what they mean!

well now its just mainly used for when you make out with someone.

Jess

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im 13/f
i wear flip flops everyday
and theres tan lines on my feet
my feet are getting darker but theres like a white line
how do i get my feet back to the regular color

use some self tanner, or just keep tanning your feet without flip flops on and it will evetually even out.

Jess

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ok, let's just say i'm a trouble-maker... but only when i'm hanging out w/ friends. i mean, i never lie to my mom or anybody else but when i'm around my friends i do. and when i'm around my friends i swear and do all kinds of stuff. i don't want to stop hanging out w/ them because i've known them FOREVER but how can i start staying out of troulbe when i'm around them? please help. THX

Tell your friends that you dont feel right doing all that bad stuff, if they are true friends they willaccept it and still be okay with you. If they make you keep doing it then make new friends, they cant be the only pople you know..

Jess

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what do i do if my best is always braging about what she has and i dont have nothing so what do i do how do i tell her i dont wont to be friends

I dont think you should go as far as not being friends anymore. Maybe you should talk to her about it first to see whats up, maybe she isnt really relizing that she is doing it. After a while if she is still being like this and you dont wanna be friedns just kinda stop talking to her give her a clue that you dont wanna be friends anymore.

Jess

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My Dad got a job offer 14 hours away from where I live in April & we were planning on moving there in June. I didn't tell my friends because he said I couldn't until he resigns from his current position. Well, he didn't quit then because my Mom was ill & had brain surgery & stuff so we had to stay here. The doctors say she is ok to go soon, though. So my Dad is quitting Sept. 29 if everything goes as planned. That means I can tell people & I'll probably move by Christmas. (after mid november) My question is should I tell them when I find out or will most people just forget about me because I'm leaving? Would they try to do more with me because I'm moving? Should I wait? I really have no idea how they will react... it's my first time moving. thanks a lot!

Deffinatly tell your friends, they willwant to spend more time with you befroe you move and maybe you can hanving a going away party and stuff. How they will react, they will deffinatly be sad, but it only 14 hours away. my BEST friend moved 2 days away 3 years ago, but we are still best of friends. We visti each other alot and always talk on the phone and stuff. So yes you will loose some friends form moving but you will keep all the good old ones, and deffinatly make more at your new school.

Jess

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that song that says do your chain hang low what is is talking about

It means what it says, Chains like necklaces.

Jess

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I just got my iPod a few weeks ago and I can't find the instructions, but that's not my question.
When it's charging the battery, how do you know when it is? How do you know when it's done?

Any tips will be great too!

-THANKS

Well when it is chraging there is a little lightening bult in the battery thing. When its done im pretty sure its a picture of a plug.

Jess

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My friend and I have been planning to go to the movies with our boyfriends this friday since last week. I started my period today and it made me a little dissapointed.. is there ANY way I can make sure it's done by Friday?

Thanks

sorry, nope there is no way to stop it.

Jess

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i got an ipod nano for a gift
but it says its 1GB..how many songs does that hold?

thanks :)

around 200 songs

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whats the song writer who sings the song i think its called concerete angel

thats by Martina Mcbride

Jess

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