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I'm moving 14 hours away...


Question Posted Monday September 25 2006, 5:53 pm

My Dad got a job offer 14 hours away from where I live in April & we were planning on moving there in June. I didn't tell my friends because he said I couldn't until he resigns from his current position. Well, he didn't quit then because my Mom was ill & had brain surgery & stuff so we had to stay here. The doctors say she is ok to go soon, though. So my Dad is quitting Sept. 29 if everything goes as planned. That means I can tell people & I'll probably move by Christmas. (after mid november) My question is should I tell them when I find out or will most people just forget about me because I'm leaving? Would they try to do more with me because I'm moving? Should I wait? I really have no idea how they will react... it's my first time moving. thanks a lot!

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fabulous11 answered Tuesday September 26 2006, 4:08 pm:
Deffinatly tell your friends, they willwant to spend more time with you befroe you move and maybe you can hanving a going away party and stuff. How they will react, they will deffinatly be sad, but it only 14 hours away. my BEST friend moved 2 days away 3 years ago, but we are still best of friends. We visti each other alot and always talk on the phone and stuff. So yes you will loose some friends form moving but you will keep all the good old ones, and deffinatly make more at your new school.

Jess

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queenhearts answered Tuesday September 26 2006, 12:00 am:
I think you should tell your friends you are moving in a few months.. Because I think they would want to spend as much time with you as possible. If you tell them later, then it would only be less precious time spent.

I know some people will be sad and some will miss you. So you should say it now and get it over with.


Your friends won't forget about you if you are leaving. They will miss you. Just try to keep in touch. Phone numbers, Aim, MSN, Myspace, etc.

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