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urgent I'm a female 15 yes and this afternoon I had sex with my boyfriend. The condom was pretty tight and he was afraid that a bit of cum may have leaked out into me.But neither of us were sure and it might not have done, I daren't tell anyone I told my friend but she can't come with me I'm at work tomorrow and have no money as it's a sunday the youth clinic isn't even open and I don't know what to do should I leave it or what?! Monday and tuesday I have doctors appointments already and my mums taking me so I can't go to see the doctor then what should I do?!" (link)
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Well you have two options.
Go to the clinic Monday and if you are really worried ask them for the day after pill. I believe you have up to five days to take it. Or you could speak to your doctor about it at your appointment and tell her your concern. You tell your doctor its confidental and that way your mother is not involved. The dcotr is not allowed to tell your mother anything if its confidental. Maybe call the doctor's office ahead of time and see if you can speak to your doctor. Don't panic I'm sure its nothing but try either going to the clinic or talking to your doctor as soon as possible!
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Me and my ex boyfriend, Johnny, had the type of relationship that was really good when it was good but when it was bad it was really bad. I broke up with him one night after finding out that he stayed night after night at his ex girlfriend's house after telling me he doesn't talk to her. (She is crazy obsessed with him) After a month or so Johnny and I ended up becoming friends. We got really close, he would call me every night just to tell me he loves me and he would tell me all about his day. He transferred over to my school (small school, about 50 students, impossible to avoid anyone) the minute he saw me talking to my friend(male) he came up and mugged my friend until he left. I told Johnny that his actions were unnecessary and he said he didn't realize he was doing it. Later that night I was at church and Johnny called me, I ignored it because it would've been disrespectful to answer. I called him about an hour later when I got out and he accused me of being with other guys. We got into a big argument and during the argument I asked him why we did he even care since we're just friends. He said he's trying to mend our relationship. After that we were arguing on and off for the next 30 minutes or so. He said he doesn't want me talking, hugging, hanging out, or even looking at other guys. We got off the phone and he hasn't showed up at school since then (Wednesday) he got his phone disconnected so I haven't been able to talk to him. I found out that he's been at his ex girlfriends house since that night. i would ask my friends for advice but they don't like him at all so they would obviously say only negative things. All my guy friends said they're going to purposely talk to me in front of him just to make him mad. Should I wait it out and go with the flow or should I confront my ex about his "ex"? any opinions and extra advice will be very helpful because I am completely lost. Thanks in advance (link)
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My advice is to get away from him he's the drama! Don't involve yourself with this guy he sounds like trouble. First off he's your ex so he has no say in who you talk to or who you can hang out with and such. Even if he was your boyfriend he shouldn't be dictating who you can and cannot hang out with. My boyfriend doesn't tell me what to do I'm my own person and he supports me on the decisions I make. He also trusts me and know how much I care so if I'm hanging out with another guy as a friend he doesn't worry and doesn't try to control the situation. Your ex sounds like a control freak and sounds like he is emotionally abusive.
As for his relationship with his ex-girlfriend, stay away from her! You know what they say "If you see crazy, cross the street". I learned my lesson about dealing with exes crazy ex girlfriends and never again will I involve myself with that kind of nonsense. Leave her be because that relationship has nothing to do with you. Ignore this guy and move on. You will be so much better off!
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ugh its been about 4 years now that i've liked a guy. i haven't gotten over him not even once. i've tried but it doesn't work. everyone tells me to get over him, but i just can't i don't wanna get over him. i've never talked to him, and i don't think i will ever have the courage or strength to... he is a huge star player on his football team. and he is well known all over my school. i can't just tell him how i feel, but i want to. he's know for 4 years that i've liked him. oh btw i'm a sophomore in high school and he's a junior. anyways if i talk to him i know he would tell his friends. i put myself down because of him, and tell myself i'm not good enough for him. he's kinda a bad kid, well that's what i've heard. he smokes and all that crap, but he's not obsessed with it. and i'm all innocent, i've never done any of those things. i just wish i could be with someone like him. i've wanted him for so long, and i don't wanna go on for the rest of high school waiting for him to talk to me. cause i know that's never going to happen. he's so much popular than me and he looks at me a lot.. i figured that means something, right? and i am not a stalker, k? a lot of people think i am because i talk about him all the time, but that's not a stalker. i am just head over heels for this kid. so please just give any advice that you can to help me get through this, thanks. (link)
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You sound just like me when I was in high school. And you seem like in a bit of a tug and war with what you really want.
There was this guy I really liked for awhile he was a freshmen in college and I was a junior in high school. I liked him he was a really nice guy, but he hung out with a crowd that was known as the popular crowd. I considered myself to be average and could never imagine being with someone that hung out with people in the "in crowd". My junior prom was coming up and I thought I would go out of my way to try to ask him. I talked to him online and asked him if I could call him and talk. He gave me his number and I was so scared to call but I did and I asked him to prom. He went to prom with me and it made me so happy because I didn't for once feel like that "average girl". About a couple of weeks after prom I told him how I felt and unfortunately he didn't feel the same way. I felt dumb stupid and said I regretted telling him how I felt. The mature guy he was told me I shouldn't feel stupid for saying how I feel or telling someone how I feel. He said "When one door closes another one opens". Back then I didn't believe him but now that saying makes more and more sense to me everyday.
By you ignoring your feelings for this guy is not going to make them go away. Its going to make you always wonder "what if". I'm glad I said what I had to say to that guy I liked because if I hadn't I wouldn't have taken a risk and put myself out there. And so what if you tell him you like him whats the worst he could say? No? That's not the end of the world its just that he wasn't the one for you. That person will come along when you least expect it!
Don't listen to what your friends say or want you to do. Do what makes you feel comfortable! Good luck!
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I'm just trying to prove a point to my boyfriend, it's NOT attractive when guys fart correct? (link)
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I don't think it's attractive when anyone farts. I don't finding farting to be attractive what so ever. It comes off as being rude and impolite.
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So it's my senior year and I'm on the cross country team at my high school. I've made so many wonderful friendships and the season is almost over. I am so depressed that I have to say goodbye to my really good friends. We'll call them Brad, Andy, Mitch, Carla, and Ella. I talked to Andy about having a little XC reunion and he loved the idea but I haven't talked to anybody else about it yet. Sometimes the guys feel a little awkward around me since I'm a senior girl and they're freshman guys... so they might feel weird even with some girl friends coming to my house for pizza and movies or something. But he seemed to love the idea. I guess what I'm asking is does that sound like a good idea? How do I keep in touch all year with them? And do you think they'll remember me? We've all gotten pretty close I'd say.
Thank you very much. (link)
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It sounds like a great idea! It's great that you're getting all your close friends together especially because this is your sneior year and its important to cherish it as much as possible. I sometimes regret rushing my senior year so quickly and wanting to get older.
As for keeping in touch you have so many options. You have facebook, email, phone, texting, etc. I'm sure they'll remember you, I have had friends that I've made all over the country and even in some different countries and I stay in contact with them from time to time. I don't talk to them everyday but that doesn't mean that I'm not friends with them. Heck...my friend from high school and I have been best friends for about 10 years now. I don't talk to him everyday and I don't see him everyday like I use to but we both try to make it a point to catch up or talk online or something. I know he still lvoes me and I love him!
There is no need to worry and I'm sure everything will be fine. Just enjoy the moment and live in the now! Good luck with the rest of your senior year!
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and we recently took a short break because things got bad. We have decided to try again, so I really want some help in making this work. We are long distance, so this also makes things hard.
I'm looking for ideas to keep our relationship exciting and new, ways to spice it up and make things interesting. Any tips?
Thanks so much! (link)
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Long Distance Relationships (LDR) can be hard but if you truly care enough about the person you can make them work. Do you have Skype dates? Maybe watch a movie together while on Skype. My boyfriend and I aren't LD but we play '21 questions' together to get to know one another. Make him a Mix CD of songs that remind you of him or send him some funny youtube links. Maybe plan a trip to visit him sometime or even plan a trip for the both of you to go away. No matter what it is anything you do will let him know that you're thinking of him!
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my exboyfriend loves dark hair on girls, long story short i always dye my hair dark brown during the winter time, were trying to work on being friends. anyways, im sick of my hair and its approaching when i usually dye it. currently it's light brown. i want to dye it but i if i dye my hair darker, i'll just feel guilty for myself. i dont know why its just how i feel. but if i get highlights i feel like im getting it inspite of him. i need to change my hair (no i refuse to cut it im growing it out lol) but i don't know what to do. =/ ideas? (link)
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Are you dying your hair darker because of him? If that's the case don't do it. Don't do something to please someone else that's going about it the wrong way. Do what makes you happy! Anotehr thing exes are exes for a reason remember why you broke up in the first place and know that changing something about yourself whether it be your hair or clothes is not going to make him come back. be happy with yourself and be confident with who you are now!
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k so i asked a similar question earlier but i dont think my question was understood basically im 18 and a first year college student i got a job at a fast food resturant now i live 3 hours away from my family because of school so i dont live at home i live on my own which is why i got a job to pay for things on my own now i got trained 3 days at work and then the following weekend i was suppose to go home to see my parents for the long weekend now when i got the job i told my boss immediately that i would need the long weekend off and he said it was fine and that i would do my training and then once i got back from my parents house he would call me and tell me my work schedule but that never happened ive been back for a week now and i havent gotten a call from him so am i fired or what do i call him? this is my first job and i need help. (link)
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Things come up so don't rush to any conclusions. Call your boss up and try to get in contact with him! Be aggressive like you said you need this job to pay the bills. Call him or even go there and check in to see what's going on. Good luck!
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I am 36 years old and recently divorced. George and I started hooking up about 5 months ago. About a month later he saw me kissing another man and asked me at that time and I lied about it. He didn't pursue it any further because we didn't have any commitment to each other. Now 4 months later (still no committment - but getting closer), he asked me about it again and I lied again, saying that we just hugged. He pushed further and I admitted everything. He is very angry that I lied especially about what I lied about. His ex-wife cheated on him. what I don't understand is that we didn't have a commitment to each other, in fact he said multiple times that he didn't want a girlfriend. He did tell me that he has feelings for me and he is very disappointed that this happened because of those feelings. Why is this issue so huge? We've talked about it and he invited me to his house. We sat and watched movies and he eventually invited me to snuggle with him and stay the night (no sex though). The next morning we talked some more and he just said that he needed some space and I told him that I would give it to him. That day, he came to my office and had small talk and he invited me out for a drink after work. When we left drinks, he wouldn't even look at me. Now a couple days later, he won't talk to me or return my text messages. Do I just need to be patient, or is he done with me? I wrote him a letter telling him all of my feelings and apologizing, but I don't know if he has read it. I can't stop thinking about him (link)
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Why don't you think he wants to commit to anyone?
First off his wife cheated on him so that can make someone have trust issues. And second off you lied to him. He basically tested you on something and you didn't pass. He's most likely afraid of getting hurt again that's why he isn't ready to just jump right into a relationship for fear it might happen again. I'm not tryin gto be mean but it sounds like he is fed up and is done. Just give him space and if he wants to come back around then so be it. Right now it sounds like he's having trouble with trust issues in relationships.
Do you see yourself with this guy? Do you see a future? I would contact this guy one last time and tell him everything be honest. Tell him everything that happened and why you did it and why you thought it was okay because you weren't serious with one another. I hope it works out for you! Good luck!
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I always try and hang out with my friends, and they never seem to know I am there, I pitch ideas and they always tear me down! I was the only one who wasn't invited to a party, and all they do is talk about how great it is. I get left out, pushed around and it's driving me insane. (link)
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Then you have to ask yourself are these people really my friends? I know it's easier said then done and I don't know how long you've been friends with these people but no one deserves to be treated badly by friends or by anyone else for that matter. You should talk to them and if they are really your friends they will take what you said and change or maybe fix things. If they don't then you might want to find a new group of friends to hang out with.
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My friends used to hang out with me a lot but recently, they did not. Two of them thought i was stealing friends away from them.I NEVER intended to do so, as my friends were just close to me. Those two girls don't understand my feelings at all and don't want to befriend with me. I don't get it, it is not their choice who my best friends wants to be friends with right? Some of them always make use of me too. When they got into trouble, they would purposely push all the blame to me when I didn't do anything wrong. They were once my good friends , whats wrong with them? I mean I just want to be friends with everyone, but no one really understands me, not even my family. What should I do to let my friends befriend me again? Please help me...please... (link)
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My question to you is why would you want to be friends with these girls who treat you like that? You don't deserve to be treated by somebody like that nor does anyone else. Some people come into our lives for a reason and some come into our lives for a season. It's sounds like these girls came into your life for a season which means they aren't life long friends. You need to find friends who are going to treat you right. Start hanging out with people who treat you right and appreciate you and like hanging out with you because you are you! Move away from these girls and I'm sure you'll find other people you can hang out with!
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Alright, I am female and 17 and he is 18 male. We are going on 10 years of friendship. Through those years, we've developed and became so much more closer. We feel so comfortable around each other. I love the whole aspect of him always being there for me, promising he will never leave me especially when I need him, listening to my problems no matter what time of the night or morning, he's just an all around amazing guy. I never saw us as anything more than friends, for ten years he has always just been my best friend but EVERYONE thinks we like each other. Everyone says he's just so different around me but I am different around him as well, I look at it as us being comfortable around each other to be our true selves, not different because we like each other. Of course, we argue and we bash heads a lot but we never go more than three days being angry at each other. We've hung out together outside of school watching movies or getting ice cream together, everyone thinks that's a sign because when he hangs out with "just his friends" they just go to his house and play games, with me, we go out and spend money and have a good time. We had this big project we had to do for school, I was nervous and he could tell so he told me to calm down, he knows that I will blow them away. He also asks me to remind him of things because he forgets everything if he doesn't write it down or put it in his phone, so he always asks me for help with things. All of the people that are on our case call this one 'the big kahoona' it's the biggest sign to them that he likes me, he plays his guitar for me and sings to me, I look at it as a friend thing because I've never heard him play before and for the longest time, he has avoided playing for me and he finally gave in and played for me. We also took a picture together, he never lets people take his picture but he took his picture with me and I set it as my phone background and everyone sees it and squeals with happiness because they think of that as a sign that we are finally together, which it isn't. I also tend to stress over a bunch of small things that pile up and when we'd text, apparently I wouldn't be acting myself and he would completely stop our conversation to tell me I am not being myself and if there is something wrong, he would love it if I would talk to him about it. I remember one time, I was going through something and it was about 2.30 in the morning and I texted him to remind him something, he knew I wasn't okay so he asked me what was wrong and I told him it wasn't a big deal to keep him awake longer and he said "no, tell me if you want to, I promise I will listen" he's just always there for me and I love that about him.
I know it's a lot to process and read and it's kind of all over the place which I apologize for, I just typed my thoughts as they came to me. Do you think he likes me or are we just best friends? If we did like each other, I can guarantee nothing would be done about it because we value our friendship so much but I am curious as to what an outsider that doesn't know the two of us thinks. Thank you for bearing with me! (link)
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No one can tell you if he likes you or not because he would be the only one to tell you. I must warn you when feelings come to play in friendships it gets a bit complicated. Now the real question how much do you value the friendship? Is it more important than having more than a friend?
I had a friend who told me he liked me and I didn't feel the same way. It made things a little tense. I love my friend but I think of him as a brother and that's it. I've also been on the rejection side where I have told another guy friend of mine that I liked him and he didn't feel the same way.
I also ended up dating one of my best friends and it didn't end up working out and sadly we no longer speak. I know this is just my experience it would be different for you or anyone else. Please think about it and if you feel comfrtable with him talk about. You two are friends you guys should be able to talk to each about anything.
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Ok so I'm a Christian and my boyfriend isn't. I'm fine with it and stuff but I'm afraid that somehow we'll argue about it and it'll get to me.
I'm not like gonna try and change him or anything, I just want advice from people who is with someone that isn't of the same religion and how you get through it and how you deal with it.
Thanks! (link)
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You're thinking about the "what ifs" worry about them when it happens. Th relationship is not about religion its about how you feel about one another. Your beliefs are yours and I'm sure he has some of his own. Accept each other for what you believe and there will be no problem. Don't worry about the problems until they come. Just enjoy each other's company for now and have fun!
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I'm 19/f, my boyfriend of 1 year is 18/m.
My boyfriend likes meeting new people, and I respect that. Just yesterday, he met a girl..(when he went to take placement tests so that he can apply to college next semester.) Apparently, this girl that he met was on campus for placement tests too.
So, when I finally saw him later that night, he told me that he hung out with "his new friend Michaela" for the entire day, and that he picked her up from her friend's house so that they could go to the mall, and he bought her ice cream, and they hung out with another couple, his best friend tyler and tyler's girlfriend.
I asked him a lot of questions about "his new friend" because I'm terrified that something's going on between them, or that something could go on in the near future. I trust that he won't physically cheat on me, but I also don't know why this new attention from other girls is so important to him that he had to spend the entire day with a girl he just met. I'm jealous that he spent so much time with her, because I don't even think he made it very clear that he's got a girlfriend to this new girl. I know that if I was in her shoes, I'd be wondering if this new guy I just met was interested in me or not.
So what should I do about this situation? I don't want to be a cranky girlfriend of his that tries to be annoyingly/unnecessarily possessive and doesn't let him have friends that are girls. But I'm so hurt that he wants to hang out with other girls at the same time. (link)
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Have you seriously sat down and talked to him about this? Have you told him how you felt?
I know you believe that he won't physically cheat on you but there is such thing as emotional cheating. Sometimes when we feel we aren't getting something out of a relationship we tend to try to find it in someone else to have our needs met. I will be the first to admit that I have done this in the past. I would be with a guy who didn't quite meet my needs so I would try to find someone who would be there for me not physically but emotionally.
It sounds to me like you NEED to have a talk about this. It's one thing if they are friends but its another thing if he's spending more time with her than you or even bringing her on what sounds like a "double date".
My boyfriend knows I have guy friends and he's comfortable but if I were to spend all my time with just one guy friend I think he might be a little worried. My boyfriend has a couple of friends who are girls but he hardly hangs out with them. If he was doing what your boyfriend was doing I would talk to him straight away and get to the bottom of it. He can have friends but there are some limits!
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Okay so i'm 12 years old and i know my body isn't finished developing but all the other girls in my class are and fully chested and curvy and im a pencil and flat chested! I even get made fun of about being tall and skinny. Any advice because i seem to think about this quit often and i feel confident with my body at home but the second i hit school EVERYTHING changes! Please help thanks bye! (link)
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I was stick girl in middle school and junior high. I understand what you mean. We all develop different I didn't finish puberty until I was in senior year of high school. And then after I finished I wished I could go back to the way I was before. I know its bothersome sometimes but try to ignore it the best you can. You're young. Enjoy it! Don't rush it. And if people continue to say something don't bother answering back. The only reason they criticize is because they either are unhappy with themselves or they want you to argue with them.. Silence will give them nothing to work with and sooner or later they'll stop.
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20/f this guy I went to college with my first two years we were friends, by the end of my second year we became very close I told him personal things about me and same with him. he became one of my best friends. we never hung outside of school until I asked him to hang out, he said he couldnt because he had a girlfriend which I didnt know. We still continued to be friends, then he asked me to hang out we had dinner he payed and from then on we had dates, he would pay for me always and text me all the time but he never kissed me because he didnt want to cheat eventually we developed to a physical level while he still had a girlfriend, ( by the way hes from ohio, he went to school in pa where im from his gf was in ohio) he went home during the summer the last day we cried and I met his mom who helped him move he said he would come back and see me that it wasnt goodbye I believed him. ( we were both switching schools he was going to school in ohio me another part of pa) we continued to talk during the summer he said he missed me and wanted to see me ( I never texted him.he always texted me) and I always asked when hes coming to visit and he said he didnt have money (from my house its 8 hours from his house) but he worked all summer I started school and hee told me he had a friend who goes to school 30 away from me ( my school is 3-4 hrs from his house) he told me he was coming on a sat and I waited for him.to say he was here and he never called me I cried I ended up calling him days later ( he never said sorry) he said im sorry my feelings havent changed ( he was at school and this point and broke up with his gf a week before, so all summer he was with her they were.together 5 years ) he said I cant do a long distance thing again my next two yrs of college he still gets butterflies.when he talks to me though he said can we.be friends like we used too I said yeah but truth was I loved him so much and I wanted more he said.we just have to talk like we normally did more frequently. I was so angry with him likeif you really liked me you wouldve came and seen me in the summer you know no matter what with money. Next dat I said I cant talk to you it hurts me he said alright I guess contact me whenever you wanna talk like he didnt even try to say no dont do that or anything you know? Its been a month and I miss talking to him, is that weird I miss him eventhough I havent seen him in 5 months? I love him...like why did he talk to me all summer and say I wish you were here or when he was on vacation say youd love it here like why dis he talk to me all summer? And why did he say its gonna take sometime for us to move past this and talk like we used too why is he still trying to hang on to me? Did I do the right thing to not talk to him anymore eventhough I miss him? Thank you (link)
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It's hard to say because you know what's good for you and what's going to make you happy. I was in a situation like this where I was in a Long Distance Relationhip (LDR) and it was tough not seeing him everyday. We would talk on the phone but for me it wasn't really enough. It became really hard and we parted ways. I would talked to him everyday on the phone after we broke up but it still didn't help. I needed to move on and so I stopped talking to him and cut every contact to him. Of course I miss him but it was what I needed. Point blank if a guy likes you he will find a way to be with you. "Where there's a will there's a way."
You have to do what's best for you. How did you feel talking to him everyday? Did you ever feel lonely? Did you have the achy hollow feeling in your stomach? Think to yourself what do you want and what's going to make you happy. Good luck! :)
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How do you report abuse on this website?
Thank you (link)
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Here's the link:
http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php
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well im 14 almost 15/f and he just turned 16 for a while now ive noticed he is really sweet to me sometimes i only see him on sundays at church then we eat lunch at my grandmas and sometimes play hide and seek with my cousins well yesterday at her house he was trying to be with just me and when we were about to leave my grandmas to go to church me and him just hung out outside we sat on the swings well he kinda like carved his name into the wooden swingset then he said he was gonna carve mine too i was like no dont do mine then he wanted me to come sit on the 2 person swing with him then he wanted me to come sit in the back of the truck with him then in the car on the way to church he wanted to draw a smiley face on my hand and he held my hand for a few seconds after he finished. anyways i dont see him at school cuz we go to different schools so i dont really know how he acts around other girls i was just wondering if you thought he might like me (link)
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It sounds like he has a bit of a crush on you. I think your best bet though would be to ask him yourself. Then you'll definitely know for sure!
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We use condoms and I'm on birth control and he goes inside me (with the condom on). Should i be worried about pregnancy? (link)
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The chances are very slim that you'll get pregnant. You are being safe by both using a condom and using birth control. There's no need to worry as long as you take your birth control correctly.
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Okay I've been having problems with my boyfriend for quite sometime and there are times when we have these arguments and i tell him how i feel and stuff. He would always end up saying; "I have no reason to live anymore if you don't love or care for me." I always tell myself he is full of crap, but it bothers me sometimes. He is eighteen years old and i am seventeen. He was never like this before considering we've known each other almost all our life. Ever since this new friend he's been hanging with he's been acting like that. I've met his friend too. His friend wants to kill himself too. I've been real nice to his friend and everything. Giving him those talks that he shouldn't be thinking like that. Then when i got to know him real better. He's a big jerk. I honestly think he's a bad influence and i don't know what to do. I'm not a bitchy girlfriend. I care about my boyfriend and i think its a bad idea that he hangs out with him.. What should i do? (link)
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You can't choose who your boyfriend hangs out with. It's his right to hang out with whomever he likes. So you can't really do anything in that aspect. Is your boyfriend popular? Does he have a lot of friends? Is this guy his only friend?
Sometimes when we have few friends we tend to shadow them and become like them to feel accepted and also a part of something. You said your boyfriend never had this attitude before and yet ever since this kid he's been thinking badly.
In a relationship you should be able to tell your boyfriend how you feel no matter what. I've learned the hard way believe me I'm known for holding stuff in but I realize that I need to be honest with my boyfriend or else nothing will get fixed.
For a guy to say "I have no reason to live anymore if you don't love or care for me" is a bit manipulative and selfish if you ask me. Has he given you any clues that he's serious about possibly attempting suicide? Has he done anything hurtful to himself?
I hate to say it but sometimes in our teen year we tend to be overdramatic about the small things. You should not feel 'stuck' with someone because you're scared that they are going to possibly hurt themselves. What you need to do is figure out if you want to be with him and if you are happy in this relationship. You also need to make either his parents or your parents aware of his behavior because this should not be taken lightly if he is serious. Maybe even ask him to talk to you about how he's feeling or maybe even suggest counseling. Good luck! :)
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