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How can i be helped??
My friends used to hang out with me a lot but recently, they did not. Two of them thought i was stealing friends away from them.I NEVER intended to do so, as my friends were just close to me. Those two girls don't understand my feelings at all and don't want to befriend with me. I don't get it, it is not their choice who my best friends wants to be friends with right? Some of them always make use of me too. When they got into trouble, they would purposely push all the blame to me when I didn't do anything wrong. They were once my good friends , whats wrong with them? I mean I just want to be friends with everyone, but no one really understands me, not even my family. What should I do to let my friends befriend me again? Please help me...please...
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Why would you want to let someone crawl back to you that originally treated you like shit to begin with? This could be why you feel like nobody understands you, The influence you allow to be in your life could have an affect on how you think others view you. If people can't respect you and treat you right then you shouldn't be associated with them. My opinion, I would tell them that if they were real friends then they should of acted like it instead of making assumptions and leaving you high and dry that isn't what friends do. I would find some new friends, Friends that know how to treat a person. Sometimes you can't be friends with everyone because everyone doesn't want a friend.
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My question to you is why would you want to be friends with these girls who treat you like that? You don't deserve to be treated by somebody like that nor does anyone else. Some people come into our lives for a reason and some come into our lives for a season. It's sounds like these girls came into your life for a season which means they aren't life long friends. You need to find friends who are going to treat you right. Start hanging out with people who treat you right and appreciate you and like hanging out with you because you are you! Move away from these girls and I'm sure you'll find other people you can hang out with!
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