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i got my first period on april 20, and my second one on may 18. when should i expect to get my third one? (link)
Don't get ahead of yourself. Periods can be irregular. They can be late or early. I once went three months without my period, it was a grand old time. But yeah, don't count your chickens before they hatch!


Ok well I was playing on the computer when there was a power out and when it came back I turned on the computer again but now it's running very slow (took 30 mins to open this page!)

Whhat's wrong? (link)
What I do when my computer is running slow is open up the task manager and close all the applications I'm not using. Just give it time and it'll work better after a bit.


How do i show my girlfriend that i care about her a lot? (link)
Just tell her how you feel. Hold her, cuddle her, be nice to her. Some people can't show care easily, like me. I'm kind of distant but I really do care about the person alot. Just be honest with her about your feelings and always show affection.




photoshop pictures and make them look like a zombies?
like. on that vampirefreaks website? some have like the fake blood and stuff? they said they did it on photoshop? (link)
Ah. I've done this before. They have tutorials. I used:

http://www.imarc.net/communique/view/42/freakish_zombie_in_11_steps

It's great. I suggest you use it. :)


is it a turn off if a girl isn't wearing sexy underwear like not nasty underwear but not all lacy or silky..like vs pink??? (link)
Underwear doesn't matter. Personally, I think it's cute when girls wear cute underwear. I would love to see my girlfriend in like happy bunny panties anyday over some little thong or silk underwear.


summers coming and i want to loose 25lbs over break for my junior year. i mainly want to loose weight in my gut and thighs, and perhaps back (weird, i know).
what i need is good diet tips.
motivational tips that will help me.
meals that will help fill me up so i don't overeat.
and a workout plan that is effective on the parts i want to tone/loose weight in.

any help is appreciated.
and thank you. (link)
Just eat healthy. That means not starving yourself, just incase you thought of trying one of those lame crash diets. Maybe go to your local gym? Try running, swimming or anything really. Running will help ALOT.


its about time for a new screen name for me but i can't think of any good ones. here's some info if it helps

i like the color pink, i'm 15, i'm a total prep and i'm pretty materialistic. My nicknames are lana, gabes, irg and lala. i'm pretty much in love with my fendi bag, guess sunglasses and diesel jeans..that's about it about me.. (link)
xlalax
xpinkxwhateverx
lanaWTF

I enjoy using x's haha.


my bedroom is pretty bland. it's a peanut butter-y color and is really basic.

i'm going to get a futon instead of my bed and i'm going to redo my walls. but i don't know what i should do. my parents have an issue with bright colors- so what are some cool things to do on my walls that wouldn't be too hard, or too expensive but is still cute and chic? (link)
You could hang Christmas lights around the room? Maybe some posters or art. Basicly, just do whatever makes you feel at home and it'll be perfect.


ok my friend was going out with this one guy let's call him JOE. let's call her ANNE. Ok so JOE was ANNE's first boyfriend this year and she had only had 2 other boyfriends. well this weekend i went on a trip to a different state. ANNE went on the trip with me JOE was not on the trip. Well there wasnt enough seats because i was sitting with my other friend lets call her RACH. Well anways my friend had to sit with this boy let's call him FRANK. Well ANNE got to know FRANK on this ride and they started to like each other. THEN ANNE was laying on FRANK. (don't forget ANNE is still going out with JOE.) When we got to the hotel ANNE was like i dont no what to do because i really like FRANK but i dont want to break up with JOE. Well the next day ANNE holds hands with FRANK on the bus (this was a school trip so there was about 80 kids about half were on this bus) Then we get off the bus to go shopping. ANNE decides to call JOE and break up with him but all she says is hi can we put our relationship on hold and he says what? then she hung up. Well then on the school trip the next place was to see an education movie fun! lol. anyways in that movie FRANK and ANNE make out. but ANNE is still going out with JOE because when JOE said what it wasnt a omg wtf! what is was a what, what did you say kind of what. so JOE thought him and ANNE were still going out and they still kinda were. So then my friend RACH goes and calls JOE and tells him everything that happened and JOE is so mad. But ANNE doesnt know that RACH called him. well after making out with FRANK the whole trip finds out and everyone hates her and calls her a slut and says i feel bad for JOE. Well that night at the hotel ANNE cries and asks me and RACH we say ANNE never do this again. So the next day we get on the bus to go home. and ANNE sits by this other guy lets call him BOB. Well BOB decides he likes ANNE. At a rest stop ANNE tells me she likes BOB and she thinks she'll go with him because FRANK was yelling at her for talking to BOB before BOB liked ANNE. so we get back on the bus and the next thing you know ANNE is laying on BOB. So now everyone in our school knows and hates ANNE and now ANNE says she loves JOE again but JOE says he wont take her back JOE told ANNE she has to prove to him she will never do this again what can she do to prove this? (link)
Well, first things first.. Why is this any of YOUR business unless you were using names to make it not about you? Personally, if it's not about you, you should let her fend for herself.

Your friend seems kind of confused. She's obviously not ready to be dating and obviously not in love. I think she needs to focus on something other then guys for a while until she can correct herself and stick to.. Oh you know.. ONE guy. Anyways, yeah. Joe seems like a smart guy not taking her back.


You know those "no right on red" signs? Ok, well if there was a camera there to catch people who ran red lights...would the camera know the difference if the person was just making a right on red? I was at at intersection and I look for a sign that forbade right on red...there was none...so I made the turn, but then afterwards, I realized there was a camera above the light...Do you think the camera caught me and confused my right on red for a running of the red light? I didn't do anything illegal...I'm just wondering if I'm going to be falsely accused of running a red light when I was just turning on red... (link)
Well, if you are falsely accused take it to court and tell your story. Basicly you'll need evidence (the video) and you should be set.


Hey! Help Needed!

15/f is there anything I can use to masturbate besides fingers?

thanx!
(link)
There are plenty of things but you must be careful.

- There are sex toys, which I doubt you would get due to the fact you are fifteen.

- Phallic shaped objects (always cover them with a condom).

- Water jets, get your clit up close and let the water shoot at it. It's AMAZING.

- Any water, really, from a tap hitting the clitoris.

- Back massagers. They work like magic.

- Electric toothbrushes or just a normal toothbrush to insert.

I'd suggest going to these sites unless you have your computer monitored by an adult whome you don't want to know you're masturbating:

www.clitical.com and www.solotouch.com


I have a razor cell phone, and I was at the beach and got splashed (not bad) but my phone got wet in my pocket.

It didnt turn on for like a few min, like didnt work so i took the battery out and stuff, and it took me a while to turn on.

Well the phone works, but the numbers dont like work , and i cant answer or send calls.
HELP? (link)
Something is wrong with your Sim Card. The best thing to do it get a new sim card.


15/f

1. do you think thats too young?
2. any ways to convince my parents?
3. how old do you have to be to get it done without your parents consent?
4. how much does it hurt?
5. if you take it out will the whole eventually close?

thanks!! xox (link)
1. If your deciding to get your belly button pierced at the age of 15, it depends if your mature or not. From my background, I think it's a young age. The best age to get your bellybutton pierced is when your 18 and older.
2. To convince your parents is a difficult thing. You can tell them you will do chores for them, pay for it, or explain how mature you are. Parents are strict. If you are a good child to them, they might trust you. If they don't, take a few weeks and help them, hang out with them. This will help them become soften. It works very easy.
3. Without your consent is I think 18 years old or 16.
4. My cousin got it piereced. She said it isn't that bad but it hurts more than getting your ears pierced.
5. getting youe belly button pierced is the same as your ears. They have to be in there for a while to keep it open and after a while, you can take them out and they won't close.

Yes, you can take it out for a little while but not when it's trying to keep it open. It takes a few weeks. It depends where you go to get it pierced. I don't know how much it costs. You can get it done looking in a phone book. Here is a helpful site.

http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070410024614AAB0hAK&show=7


ok, ive had problems shaving my underarms. ive already asked this question, and everybodys answer was helpful. But now nair, it doesn say that you can use it for your underarms, but can you? (link)
hey

well if it doesn't say you can then i wouldn't do it. but i have tried - it didn't work for me. the hairs on my underarms are pretty thick, and nair did nothing. & don't just leave it on for longer - it will burn your skin. cause i washed it off when it felt tingly, which is when you're supposed to, and no hairs came off.

you can always get your underarms waxed if you'd like. make sure your blade on your razor is fresh & you use a little shaving cream in case the area is irritated.


i was looking at there clothes on the site and i (L) them! where is the nearest forever 21 to grande prairie alberta canada? (link)
hey

there is only one store in canada, sorry!

Edmonton Plaza
XXI
(780) 930 2014
8882 170 St #101-103
Edmonton AB T5T4M

http://www.forever21.com/store/storelocator.asp


how can i get curves in my body??
14/f
i'm skinny
i'm 5 6
and weigh - 110 (link)
gain some weight. get to about 120 they'll start showing up. curves occur when areas like the boobs and butt and thighs grow.


hey, i just got a hamster and it smells bad. i know your not really suppose to bathe them so how can i make her smell better? (link)
hey

aww that's soo cute :]

for my hamsties, i bought like baby wipes? the vet. said it's fine as long as you don't get it in her eyes, and put a paper towel or towel over her so she's not wet from the baby wipe.

i kinda don't suggest spritzing perfume on the cage WHILE she's in the cage. some animals can be allergic to the perfume and sneeze for a long time afterward. and be sure not to get it near her face at all.

or, you can take a HOT damp towel (i'm saying hot cause by the time you walk to her, the towel will cool down) and just run it along her back. don't rub in the opposite direction of hair growth. or you'll have wet clumps of hair in your towel.


Are there any exciting ways for a male to masturbate? Im looking for some new ones
(link)
hey

check out this site - you might like it:

http://www.solotouch.com/contri.php?t=t&mo=200705&cat=12

and the archive which has LOADS more from other time periods:

http://www.solotouch.com/contri.php?t=a

(just click "techniques" and then "male techniques")


can you make online purchases with a debit card? is it safe? (link)
yes you can, and its just as safe as a credit card. make sure they have that little picture of approval to ensure its safe


when i wear bikinis you can see the hair !
and i shave it but there is always little hairs you know and red bumps and it looks soooo gross !
i just bought veet bikini cream and i tried it and it doesnt work.

any suggestions as to what to do


p.s i really dont wanna go get it waxed (link)
hey

um, i totally DON'T suggest shaving over it again because that would obviously make the red bumps worse... so just put moisturizer on it and they'll go away. don't shave that area for a few days.

try nair. it's really gentle, and makes the area really smooth without bumps. just be careful not to get it IN your vagina. read the directions. a good tip for nair is if you feel it tingling WASH IT OFF IMMEDIATELY. do not wait for the whole area to be "tingly" cause then you'll have a thousand little stinging cuts.




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