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Hey, does anyone have some cute suggestions as far as accesorizing? Things i probably wouldnt have to go out and buy for. Like just cute things to do with a belt, or a cute way to turn things around a bit??
*i want suggestions i can use tomorrow, and i wont be hitting stores, so maybe make things apply a little more universal*

thanks xoxo
i rate good! (link)
hmm. maybe you can like tie a ribbon in ur hair lol or like..if u have hemp or like..string make a bracelt or type a colorful string around ur neck to make a choker. Maybe you can add like studs to pants or a belt...ah idk im not creative haha..hope that heleped


My best friend was flirting with the guy i really like. What should I do? (link)
Let her know how u feel it was probably meaningless flirting but being upfront is always good


im going out with this guy since yesterday who i've never talked to. we're in the same health class. tomorrow his friend told me to talk to him. im really nervous because i dont know what to say at all. any ideas? also, how should i make it look like im not as nervous as i really am? thanx! (link)
well if ur going out you should have some things to say to each other. Talk about tv, music, health class, things you guys have in common..Just try n act like he's a close friend because guys will like u for who u are and not when ur all shy and jittery (even thogh it will b really hard lol) Maybe you can talk to him with a friend so all the pressure isnt put only on you.


One of my close friends likes the same guy as i do... I really like him and i have since the second day of school ( he's new). And i told her like that day and said i'm in love with him... like 2 weeks later she told me she liked him sooo much and she knew i still liked him. I think he's interested in me but i don't wanna be mean and just ignore my friends feelings for him. But she kenw i liked him first. I think he's gonan ask me out but i don't know wut to say...

___ a misled friend__ (link)
Ooh thats a tough situation. Idk why she would even go for him when she knew that u liked him, but you can't really help how you feel. If anything happens between you and this guy you should let ur friend know as soon as it happens so it doesn't come as a surprise to her. Go to her and tel her wat the deal is. You might want to let the guy know that a good friend of urs likes him also with out being specific and see wat his reaction to it is bfore you guys go out or anthing. If he disregards it, you cn atleast tell ur friend that you let him know about the stiuation and that you hope that it doesn't affect the friendship too much. Eventually she'll move on and this guy won't break you both up if u have a strong relationship. Hope i helped and that everything works out for the bst :)


i've been working in a a really cool shop in my mall, its mostly girls that work here for some reason, i am one of them, recently we've been 'recruiting' so theres a few new staff, and one is this guy, not my type at all, plus i'm already taken'..it was all okay at the begining, and i didnt think anything of it, but its started to speculate in my mind that he might be trying to take advantage to touching me, i mean i'm pretty much buddys with all in there,and none of them touch me, not sexually but just plain his hand touching my arms and shoulders, then one day i was sitiing there just eating and he spent like 15 min in the loo, he came out asked me how i was and stuff then just before he went back to wrk he ebnd down slightly to touch my leg, i just pretended to ignore it and carry on reading, but my mind was not at all in the book, now i feel really uncomfortable around him, what do you think i should do.........? (link)
Thats definatley harasment. You need to let him know even though u don't feel like u can conront him, it will be tough but he needs to know wat he is doing isn't rite. If that doesn't work you need to tell ur boss. He will understand and won't underestimate ur working abilties. Being harasseed doesn't mean it will affect how he sees u, it will mostly affect how he sees the guy.


when do girls normmaly start puburty? wat grade (link)
abut 5-7 grade id say


I've known this guy for like 3 years, and liked him on and off for a while. I like him, and just found out he's going to ask me out. What should I do? (link)
well if u still like him say yes, if u dont tell him that its not a good time for you and some other reasons why but compliment him at the same time so he doesn't feel too bad. :)


I have pretty dark arm hair, and my arms are kinda hairy. How can I make it look a lot less obvious(without completely shaving it off). help! thanks! i rate! (link)
Maybe lightening it like bleaching it or maybe you can wax it if u wanted. Hope i helped


I think I am sorta ugly, so I want to wear makeup but not a lot. maybe like eyeliner and eyeshadow and some mascara. [something like that] i dont want to wear tooooo much! [not like 2 girly]. i dont want my friends to be surprised so i dont want it to be a major change, but plz gimme tips! thank ya! (link)
im sure ur not ugly, but if u wanna start wearing makeup thtas cool. The trick to good makeup is to make it look like yo are not wearing any at all .So start off with some neutral colors, like pinks n light browns and clear or light pink liplgosess with a little bit of eyeliner and mascara, and then if u like the way that looks u can gradually start to wear more makeup if u want to but dont wear too much cuz then it just gets clumpy and dpoesn't look good. Hope i helped


wELL...i LiKe a GuY a YeAr yOunGeR...aNd hE dosnet know me... really but i know who he is..and hes smokin! since hes a year younger and we dont have ne classes it might be hard 2 get 2 know him... any suggestions?
i RaTe well
thanx alot (link)
ooh i had the same situatioin! hehe..okay i asked dthis question too ppl to cuz i needed the advice. Maybe you can go up to him with a friend and b like hey i see u around sometimes, ur in (blank ) grade rite? and then start up a convo wit him. Or just lke smile and say hi n the halls and eventually start to talk to him by urself.


Ok, I'm getting contacts really soon. The problem is, I have this little fear of things going in my eye. I have practiced so many times trying to put them in, but I always subconciously close my eye and I can never get them in all the way. What am I supposed to do to get over this? I really want to wear these contacts, but I'm so scared putting them in! (link)
ah ya i think a lot of ppl hae that problem. I guess you just have to keep pracitcing and ull get used to putting them in. I think its like a reflex or something that ue eye closes, but im not positive eother way ull get the hang of if eveutally with a lot of practice. Hope that helps :)


Ok..ive liked this guy for awhile now and he finally asked me out. But the thing is he goes to a different school and i barely see him. We dont really talk much either in person that is. So i turned him down. And plus ive been goin thru alot of stuff lately w/ my family. is that bad that i turned him down..my friends think it is..

help (link)
no way, if u felt that was the best decision for you rite now thats totally fine. Worse comes to worse you can just talk to hinm about it wen things settile down with u and ur family and u feel its sa good time to start a relationship evne tough he is a diff school. You gcould make it work if ur commited to making it work.


okay i've got curly hair but its not the nice type of curls that have a lot of form that you see and you want
instead my hair has a lot of frizz to it
somebody told me not to brush my hair because of the curls so i don't brush it very often
i was wondering if there are ways to get rid of the frizz and get those really nice curls
whats a diffuser and would that work? (link)
i know edxactly wat u mean i have curly hair adnd if i dont put stuff in it it gets mad frizzy. Some good produccts to use are ones that focus specifically on curly hair. The ones i like are scrunching gel (to define ur curls) by pantene pro-V, or if u want a wet look LA looks wet gel or Loreal mouse for curls. If you don't want ur hair to dry in the air, you can use waht is called a diffuser which is an attatchemtnt that u put on the end of a hairdryey and it diffused the hair to get evenly on ur curls. It works really well! my hairdresser uses one and it makes my hair look really good. So i hope i helped u :)


hey does anyone know where you get those bracelets that you wear and you make a wish and when the bracelet falls off the wish comes true? just wondering...I saw that on tv a long time ago and I thought it sounded cool. thanks. :) (link)
you can acutally make em! I made them a few times and its really easy. If its the kind that ithink ur thinking of, its a simple braid with beads in the center of it and when u put it on you make a wish. If u don't wanna make one then i think you can get them at claire's, afterthoughts, places like that.


i asked my mom to go over my bf's (im the girl that was spazzin about the whole she doesnt trust me thing) and i followed ur advice. THANK YOU! anyway, she said she'd havta talk to his dad first. so i need her to call..right now its 10am and if i went hed pick me up w. his dad around 2. dont u think itll be awkward getting in his car? and what if my mom comes out to talk to his? last few times i went over...my sister drove me. now its gonna be weird.what time do u think my mom shud call? do u think ill go? lots of q's but if u cud answer it wud help. thanks a lot. (link)
It shouldnt b akward getting in his car because it's not like it was ur choice to call, ur mom wanted to and his dad would understand that and ur bf wouldn' make a big deal out of it. I think that your mom should call earlier rather than later so then she can talk to him earlier and it won't be as fresh in ur bfs mind so he will havve forgten about it by 2 (even though i don't think he'd make a big deal about in the first place). I think that you will go, bc it is a good sign that ur mom wants to atleast make an effort to talk to his dad and that she is not just saying flat out no. Hope everything works out for the bst for u! :)


i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman. (link)
bring it back to where u bought it and maybe they could help you fix it, maybe it dropped or something and something got disconnected in it. Or any electricical appliance store could help you fix it. I would say bring it back and get ir money back, but since its a year odl idk..thats still pretty new for headfones to break so maybe you could bring it back and see what they say.


there is this one kid who i started liking, because we have alot in common, we listen to the same music, dress the same, and i assumed he liked me too because of the way he smiles at me, and plus we're going to a show together. well yesterday he told my best friend that he likes HER, which doesnt even make sense because she's not even his type. and she doesnt even like him back. i'm so confused cause i had no clue that he likes her. but my best friend still thinks theres hope that he could start liking me, but it just doesnt make sense. ps, he doesnt know that i like him, so should i tell him? (link)
yea that is really weird. If you feel that you should tell him even though he told his best friend that he likes her then go for it. that acutally could be a good idea because maybe he really does like u too but he felt that it would b akward if he told you first. But it also mite b a good idea to wait a few days and see if n e thing starts with ur best friend and him even though i doubt b/c she probably can't start liking him in a secod, if she doesn't rite now. So either option i think should work, sorry if that was confusing lol but hope i helped :)


Okay I have this friend and she has been my friend for about a year. Anyway she is like always bugging me she never shuts up and she always bugs me and my boyfriend. She is always trying to get us to do things, and she makes us on the sims 2 and made me get pregnant on the game and him have an affair with the maid. I mean she is a really good friend but she is always like butting in to our relationship and it gets on me and my boyfriends nerves. I just wish that she could but out of me and my boyfriends relationship. My boyfriend thinks that she likes to try to make us do stuff because she can't get a boyfriend.
Please Help Me
(*)Haleigh Ann(*) (link)
ah that sux. You need to talk to her when you guys are alone and tell her specific reasons why she is bothering you, but also mention some good points about her. The reason why you should mention specifics is because if u just say "u really bother me" shes not gunna know why ucz maybe she feels she wants to get attention from u since she mite feel that u are always wit ur bf and give all ur attention to him. She prolly won't tell u thats the reason but i have a feeling thats waht it mite b . so if ustill wanna b friends wit her make some plans wit her so let her know that u still wanna continue the friendship but if not then just tell her how u feel but also mention that she is a really cool and nice person so she won't feel too bad. Hope i helped


ive always wanted to be on a hip hop dance team but never have and i really wanna be on one..how can i get on one? my school is gay and doesnt have one...i live in waterford michigan if you know anything plz lemme know. im an okay dancer but i dont know if id be good enough to be on a hip hop dance team...grr someone give me some advice please! p.s ima white girl lol (link)
maybe u can start one at ur school! Like make a petition and have pl sign it who would want one and show it to ur principal or guidance counsler, and they could help u organize one. Or maybe u can call a dance studio and ask if they give hip hop classes...hope i helpef


Yea, theres this girl at school, and she's really bothering me. I try to me nice to her, but she's so short it really bothers me. I really want to be her friend, but who could be friends with the girl? She's got this ugly brown frizzy curly hair complemented with headphones, always listening to her horrible angry music. She has this friend, and when they get together, the two of them are the worlds most annoying couple. I think they are both lesbians. How would you propose I go about eliminating this girl? Physically or socially? Preferably physically... (link)
exxuuuuse me but if ur name is brandon then this calls for a 10-4 situation. My advice is b a nice man and dont b mean to wat seems like a mad awesome girl. allllsoo i do know this girl sooo she does love u very much for giving her the livestrong..buuuuut this nonsense must come to an end!




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