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Ok..ive liked this guy for awhile now and he finally asked me out. But the thing is he goes to a different school and i barely see him. We dont really talk much either in person that is. So i turned him down. And plus ive been goin thru alot of stuff lately w/ my family. is that bad that i turned him down..my friends think it is..
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No way, Obviously you turned him down for a reason. You should've explained it was nothing personal though. You've just been going through alot, and you'd like to get to know him better.
I think you made a good decision.
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It's not wrong that you turned him down. Your dealing with other stuff right now. You turned him down because you weren't ready. Good for you!
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I don't think it's bad because if you're having problems at home with your family and you don't need someone else to worry about while you're having trouble. Besides if you guys go to different schools and barely see each other it would be the same thing it is now except for the occasional in person meeting. I've tried going out with people from different schools and it never worked. They can do what they want at their school and you wouldn't find out about it. You wouldmost likely be constantly worried.
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I guess it depends. If your not upset from rejecting him then its fine. You only have to suit yourself. Now if you feel upset about rejecting him and it's really bothering you then maybe it is a bad thing.
xoxox Brit
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no way, if u felt that was the best decision for you rite now thats totally fine. Worse comes to worse you can just talk to hinm about it wen things settile down with u and ur family and u feel its sa good time to start a relationship evne tough he is a diff school. You gcould make it work if ur commited to making it work.
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If you barely see him and you're going through a lot of stuff with your family then I think it's ok that you turned him down. You would barely see him or talk to him anyway. Maybe in a little bit when the things with your family quiet down or whatever then maybe you should go out with him. Hope I helped! Leave me one if I can do anything for you!
Love, RacheL
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