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what do the 3 bases mean? like i know that they have something sexual to do with them, but what are they?
This is the way I always heard it
1st base-making out
2nd base- With the hands (felt up, fingering, handjob)
3rd base- Oral sex
Home-Sex
so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months and i love kissing him. and i always want to. we havent done it that much though. and its because i am a nervous wreck every time. he was my first kiss and weve never really made out or anything and he knows that im nervous and that he was my first and he knows i think i have no idea what im doing and he trys to make me feel better about it but i still cant help it. i want to make out with him but i dont know how to or how to get over the nervous thing. please dont say just go for it cuz i wish i could lol. any help you can give would be GREAT!!
Okay. I had the same problem. I was really nervous to make out with my boyfriend of like 2 weeks. We were at a party, and all night I avoided it, until the end. We were standing outside, it was dark. He leaned in, and next thing I know, it happened. You really do just have to go for it. It comes naturally, TRUST ME. Don't think too much about it, or your thoughts will overrule your instinct. Just go with it. I know you said not to say that, but its true. Its all natural. He will just love to make out with you, he won't mind if youre a first timer. Plus after 10 seconds of doing it, you'll know what your doing, its not tough. So seriously, just stop thinking about it and do it!!
Good luck, and most importantly HAVE FUN =)
I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.
What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied.
Shes Probably just embarassed about her weight. The same thing happened to me with my best friend. She kept asking me my weight over and over again, so I finally just told her (130) and she was at least 200 lbs, at the least, but she said she was 135. She was just embarrassed about her true weight, but I didn't call her on it, because that would make her feel worse. Everyone can obviously see that they weigh more, so it's really not that big of a deal. Plus, thats not a big lie. If thats all shes lying about, then you've got some pretty good friends. Now if shes lying about more serious issues, then thats a different story, but going by this, I'd say its okay. If you need anything else, drop one in my inbox! =)
What is 666? I know it has something to do with the devil.. I'm an atheist, so I don't know what it is and why the heck everyone is so worked up. Can someone please explain this to me?
No ones going to die. If you think about it, there have already been a lot of 666 days. June 6, 1806, June 6, 1906. And so on. This one's no different.
You asked why we were going to die, and you already said you knew it was the devils number, so actually, I did answer it. We aren't going to die. Thats the answer. Can't really give you more. Sorry for trying?
ok so this doesn't go under that catagorie sex but if anybody has a review on the movie HOSTEL I would like to hear it. Please state if there is nudity, sexual content,etc... thanx
The first half of it is basically a porno. All they do is get naked and have sex, and they dont edit it. The second half is really gory killings. Its quite dirty, its rated mature, didn't even get an r rating
What is the nicest way to break up with someone without hurting them too much? I preferr not in person though. Please Help
Honestly, just tell them the truth. If you don't, it will seem fake. They might not be happy right away, but no one likes to be lied to, and they will respect you for telling the truth. You really should do it in person, because it looks like you're scared if you don't. Second best would be on the phone I suppose. At least you would be actually talking to them. Whatever you do, don't do it on the internet or send a friend to do it. Thats the worst possible way to break up with someone.
Good luck!
Do most guys, or you personally, prefer long hair on girls or short hair?
Natural make-up(looking like your not wearing any) or make-up you can notice(not in a cheesey way)?
The guys I know prefer hair thats at least longer than shoulder length and makeup thats not too overdone. You can notice it, but it just cant be very much, because too much is a turn off.
ok, this is kinda wierd asking...but, whenever I go poop...when I wipe, there is bright red blood...is something wrong?!?!?!
your advice is greatly appreciated!
If this has happened more than just once, see a doctor. Don't worry yet, but bleeding there is a sign of a lot of serious problems, so don't wait. See one immediately.
Okay at my school 20 students are chosen to sing for the schools concert, I was chosen to sing and I really want to do a song by Britney Spears....and a song by Christina Aguilara does anyone know what I should sing? I know I'm a member on here but this is a matter of life and death!!! Thank you
Kelley
I think you should sing The Voice Within- Christina Aguilara. Its a beautiful song, lyrics AND vocals!
what are the pros and cons of the razor phone (cingular)
I have it in magenta... Pros for me are: Apperance, Camera/video/sound recorder, size, and the keys, they can't get stuck. The cons are: The ringer isn't that loud, when I'm in a noisy place and its in my purse, I can't hear it some times. Another is the vibrate. Tough to feel sometimes. Overall, I like it.
does anyone have a foundation/concealer they would recommend? i need to get a good foundation because the ones i use dont work good and is just.. not good.. and also what are some good mascaras that make eyelashes look longer and thicker? if you can answer one of them ill giveyou a 5! thanks!
I love covergirl trublend foundation, and Maybelline XXL mascara.. They both work Great for me!
i have long brown hair and i was wondering what color should i get my highlights. would you suggest dark brown cuz thats what im leaning towards? if not what colors?
If you have darker brown hair, I would go with a copper highlight, that way it won't be too harsh in your dark hair, but it will still look pretty. If you have light brown hair, a golden blonde would look good. I wouldn't go with too many or too light of a color since its your first time. You want it to be sort of subtle, trust me. You can build your way up to lighter or more if you want for the next couple of times. Plus, it will be more low maintenence. You have to be committed if you are getting highlights. They have to be touched up every 6-8 weeks. You can go a little longer if they are really subtle highlights, but not much. Roots look really bad, no matter what color your hair. If you are wanting something more drastic, you can get some golden blonde and some rust colored high/lowlights. Or, you could have brown thats a couple shades darker than your hair and blonde thats a couple shades lighter. My stylist calls it the neopolitan effect, because you have the dark(chocolate), the blonde(vanilla) and the midshade, your hair(strawberry). Its super cute. Oh and one more thing. If you don't already have a stylist, I would ask around for who is good. You don't want to just go for the cheapest, because a lot of times, you get what you pay for, so ask around, and get some names of stylists who have done your friends hair that you like. And I'm sure the stylist will have some suggestions for you if you just ask. Good luck!
I know you're supposed to drink 64 oz. of water a day. Does that help you lose weight? If I drink more than 64 oz. of water will it make me lose more weight?
Yes. Water is wonderful for you. The more water, the better. It will help you lose lots of weight plus its healthy. Drink, drink, drink!
i have these white ring/circles on the bottom of my feet. theyre small and theyre juss white, not gross & they dont hurt. it seems like they are open sort've, not bloody er anything, its juss white skin inside of it?? i cant really explain it. its kind've hard if you touch it. you could feel that its there. there's a base to it. does anyone know what that is?? im curious, because ive had em for awhile.
thanks!!
Um.... sounds like a type of warts. My friend got them from walking barefoot in a lockerroom. It sounds just like what they are. Especially if they spread or are in clusters. You should see a foot doctor. They will be able to put medicine on it to take it away.
Sorry it's so long, but I don't really have a question but can anyone give me advice?
me and danielle were walking down the hallway and i was telling danielle about the BMX show and im in the middle of a conversation with her and her friend kayla that i dont like comes up and says hey! to danielle and danielle goes hey bestfriend! and so i stand there while they talk and they just keep talking so i just go to my bus and sit down in my seat and then danielle gets on and sits down next to me and says, " are u mad at me?" and i say, a little and she like completly flips out and goes WHYYY? and i tell her why and she goes its not like you never do that! and i dont say anything and then we stop talking and then she goes this is retarded and i say why? and she says why your mad at me! and i said its not retarded i have a reason to be mad and she says ughh watever kendall because she ALWAYS says that when she has nothing else to say and i said NICELY seriously, i did say it nice, i said can you please stop saying that because you only say that when you have nothing to say, and she gooes UGH! and then we stop talking and she says dont call me on spring break. and then i say that was really rude danielle. and then she doesnt say anything and i start crying and then i ask to move to my brothers seat because he wasnt there so i moved there and then she says to katie behind us, HEY KATIEE!! ( really loud so i can hear ) WANNA HANG OUT THIS WEEKEND? and so they start talking and i cry in my brothers seat.
Seriously, sounds like a typical middle school problem. Let me tell you now, its not worth it. Don't stay mad at her because lifes too short. Tell her that everything was really stupid and the fight never should have happened, but you'd appreciate it if she wouldn't interupt you for some one else again, because thats rude. Tell her if she wants to hang out over spring break, great, then you guys can make plans, but if she still wants to drag on this immature fight, then be your guest, you will just have to make plans with your other friends. You can't let her know shes getting to you that much, because it gives her a sense of power over you. If you choose not to let her bother you and you stop being mad, then sooner or later, she will get bored with it. And thats in most situations, not just in this particular one. Trust me, thats how people are. If you don't let people get to you, then they wont even bother trying.
im a girl freshman and i like this junior. he doesnt know i like him but his friends do. im embarrased to tell him i have a crush so how can i tell him without embarrasment and how do i tell if he feels the same?
Honestly, if his friends know, he probably knows too, or at least has an idea. Invite him out somewhere or just lead into it in conversation. You will be able to tell by his reaction to you. If he feels the same, Great. If he doesn't, don't sweat it, because there will be plenty of others in high school, trust me.
how can i get music in my windows media library onto my ipod? (if this helps i no longer have ituenes or quicktime player on my comp and i cant reinstall them!)
You have to have itunes as far as I know. You can buy the program or maybe even download it. You can probably find it on the apple website.
Hey, I was wondering if anyone had make-up tips for someone with hazel eyes? Well, hah, I have hazel eyes, fair-medium skin, and darkish hair thats shoulder length, sometimes I side part it sometimes I don't. Any help would be nice, thanks.
Almay makes special make up for different eye colors. Eyeshadow, mascara, and maybe eyeliner, not sure about that though. But you can get it at walmart, its fairly inexpensive, and my friends who have the make up all like it really well. Good luck!
I am a guy 5'6 and in 7th grade 3rd marking period. Is that tall for my age? And does anyone know if I will stop growing or not? I heard guys stop in highschool( middle)
Everyone grows differently around your age. Don't even stress about anything. Its true, guys usually have growth spurts going into highschool, but thats good. You will want to grow a few more inches by then, because after everyone else grows, 5'6 isnt that tall. But I think you sound very normal, so don't even worry.
Besides, most girls I know like tall guys, including me!
Can you be forgiven for being gay? Is it really a sin? What if you just want to try it and see what happens are you going to be penalized for that? Can someone help me asap.. these questions are for a friend who really needs it
Okay, I will give you my opinion and things I have learned from church on this matter, so whatever I put, please no one be offended.
Homosexuality is definitely a sin, just as premarital sex, murder, and disrespecting your parents. A sin is a sin in gods eyes. No sin is necessarily worse than another. Sins can be forgiven, all you have to do is ask. God does not hold a grudge, once you are forgiven, all is forgotten with him. However, if you live a life in sin, and you know you are sinning, thats not the same case. No one knows what God will do, but you can't just sin because you know you will be forgiven. That doesnt make it okay. You can't have premarital sex because you know that after you can just ask for forgivness.
A lot of people claim that you are born gay and ask why god would make us homosexual if it was a sin. I strongly believe that God does not make us gay. God does not make us gay anymore than he makes us sluts, murderers, thieves, or any thing else of that sort. Murderers arent born to murder people, they are corrupted by society, and its their choice to give into thier temptations or not. All of those things I listed above, I believe, are straight works of satan. He is doing everything in his power to get us to turn away from jesus. That is why you see things such as promiscuity, violence, and homosexuality becoming more and more accepted in todays world. It is NOT okay. My good guy friend and his brother (whos gay) were fighting about this and he said "How can you say this is wrong. This is all I've ever known. I was made like this. How can you say its wrong." and my friend said "Ever since I can remember, I have lusted after women. Strongly lusted. Thats all I have ever known, but that doesnt make it right". I just thing that illustrates my point very well.
Another thing I want to point out, is that temptation is part of our lives. We are always being tested. We must overcome temptation to show the lord that we are loyal to him and that we are worthy of his love (not that he doesnt always love us anyways, sinners or not).
Now I'm not saying I am perfect. None of us are. I am a sinner, and I am no better than anyone else. Homosexuality is no worse than stealing something or cursing. But its the continuation of the sin that makes things different.
Oh and about your question on punishment. You are penalized the same way you would be if you committed any other sin. But if you live in sin, and theres no way to candy coat this, you will go to hell, unless you ask for forgiveness and are sincere. But if you are living in sin, whos to say if you will ever get that chance. No one is promised tomorrow. You could easily die while you are sitting here reading this now. You never know.
Good luck with your friend. I really hope I helped in someway. If you need anything else, don't hesitate to ask!