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Fighting
Sorry it's so long, but I don't really have a question but can anyone give me advice?
me and danielle were walking down the hallway and i was telling danielle about the BMX show and im in the middle of a conversation with her and her friend kayla that i dont like comes up and says hey! to danielle and danielle goes hey bestfriend! and so i stand there while they talk and they just keep talking so i just go to my bus and sit down in my seat and then danielle gets on and sits down next to me and says, " are u mad at me?" and i say, a little and she like completly flips out and goes WHYYY? and i tell her why and she goes its not like you never do that! and i dont say anything and then we stop talking and then she goes this is retarded and i say why? and she says why your mad at me! and i said its not retarded i have a reason to be mad and she says ughh watever kendall because she ALWAYS says that when she has nothing else to say and i said NICELY seriously, i did say it nice, i said can you please stop saying that because you only say that when you have nothing to say, and she gooes UGH! and then we stop talking and she says dont call me on spring break. and then i say that was really rude danielle. and then she doesnt say anything and i start crying and then i ask to move to my brothers seat because he wasnt there so i moved there and then she says to katie behind us, HEY KATIEE!! ( really loud so i can hear ) WANNA HANG OUT THIS WEEKEND? and so they start talking and i cry in my brothers seat.
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Seriously, sounds like a typical middle school problem. Let me tell you now, its not worth it. Don't stay mad at her because lifes too short. Tell her that everything was really stupid and the fight never should have happened, but you'd appreciate it if she wouldn't interupt you for some one else again, because thats rude. Tell her if she wants to hang out over spring break, great, then you guys can make plans, but if she still wants to drag on this immature fight, then be your guest, you will just have to make plans with your other friends. You can't let her know shes getting to you that much, because it gives her a sense of power over you. If you choose not to let her bother you and you stop being mad, then sooner or later, she will get bored with it. And thats in most situations, not just in this particular one. Trust me, thats how people are. If you don't let people get to you, then they wont even bother trying.
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