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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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Is Itunes commpatible with Windows ME?
Please answer if you have itunes and/or Windows ME?

that would be a positive + [ yess! ]

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Agh! One of my BFF's copies everything from other people! She's so unoriginal with her AIM profile, taste in music, style, way she acts && everything! So annoying! What should I do? Say something.. or just ignore it? Its so annoying tho! I will rate Ok thank yu!

first of all, alot of people are unoriginal with their aim profiles. and taste if she likes one song she heard from a friend doesnt mean shes copying them at all - she just likes the song. since she is your best friend, you should be able to tell her everything. just be like "i dont understand why you sometimes try to be like other people when your already amazing" or soething like that thats asking her a question and giving her a reason why she shouldnt do that. like i said, i wouldnt make a big deal about aim profiles and music. but as far as "&& everything!" - id try talking to her maybe. just find out why shes trying to be like someone shes not. if she doesnt change [ which theres a chance she wont ], then im sorry - but some people are just like that.. you call them the "followers" and to me you sound like a "leader".

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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heyy kelly its ashley saying hi =) love you darlinggg

hey cutiepatutie. today was so fun - especially chasing your dog :P lovee youu ♥

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for aim, when i go on iconator.com to get a new icon and try to download it, it says that i cant for some reason. is there any way to fix this????


thank you = ]

it should work. try left clicking and save as. its alot quicker too !

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ok.. I'm 13/f and I'm in the 7th grade. I play JV ball for the highschool and there is this girl who is in the same grade and she got ask to play with us in the summer and now she is telling every body that she is a varisty player for the highschool.. her mother puts stuff in her head tellin her she is the best ball player ever and crap.. it really just pisses me off..It gets stuff in her head and crap.. We'll get to play them in aau and I'm going to show her out for she won't think she is the best ever..should I be mad or how should I think about this?

dont get frustrated about her. for all those little things that she says - just put them all into your effort against her in the game. play x175683 harder than you usually do. good luck

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Hey Mom, i'll try to make this sweet and simple.
I kinda want my underwear back.
I'm not exactly sure why you took them, but i have an idea. Maybe you thought i was trying to 'impress' somebody? Maybe for punishment? Maybe you thought i was growing up too fast?
i'm not exactly sure but i think its one of those.
I just wannna let you know i'm not trying to impress anybody.
Its kind of a personal preference, its more comfortable & stuff.
i don't like, show people or anything, like some people i know.(aka sluts!)
I don't know, do you want me to earn them back?
well write back.
mmkay
bye


is it good? i don't want to sound like a smart aleck though. and i don't wnt to beg her either.
is this good? any revisions i should make?

personally, i think you should take out the "like some people i know.(aka sluts!)" because then she might be thinkning since you know them, you can hang out with them and then she doesnt want you turning into a slut either. and dont put in the mmkay bye thing too. just like draw a heart or something. other than those small things - you did a really good job :] good luck getting those things back !

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ok so im making a warm up cd for our soccer games but im running low on the choices...

soooo any good songs?
they have to be clean like no cussing and whatever

heres some ideass:
lets get it started - black eyed peas,
pump it - black eyed peas,
stuck in america - sugarcult
the only difference.. - panic! at the disco
lean wit it, rock wit it - dem franchize boyz
somebody told me - the killers
the way we get by - spoon
beep - pussy cat dolls
gold digger - kanye west
best of you - foo fighters
dance, dance - fall out boy
check on it - beyonce
grillz - nelly
hot in herre - nelly
sos - rihanna
i think they like me - dem franchize boyz
move along - the all american rejects
[i know some people already said some.. but they are good ones :) oh, and idk which ones are clean and not.. but you can prolly get all of these songs in a "clean" version]

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i like most of delia's clothes (mainly their screen tees and such). what are some other stores that carry modest clothing that is cute and sort of the same style? i'm not looking for "preppy" stores like abercrombie, hollister, or ae.

try store like forever 21, pac sun, h&m, charlotte russe, express, chicos, d.e.m.o, bebe, wet seal, apple or you can even try target, marshall fields, lord and taylor or JCpenny for cute clothes but not brand names. [ i know some people already said some of these - sorry! ]

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any ideas on how to make an outfit not look so boring? i usualy wear jeans and a long sleaved shirt but all my long sleaves are so plain.

GO TO CLAIRS OR DRY ICE AND GET ACCESSORIES. big pearls are really in right now - so are all big & long necklaces. and maybe some whacky [ or adoorable] earrings [if you have your ears pierced]. also try layering.. maybe try getting a long wifebeater to go under your shirt - or if your daring maybe even over it. or you can maybe try a scarf around your hair. dont be scared to stand out a little. oh, and if your creative try sewing on bead and stuff on your jeans. or use sandpaper and make [little or big - your choice] holes. youd be surprised how much something little like that can change your outfit so much.

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my hair is really weird i straighten my hair all the time and i have like really bad breakage issues HELP!

try getting blow serum to put on your hair when you get outa the shower. also try getting those shampoo and conditioners that help with split ends. and to hide split ends spray hairspray into your hands when your done straightening and just put it over it should hide it - unless you have crappy hairspray.

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how do i lighten my hair on my arms and but and stomach because its really dark hair and imbarising and i dont no how to make it a light color can u help please !!! thanks i rate high all the time

orange and lemon juice. then sit in the sun. [ it also works on the hair on your head too - if it isnt too thick ] or like other people say.. try shaving.

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How do you wash mascara off of your eyes? I dont know how to do it and it is really annoying becuase then I get eye problems. Thanks ♥

you can use - makeup remover. or soap. or baby oil. baby oil works good and it doesnt hurt your eyes at all :]

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i`m 14/f. i don't wear a "real" bra. i wear camosals with the built in bras. they seem to work good for me but i was wondering if you think i need a real bra. and if you could, state a reason why. thanks.

it deffinitally depends on what cup size you are. if you dont know this - then you can go to [for example] victorias secret and ask them to measure you. i know for a fact that they do it for free.. theres also ways you can do it yourself. i agree with the other people - if your above an A cup then you should try wearing real bras - not just the built in ones in camis. ofcorse you can still wear camis just wear a bra then a cami. if you dont start wearing a bra soon - then your boobs with start looking "droopy" and if your nipples are hard then it will be kinda gross [ haha ].

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i am a 12 year old girl and i am just starting to learn about sex. i know the basics but there is some stuff i dont know. like me and my friends were talking at a sleep over during sptingbreak and they used these words (sorry if they are spelled wrong) master-bate, fingering, dildo, g-spot, and kum. i didnt know what any of these words meant so i kinda just shook my head and stayed out of the conversation. can you tell me what these mean?

hey babe, i know that you wanna know like all these things. but asking me really isnt the smartest thing you can do. honestly i think that if you have any questions about this sorta thing - you should like ask your mom. i know it sounds maybe awkward or something but they are the smartest and have been through all this stuff. they should wanna be able to answer your questions instead of yuo asking me [ haha :P ]. since you did ask me though.. i found a website that has deffinitions of all these things plus wayy more. but like i said - you should ask your mom. i dont blame you for not saying anything to your friends because you dont wanna be made fun of or whatever but i can promise you your mom will not NOT make fun of you. go here for all the deffinitions. [ http://www.iwannaknow.org/glossary/index.html ] and on the left side - click the letters your words are inbetween, but like i said - id ask your mom first. good luck babe.

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i need to get rid of my acne, quick. please help me. i know about pro active but is there anything i can use without buying stuff like creams. if not products are good too. at this point im desperate. anything will do. * automatic 5`s if you give me atleast 7 different ways to get rid of acne *

drink A LOT of water [ aim to drink atleast 2 liters a day ] . reduce the amount of caffine [ coffee, tea, chocolate, etc.] . go outside in the sun [ it drys out pores , but dont get burnt - take a 5-10 minute walk a day or something ] . eat less redmeat and dairy [ redmeat is hard to diegest and creates acid in your body ] . less sugar & refined carbs [ refined carbs/sugar = more insulin = more hormones = more oil = more bacteria = more acne. refined carbs are like white bread, pasta, rice, flour, etc. ] . reduce stress [ by exercise - yoga or t'ai chi. or try meditation ] . fresh foods [ fruits, nuts, seeds, veggies ] . take out all the yucky oily foods [ in your diet ].

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Okay well I'm 14 for starters. Anyways, me and this guy went out for a month or two, but we could never talk because he was banned from the phone (long story) but the story's not important. Now we broke up about a week ago, but it's been Easter Break because I go to a catholic school. Even before we were dating we would always talk and what not. Then in class, I would always try to talk to him but he would never talk back. He's kind of blaming it on me because we couldnt talk too much, but he still likes me. I don't see what's going on. And he also just starts yelling at me about it. If you could please help me that would be great. ♥

he shouldnt blame it on you because you guiys didnt talk - its both of your fault. a relationship needs effort from both people/ not just one. and since you were trying and he didnt try back - its more his fault if anything. i would talk to him online mor.e or see if he could hang out outside of school.. then maybe get some one-on-one time with him. and see if you guys could work out again because he still likes you. [ and im guessing you still like him? ]

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Hi my name is Kendall. I have a 10 year old neighbor in 4th grade. She is 5"1 she weighs 125! She has a really big stomach but has skinny legs. She eats a lot of junk food. She could be really pretty if she was skinny. I don't want to be mean and tell her that she needs to not eat so much and exersice. Is there any way I can convince her and help her out to lose weight?

hey kendall. its cute how your like concerned about your neighbor but wow, that is pretty big for a 10 yr old. since shes your neighbor maybe go for a jog when shes outside and see if she wants to join you. be like i dont really feel like running alone. and maybe make it a habbit like every night or something. get it in her mind that like working out or something is fun. then it can get you in super shape [ if you arent already ]. or maybe if you ever babysit her or something then fix her some good food. like cut her up some fruit instead of chips. or whatever. dont exactly tell her that shes fat because as she gets older she will just get more and more self concouis

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hey i want a haircut
1.that makes my head appear bigger and that emphasizes my jawline and cheekbones.

2.that looks good curly or straight , straight mainly

3.that looks good in a ponytail at the front and the back

4. where the overall length to just goes past my shoulders.

has anyone got any pictures or suggestions to how i should have it cut?
thanku luv rach xxx

try going here [http://www.1001-hairstyles.com] and finding one you like. then maybe print it out or something to show your hairdresser EXACTLY how you want it [ its alot easier and harder to make mistakes then ].

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i REALLY want to die my hair dark brown. Right now its a dirty blondish . The only problem is my mom wont let me . I have tried convincing her but she says im 14 and i dont need to at my age.But I really want to . Is there anyone who ran into this problem when they were about my age and whatd they do to convince there parents to let them die it . Or does anyone have any ideas of what i could say to convince her . Thanks && ill rate high for anything that will help. !

try using termporary dye first. then you can see if you like it and if she does too. it will most likely convince her then because it shows you really are gonna care about it. most temporary dyes wash out between 8 - 12 washes.

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ok so lately a lot of people have been talking about a show or movie called high school musical. what is it about? is it like grease or something? i've never even heard of it but people around school seem to know all about the thing. what tv station is it on too?

thanks im just curious.

AH ! HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL ! its like the best movie. its on disney channel and its really good. its not like grease [ i dont think ] its about a guy whos like amazing at basketball but figures out that his heart is really into theatre. and he meets a girl while doing this and they like eachother. its really good and some of my friends are like obcessed. most of us have even met the cast [including me]. anyway - your really missing out. you should see it.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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