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her mother puts stuff in her head so badly
ok.. I'm 13/f and I'm in the 7th grade. I play JV ball for the highschool and there is this girl who is in the same grade and she got ask to play with us in the summer and now she is telling every body that she is a varisty player for the highschool.. her mother puts stuff in her head tellin her she is the best ball player ever and crap.. it really just pisses me off..It gets stuff in her head and crap.. We'll get to play them in aau and I'm going to show her out for she won't think she is the best ever..should I be mad or how should I think about this?
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dont be mad if you know she isnt that good! just show how much better you are when you play her! =] jenn!
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The problem with this girl is that it's not her fault. It's her mothers. When a child is 1 years old, for example, they hear what their mother tells other people and what their parents/mother tells them.
That's whats going on here. Just sit this girl down and have a serious talk with her about what she's been doing and how she could probably lose her place on the team.
Have your mother have a talk with her mother. Things could turn out good, if the right steps are taken in this situation. =]
-GD
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have you sat down and talked her alone? Sometimes people feel pressured by their parents to be the best and the start acting like they are the best. They try to please their parents and they dont realize that their actions are hurting other people around them. Maybe if you get to know her and what her life is truly like you might be able to get passed all the things she has done and said.
If that is too hard to do then try to put it all behind you and do the best you can. As long as you have fun that is all that matters.
Good luck
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dont get frustrated about her. for all those little things that she says - just put them all into your effort against her in the game. play x175683 harder than you usually do. good luck
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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It's not her fault. Some people are just egotistical... dont let her get to you... but don't try to go out of your way to humiliate her either. Let her think what she wants, shell find out on her own that she isn't.
As for her mom, all parents tell their kids they're the best at everything the kid does, even if they suck. So dont worry about it
hope i helped =]
Re Re ♥
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It's not really bad to feel confident in yourself that you are a good player, but soon she will realize that she isn't better than everyone, and everyone eventually learns that.
Instead of trying to be a better player than her, just be her friend, and you don't have to, but don't compete with someone else whose suppose to be on your team! You don't have to show her that she isn't the best player in the whole school, she will realize that.
-TheTeenGirl
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Don't be mad. Just show her a good game.
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