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does my crush like me back
ok here's the thing...there's this girl that i really like..but the problem is shes very shy and its hard to get a signal..going to different schools and having different things dont make things easier..i only see her once a week(our families are very bonded with each other) and so our parents and relatives r always in the same room..we barely talk to each other and that makes me nervous..when i stare at her she looks somewhere else or to the floor but doesnt seem uncomfortable..its hard to explain..i do have a crush but im not looking for a relationship..right now i just wanna know if she likes me back before i figure out my next move..can u plzz help me know if she likes me back without having to flirt or do something funny in front of my parents! (they r cramping my style)..she is a twin (almost identical) for what its worth..thnxx and i hope u can help me
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the thing with shy girls [shy people in general]is that theyll do something un expected when they feel something else. take notice of things, like if she ever blushes when you say something to her, if she's ever fighting a smile when you say something. look for things that seem out of place or not usual and that'll tell you if she likes you or not.
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Is there no way you can get her away from both sets of your parents? Say if her family come over to your house, you guys could go out in the garden or something into a different room? Even if it's only into the kitchen and the two of you get drinks, anything! Might seem scary but I really think that's your best bet and confidence is the key!
If you can do that you at least have your parents or whatever they've been talking about as a starting point for conversation. If you don't want a relationship just concentrate on being her friend. If you think of it in those terms it should make it a bit less scary too- you're not trying to date her, just be her friend, and you've made loads of friends before so you know you can do that.
Good luck x
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OKay Well This Is What I Think. I Think She Probly Does Like You But I Thinks she thinks Its Kindof Akward to Be Liking Each Other When You Perents Are Around... You Know?! Well Just Take Her Aside One Day And Start Talking. I Think Ya'll Sound Cute Together! Hope This Helps!
[♥] Staci
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Hey,
I understand, it seems pretty hard to tell in this situation how she's feeling, it's alwasy awkward when your parents are around. You say the barely talking to each other makes you nervous, it's probably the same for her! The best way to get someone to come out of their shell is to be brave and come out of yours. See if theres something you two could do together, even jsut for a few minutes, like going to make tea for your parents, or nipping to a shop together to get biscuits when your families are together. Simple things like that, which allow you to spend a few minutes together.
And then be confident! I know it's tricky when you're unsure, to make sure you say the right thing, but don't worry about it! If it helps, think of a few topics of conversation you could bring up. If you're families are close, maybe something funny that happened when you were little, or something general that you can talk to anyone about!
Once you're confident with that, you can start to read her signals back. If she seems to be enjoying the moments you spend together, is laughing along with you and is generally coming out of her shell a bit, make friends with her properly. Invite her out with your mates one weekend or something, not like a date but just chilling. Keep being friendly and the signs get easier to read!
Good luck and God bless
xxx
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You can get her screen name or cell phone number so you can talk to her in private and get to know her better. Or say that you want to go outside and play wiffleball or something and tell ask her to come with you. When you're alone with her outside you'll get to know her better and once she knows you then you'll be able to tell if she likes you or not, or even ask her. It shouldn't be too hard to get away from your parents/relatives. You don't even have to go outside you can just go in a seperate room. So yeah... I hope everything works out fine.
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ok heyy you can try by being more friendly with her.. ask how she is doing,start conversations and get as close as possible with her.. ask her to hang out some times(outside your grandparents house) and act like yourself..i hope i helped.. rate high thanks hunn<33
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