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my boyfriends kind of skinny.
actually hes realllly skinny.
Alot skinnier then me.
and to be honest it kind of bothers me..
i feel so much bigger than him and i dont know how to get over it cause i really like him.
but like i feel like im going to crush him and i just feel like we dont look right together cause usually i go for more muscular looking guys
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It doesnt matter what size his body is, it shouldnt matter :) Iknow it would be awkward since hes smaller than you, but if he makes you feel happy and good, then just try to look past that, and focus on his heart :)
Where do they sell bras that just stick on and there's no strap or anything? NOT a straples bra but like stick on cups?
Victoria's secret, or most clothing department stores that sell bras and underwear.
Lately, my eyes get all watery inside and sometimes tears drop but it's not because I'm crying - I think it might be allergies? What do you think it is and how do I stop it?
Go to the store and get visine tear drops, that will stop it from being itchy and red.
Then to stop the whole eye watering thing, go to the doctor and they will probably give you some medication for allergies :)
And claritin is much cheaper now since you can buy it over the counter, and it doesnt have to be prescription.
i have some greenish mush in my vagina. is this a yeast infection?
and what are signs of a yeast infection.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001511.htm
Go to that website, it has information on that, showing symptons and what causes them.
hope i helped !
17/f I've been doing about 20 situps everyday and drinking plenty of warter for the past month to try to lose weight,but for some reason after I do the 20 situps my back hurts and I feel like throwing afterwards why is this?
Well if you drink too much water it can make you feel bloated. So that could be why you feel like puking, and your back hurts because your most likely straining your back and neck to do your situps and not concentrating on yoru stomache muscles. Make sure to keep your stomache muscles tight and concentrate on them, so you wont hurt your neck/shoulders and back.
You may feel nausious as well just because you've been working out so much, or going to fast. Remember to do them slowly, beacuse the more concentrated they are the better the results.
anything i need to know bad+good about periods i just started mine july 3.
Hi :]
Well the bad thing is, they give you cramps, and make you feel bloated, and can give you back aches, make you constipated.. mood swwings..
http://www.midol.com/YourPeriodYourBody/AboutPMS/index.asp
You can go there and learn about it more.
Your more emotional at this time more than others, but all this depends on the person.
Some people dont get cramps, some get them really bad, and some get really emotional and moody.
ok so
i need to lose about 20 or more pounds
and i dont really no how to start it or anything
anyone wanna help me?!
hi !
Well I suggest maybe eating healthy,
and exercising. Losing weight isnt easy =/
Try googling some good exercises for the specefic area you want to lose weight on:)
And stay away from butter and fatty foods!
it's summer and i need some extra cash for necessities. what are some jobs i could do? and if anybody suggests soemthing like cleaning/dog walking ora ntyhing HOW DO I ASK people if they want ym services? and how? like how do i say i want 4.00 an hour (or how ever many) w/out sounding demanding? what would you want to hear? and what would uw ant done around the house? or outside? whatver. what would u want to heaR? ANY ADVICE ABOUT GETTING MONEY WOULD BE GREAT
Well you cant get really a paying job at age 14, most jobs dont hire until your atleast 16.
But you can walk dogs, cleaning,mowing the lawn,put ads in the paper, or post signs up offering your service with your phone number and what you charge. Just write you want 4 dollars an hour ont he flyer you do, :) that would be cheap for most people. But yeah, or do chores around your house or extra things around thehouse if your parents will pay you to do that?
Have a garage sale, babysit, etc.
:)
why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of the guy i likev and makes me cry so much..... why?
We cry over people because we care about them, or we have some emotional attachment to them, yah know? :(
You probably cry over the guy whent he song is on, because its probably written about the same way you feel about the guy?
I'm sorry sweetie, I hope you feel better :)
Lately, my eyelids have been red and chapped. Does anyone know what could have caused this and how i can treat/prevent this? Thanks.
Most likely suburn. I had that too the other day!
Put some aloe vera on it to make it stop stinging, or lotion. And to prevent it make sure to put sunscreen on your eye lids!
And your ears! haha :)
ok so my boyfreind is 15 im 13 the age doesnt bother me that much but the fact that he has has sex before does we can talk about it openly and all but i think he thinks i am imature for telling him there is no way in hell i will lose my virginity when i am only 13 and stuff i dont really no wat my question is i think i just need to talk to someone about it help please
Yes I have msn Lover_109432@hotmail.com
Yeah its not a big age difference, but sometimes the thinking is, especially in a boy. The middle age teenish for them their hormones are raging. I would dump him, before he pressures you into having sex. Because the pressure is always REALLY heavy. It is crazy to lose your virginity when your 13, in my opinion you should wait until marriage so you know that you both are virgins, and no stds, no aids, stuff like that.
If you need someone to talk to you can IM me at Kaylehmae - I'll be happy to talk and listen :)
Hey does anyone know when the new season of Gilmore Girls starts? I'd really appreciate it if someone could let me know! thanks!
try googling it,
or going to the wb website?
http://thewb.warnerbros.com/web/index.jsp
:)
My friend Sam got asked out by a guy she and I both HATE.(His name is Matt) She told him she wasn't allowed to go out yet. (But it wasn't true) He always flirted with her anyways, and it was creeping both of us out. Towards the end of the year, our school had a party at the pool. I guess Sam's hott bakini was too tempting and her started doing some really gross (definetaly innapropriate)(sp?) things. Then, after I slapped him really hard, he managed to surface and take my bathing suit COMPLETELY off. My friends helped cover me up while Sam went and got my bathing suit back. I was the one who had to tell the chaperone... But all I could manange to say was that he was bugging us and dunking us... stuff like that. How do I get over this and how do I make Matt leave us alone for good?
Thats called sexual harassment.
Or harassment, but the fact he grabbed your bathing suit off, would be under sexual harassment. Tell an adult, and report him, because things like this are really serious.
I can definitly understand how that would be really creepy.
But Yeah i highly suggest getting an adult involved, itd be the best.
lately it seems like life is passing me by...
like a feather and i'm letting it blow by, it's summer and im not doing anything with myself.
i mean im hanging out w/my friends & swimming, tanning, playing sports, games & everyting
but it seems like something is missing
im. . . BORED. I love feeling acomplishment & w/out extracuriculears going on its like
im not working for anything or trying or anything
=\ im happy and eveything but what can i do to fufill me? does ANYBODY know how i feel? and how to help??
Volunteer. Its healthy for the body mind and soul. Especially for the soul, and its can be helping elderly people, or just going to some place to serve food for homeless people. Its really rewarding emotionally. :)
Okay, so I'm 18/f and I've never been technically diagnosed with depression, but lately I've lost the will to do like, anything. I had plans with my friends last night and didn't want to go - I went anyway and it was kinda fun, but I still didn't want to be there, and found myself drifting off into my own little world a lot.
The thing is, nothing in my life is really THAT bad right now. I have a few stresses going on, including financial and the all-too-popular body image thing, but still...
I hate feeling this way, especially when people around me have it so much worse. I don't feel that it's right, and I don't like it.
How do you get rid of this feeling?
I used to be able to control my emotions to the point that I just kinda mentally pushed a button and the bad feelings disappeared. I can't do it anymore, though.
I've tried freewriting (which I do a lot and have suddenly lost the want to do), I've tried going out with friends. Nothing seems to help, and I can't afford to feel this way. I work as a waitress and need to be friendly and caring in order to get good tips, and I don't want to smile at all right now.
So yeah...how do you shake this?
Pay attention to your spelling and grammar, please. I'll rate you down if it's wrong.
hi there
Its normal to feel this way when your depressed, well its not normal to be depressed, but if you are depressed its because of an imbalance in your mind, and your serotonin is low.
Being stressed out and the whole body image thing can make you feel down, but dont dwell on that kind of stuff. I know what you mean though.
Try getting all your emotions off your chest, try talking to someone, if you need someone to talk to - feel FREE to IM me on aim, I'm always there to talk to and I lvoe talking to people and helping if I can. My IM is kaylehMae , just say your name and that your from advicentors. I'll be happy to listen and talk to you.
Trust me it feel so much better getting things out and off your chest. Even talking about your day and how it went you know?
Or go talk to a counsular, its not that bad as it sounds its actually very good to get things out of your system to talk to someone.
i'm trying to lose like 15-20 pounds over summer. everday, i'm trying to do 50 push-ups which makes the muscles in my arms grow which get rid of the fat and then for my stomach (which is what i want gone the most) i do 100 reg. sit-ups, and then i do 50 where i lay my legs straight so my legs arent bent and then i put my arms across my chest and do sit-ups like that for my lower abs, and then i do 50 sit-ups on each side for my hips and then i do 100 fast reg situps without going all the way down. yea its a lot but im trying to work it off. and then for my legs i do these lunges we work on in karate (i do that twice a week when im home for summer) and then for my calves i go up on my tip-toes and then back down 50 times trust me it hurts..and now im starting to run up and down my steps 10 times for my legs..and do 50 jumping jacks and run in place for every commercial on TV as fast as i can....anything else i can do for exercising
and then for eating...i'm having one serving of cereal every morning with 1/2 cup 1% milk and then drink milk with that (if you drink milk in the morning it helps with losing weight) and then for lunch i eat 1-2 servings of salad with dressing but we dont have fat free dressing =[ and a 90calorie energy bar. for dinner--thats when im "bad" i never really eat a healthy dinner, my family is too busy we dont have time to cook so we either eat fast food or whatevers microwavable in the house and i dont want to eat salad again..
so my basic question is what can i do to eat more healthy and exercise more so i can lose the weight?
sorry its long and confusing thanks for your time
Well I see your first mistake is your exercising habbits, your doing too much of it. Yeah thats possible, dont over exercise yourself, because most people who do that much, they do it quickly, and you only need to do atlesat 30 slowly, and you have to breathe correctly.
Try googling some good healthy food recipes, and make them everynight before, so you dont have to make them the next day or something like that.
Also the best thing is work on eating healthy, get recipes, and exercise, but remember you need atleast one day of rest where you dont exercise at alll. :)
I'm in love with my best friend. But unfortunatly he is going out with some girl I really don't like. She's the type that will hurt him really bad inside and will leave him for someone else. That is her process. How do I break them up without him knowing I did it on purpose?
Oh and he (best friend) knows im madly in love with him.
f/13
To be honest, dont get involved in any way with anyone else's relationships. Thats a big oopsy! It could leave your bestfriend hating you and never speaking to you again. People in situations like this need to find out the hard way and learn for themselves. You can tell him about what she does, just so he knows, But dont start plotting to break them up.
Because if shes like that, then eventually they will break up, and you can makeyour move.
And breaking them up with out your bestfirned knowing wouldnt be right, your not being honest to him at all, just wait for the time to come, because if the girl hes dating is like you said, they'll break up and you an be with him.
And also your 13, you have an extreamley long long time ahead of you for boys :)
I feel really bad about thi sbecause i know its wrong..butwheneevr my bf Ims or calls me i ignore thecalls or IMs but when i am with him i like him alot. i am so confused. i dont know what i am feeling right now. could this be that i wanna breakup with him? if so how? i mean i love him, but i think because its summer that i want to find new people, but i want to get back together when school starts. but what if he doesnt. IM SO CONFUSED
I;ve had that before, you just dont want to talk to them, but when your with them your crazy about them. But your not being very fair to the guy, so if you really truly dont like him and arent devoted to him, break up. It could be because its summer and you want to meet new people, but you have to evaluate your relationship with him. You cant expect him to want to get back together when school starts, beacuse then it seems to him youur just using him to have a relationshpi during school, you know?
IF he doesnt want to get back together, then thats acceptable. But you have a lot of time to find other guys, and being single isnt bad either. :)
I gained wait over the summer. But not a lot. Only maybe a pound or two. But I feel like my stomach is flabby and I can make it more fit. How do I get a six pack (or somewhat close to it) by september second- when school starts?
f/13
Its not possible to get a six pack from now to september. And also girls bodies were made to have a little extra in the front, for babies, because it gets stretched out from having kids.
But eat healthy and google some exercising routines and workouts. :)
What`s the best thing to use for pimples that actualy works? & that I don`t have to orde.
Facial cleansing pads or astrigents,
clinique is really good.
Or ponds daily pore pads things.
The clinique kit works really well.
Or Clearisil works fantastic to dry them out and takes away the redness.
Or clearisil daily facial wipes.