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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.


My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships


I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age


and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

advice

I am 15 and I will be turning 16 in October. Should I be worried that I haven't had one sign of a period yet?

no i wouldn't worry. my mom didn't get hers until she was 16 1/2. i would say once you start getting closer to 17 or 18 to start getting concerned but not yet!

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Hi! Im 15 and i have an interview for a job working with jewelry. And i have never had a job or have been interviewed before, im so nervious! So a couple questions:
1) What kind of questions are they going to ask me? I'm feeling negative because i have never had a job or Experience, which is important right?
2) I dont have fancy clothes. Just jeans and shirts, you know..what should i do?
3) I was at OzzFest all day today so i'm beet red on my face. What should i do about that?
and last..
4) I have a lip and nose piercing. Should i take them out, and then after the interview ask about the facial piercing policy?

Thanks so much this will determine if i get a job or not, which i really need to help afford school and other things. Thanks again.

What i would do is look at clean cut as you can. I would wear dress pants and a nice shirt with closed toed shoes and take out your piercings.
also maybe put foundation on to cover up some of the sunburn.

if they see you walk in with jeans they prob wont even give you a full interview they will want you out and the piercings will make it even worse

jewlry is something prize alot and they want to go to someone who looks clean cut and profession and who they will know looks like anice trusted person.




with the inteview they will ask you alot of questions about yourself, school, other activities, and how you will fit into their company well

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my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex.

well if you are questioning it obviously you aren't old enough. when youare old enough you will you know it. there won't be any questioning it at all

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Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!

I would wash them. besides the fact that they are going to stink really bad it is harmful to you health. Why do you think people get so sick from raw sewage? its the same deal. just because you wash them doesnt mean you wont have the same feelings when you see them

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okay well I baby sit my neighbors and I love there kids and they are 8 and 7 but ehy pay me like 30 dollars i think it is like way too much but i dont want to say because i like just started baby sitting and they are my only clients being 13 and all i know i started a little late but what ever please help me with the pay problem do you thikn 30 dollars is too much should i set a number of dollars an hour? help me

I don't think thats bad.. a little high maybe but not too much. My sister makes $2 per hour per child and she is your age and at the end of the night she makes about $20 which isnt bad. I would say for your age you are lucky because i only get $7-10 and hour for watch 3 kids under 4 and thats alot harder than what you ahve because they are self suffient. if you dont like making that much spend some money taking them on a trip to the pool or an early movie

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I'm about 5'5" and fourteen years old and I really want to be an abercrombie kids model because I think it would be fun and I really love abercrombie. Does anyone think I would make it? Visit www.myspace.com/xoxokelli to see pics. I just got my braces off so that should help I think. Hah.

I think you are a pretty photogenic girl. You chances are very slim though of getting that kind of chance. Most of those girls have been modeling for years and years. i would say get an agent and see what they can do for you. just watch out for modeling scams. and if all else fails email abercrombie a nice clean face shot and a full body shot (and go for looking nice, not sexy)

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Okay, well Im 14 and Im a really talented singer and whenever I turn on the TV I see people around my age, like Cheyenne Kimball and Brooke Hogan who are getting record deals and I dont think its fair that there are so many people who are more talented than them that arent getting a chance. So, my question is how to I get famous like them?

You need to follow cheyennes journey. she didnt just get famous. she entered a contest (most talented kid) and won, got an agent and tried to get gigs wherever she could


your first step is an agent and then get invloved in as many chiors and contests as you can

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Which one is better? I'd like a decent response, so no one word answers or just saying the name. Say why. Also, which one is less likely to give you a virus. Thanks :D...

I would say Limewire

I have never used bearshare but i have used limewire for several years now and i love it. I have never gotten a virus from it and i download songs very regularly. I've heard you can get viruses from the games on there but i only use the music.

as to answer the answer below me they are both illegal but they can only prosecute you if you share music and there is a way to stop from sharing on limewire to keep from getting "busted"

hope i helped!

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if you suck a guys penis who is a virgin could you get a std??

Well just because hes a virgin doesnt mean he doesnt have an std.. stds can be passed from mother to child during childbirth

but your chances are low

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Me (16/f) and my boyfriend (20/m) have recently started fooling around n stuff and the other day when he was figering my and i gave him a hand job and we were doing that n he just all of a sudden pulled "it" away and put "it" back in his pants. i dont know why though...any thoughts as to why he would do this?????

Well to add something to the girl who gave you the first answer there is nothing illegal about this well in most states if not all.

I would guess he thinks he is going to far? or maybe he is embarrased by something. If he wasn't ashamed of something I am not sure why he would stop because that is most guys fantasy

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If one was really thin and then put on weight, could she increase her cup size?

Yes and no

your boobs do grow yes but they get saggier and more fat. not nec. a good kind of bigger.

like you know those gross fat men at the pool with man boobs


thats sorta what will happen

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Well my dad died a few years back, and my mom has been depressed and lonely ever since. She tells me all the time that it's hopeless for her to find a single guy her age anymore (45, but she doesn't near look it). Just last night she said to me, 'Honey, I'm lonely,'. And it broke my heart, because she loved my dad, but she hasn't found anyone. She has tried online dating and that wasn't her thing. What are some of your ideas for my mom to meet men? Thank you so much for your help!

What about a singles dance. i know they sound like they are for losers and a lady i work with who is in her late 30s goes all the time and she says she loves it even if she doesn't get a boyfriend out of it. most churches have them along with hotels and what not. Maybe she can look in the paper? i know my local paper has listings like that in them

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hi..i want to know exactly how they give you brithcontrol...if i would for example go to the doctor what would i have to get done to get it...blood tests or pap smear????i heard you dont need to get a pap smear until you start having sex...i havent yet but i am planning to and i want to get birth control..
help me please

It all depends on where you go and your reasons for wanting it. some doctors may want you to get the all clear from the gyno others do not. Before you go on birth control changes are they will check out your period and if its not reg they will try to determine why first

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what does it mean if i have stretchmarks on my boobs? does it mean they are growing because lately they have seem to get a little bigger..

That Means they are growing faster than your body can take basically. The same reason that pregnant women get strech marks. There isnt anything to worry about though

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Hi, i have pink eye and i was wondering if it's normal to have like crust around your eye and on your eye lashes when you have it? Thanks in advance. ♥

Yes that is one of the main signs of of pink eye. Its kinds kinda clear or real light colored you are alright but if its a darker yellow or green then you have a more severe case

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Hey iam 17 and my breasts are a 38 b and since my breasts probally don't stop growing until iam 18-20 are my breasts going to be real big?Iam nervous becouse my mom is a triple d and my sister is a d and my other sister is a 36 c somewhere around there.

I would say you have nothing to worry about. Your main growing occurs in your early teens and by now you are basically done. I wouldnt expect you to get any bigger than a C right now.

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My parents blame me for everything.
Our cell phone bill was high, it wasn't my brothers' faults, it was automaticly mine.
My friend stole my camera before she moved, and has even told people, but it's still my fault its gone.
Its my fault my family has big money problems.
Its my fault my mom is fat.

I`m just a 13yr old girl, sometimes my parents can be so cool, but they`ll just snap and all the sudden I`m the target of their anger! What should I do?

I think you should let them go and try not to let it get to you. I mean i can see why they target you. Teenage girls often go over their phone mins. and you could have gotten your camera back by calling your friends parents or what not. And teen girls often do strain on parents funds.. and trust me i would know


just try to ignore them. They are under just as much stress as they are puttin you under and they truely dont mean to make you feel bad. They just need to blow steam. Being a teen girl especially at your age is hard on everyone with hormones racing. What i would do is try to help your parents out and show them you don't mean harm and maybe next time they will think before you act. Maybe Cut back on your phone mins and use them only when you have free ones and maybe go walking with your mom in the park to help her lose weight!

For things to be better both sides need to be working together!

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well, i have an ash blonde hair color. it's blonde but it has like this touch of ash and it's a very uncommon haircolor. like not that many people have it. I LOVE MY HAIR! but, recently i just was wondering what i would look like as a brunet. like, a light brown/medium brown hair? but, i'm afraid to use hair dye because what if i never get my ash blonde back? is there anything i can use that won't harm my hair as much.l i hear celophane might work and henna. but, i wanted to get the opinion of others before i went ahead and did it because i
just want to see how i look like with brown hair, i want my blonde hair back after

I am guessing your hair is natural. Well i would try a temp. Hair color. Most last about 8 washing max and can give you a preview to what your hair will look like. Also most of the time if you dye it brown it will turn blonde again because of fading within a week or two. Thats what happen to my sister anyways

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Iam 17 years old and my breasts are still growning is this normal?

Yes.. that is the last thing to stop growing during puberty (along with your spine). most peoples are done growing anywhere from the age 18 even into their 20s

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I'm getting my nose peirced in like 2 weeks; after that I want my septum peirced. My mom says no but I think I'll do it anyway. Will it be easy to hide? Should I get it done with my nose peirced ; like would it be to much jewelery in one area? Or should I just convince my mom to just let me get septum peirced instead?

I think 2 piercings in the same place might be too much. i would either do just the septum or get your nose doubled peirced (on the same side) that looks really need

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