about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

How do you get music to play on your advice column?
I rate 5's for answers that help!

-soccurboi48-

Try putting a video code in it. Go to www.musicvideocodes.com If you dont know where to put the code go to Profile Settings and put it there. X0`

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HOw do you guyz straighten the back. I've tried pinning half up, but its hard. Plus, my dad is the only one home, so getting help is not an option. Can you give me some tips??

Thanks in advance!

Do it in 3 sections. Take a little bit on the bottom and straighten that. Its really not that hard. Then do the middle and thent he top. By sections its easier to straigthen hair. X0`

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I have been dancing for 11 years. I am 13 years old. I want to maybe go further with my dancing ... like be in shows or something. Also, How do you get to be in a music video or something like that? LoVe, Tina

You could sign up for aditions and stuff. Getting into music vedios will probablly be kind of hard if you dont like in LA and stuff but try out for a lot of dance shows. If I know any you could try out for I'll let you know. X0`

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Hi everyone so the problem is i have this friend and shes really nice but i cant STAND her, shes soooo clingy, but i cant tell her that because she will be all mad and bitchy. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! thanks bye -krodehtyllek

You could tell her but in a really nice way. If she was a really good friend she wouldnt get mad at you. Tell her you need some space between you guys.

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i am 13, and i got a boyfreind about a month ago. he was fun 2 talk to. lately, all he wants to do is kiss...and he is a bad kisser! he goes to private school, and is a year younger. i still like him, but it's sorta getting awkward for me. plz give me advice. i rate 5's if u give good advice.
-thanks

Hmm.. Most people wouldnt complain about this but if you dont want to kiss all the time tell him that you dont want to feel pressured to. He will understand.

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I have this really close guy friend and we tell each other everything. I started liking him a while ago and he felt the same way. He asked me out and I said yes. We haven;t been going out that long, but for some reason it's so weird for me and I almost feel annoyed with him. He's such a sweetheart and hasn't done anything wrong. I am just feeling weird about the whole thing. What do you think is wrong? Should we just be friends since its really weird, or should I give the relationship a chance?Thx.

You should give this relationship a chance. Give it a month or 2. If you still feel the same way then just be friends with him. You are just really close to him so thats why you feel like that. In a while you will relize that you really like him and that hes your boyfriend. X0`

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I've been liking this guy at school. He's been giving me many compliments & flattering me lately. He's been asking to hook up in school several times and I really do want to, but when it comes down to it and we're finally alone in school, I freak out and stop myself. I've waited so long for that kind of moment with him too. We'd be perfect together but I'm just scared someone will see us, I'll look slutty and he won't respect me because we don't go out. Should I just finally do it or forget the kiss? (16/F)

You should do it! It wont make you look slutty ju because you arent going out with him. If he wants to hook up and you like him then just hook up! L0L. Just kiss him the next time or something because you dont want him think that you arent into him! X0`

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i am the same person that wrote witch/devil with the thoughts in my head. well kately i have thought about it a lot and all that, well in class i kind of fell asleep and i was aware that i had my eyes closed and all that, anyway i had a weirdish dream and it was a dream that the devil was dragging this guy i have never seen before in my life under the bed and killed him. this woke me right up but i hnever had a dream like that and now all i can think about is that dream and that guy i didn't even know and the fact that i might be a satanist what should i think about instead of this?

Hmm.. thats an odd dream. But its only a dream. It might not mean anything tho. It just makes you relize how bad the devil can really be and how you should never try to do anything to hurt anyone. Always do the best of people and think good things so you dont have to think about the devil or anything like that. X0`

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Do you guys think it's okay to think that no matter what you do to me, if you apologize and are sincere about it, I will forgive you. That's how I've always been. I just feel that it take courage to apologize to someone after you've hurt them and if you do do it then you are truly sorry. I know sometimes people just throw around the "I'm sorry's" but most don't. Everyone makes mistakes (I know I do) and they need to be forgiven. What do you guys think of that?

I think that some people deserve to have a second chance but that all depends on what the person has done. I also think that everyone should forgive because you cant staymad forever. You are right tho! Good point. X0`

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does having sex in a pool lessen your chances or getting pregnant?

No, but have fun doing it tho!! It will be kind of hard but good luck! X0`

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me and my friend want to do a duet for solo tryouts. but we dont hav a song. can you plz give me a few ideas????. thx

~natalie and hannah~

that was my question. how do i do a song for a DUET by doing a song by like avril and jessica??? i need a duet song. not a solo

o0 Sorry.. how bout you do the song My Boo by Alicia Keys and Usher? And my Jessica there is a song with her and Nick so I dont know if you would like that. X0`

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there these popular ppl and i wanna be like them what should i do??????????????/

You cant just want to be like some people. You are who you are but you could just hang out with them tho! X0`

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me and my friend want to do a duet for solo tryouts. but we dont hav a song. can you plz give me a few ideas????. thx

~natalie and hannah~

Avril Lavigne,Hillary Duff, Jessica & Ashlee Simpson,Jesse McCartney,Brittany Spears.. X0`

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Ok,i have this friend,we'll call her ...Jenna. Well Jenna and i are "friends" but the problem is when ever i become friends with another person,she jumps all over them and they like her better. She dosent let me have one friend to myself and i get sort of mad by that. What should i do?

You could eather tell her thats its bothering you or you could just share your friends. You really cant have a friend all to your self. Its better if both of you are friends with her/him. Go out and do stuff with all of your friends and you wont worry about getting mad or anything! X0`

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I was with my girlfriend for 2 years when she got pregnant. It wasn't a planned pregnancy but we decided that we would deal with it. The first week that she brought that baby home things were good. We got a little apartment and I was working full time during the day and she would work a couple hours at night just until I could support us with only my job. Well one day I got home from work and she was gone. She left a note saying that she wasn't ready for a child and that she's leaving our daughter with me. It's been a week since then. I've been doing the best I can but I don't know the first thing about being a parent and I have no one to ask about it. I grew up in foster homes my whole life. I love my little girl to death but I just don't know what to do anymore. She doesn't stop crying. I've tried feeding her, changing her, rocking her, everything that I can think and she keeps crying. I brought her to the doctor and he said that there is nothing physically wrong wtih her. I don't know what to do. If anyone has idea of what could be causing this please let me know. I would also appreciate it if any one knows anything about taking care of a 3 week old baby. Please help me.

Jack

Aww!! Well I know why she is crying... the baby misses her mother. She needs her so thats why she wont stop crying. She will keep crying and crying but there is really nothing that you can do to make her stop becuse she will always miss her. Its good that you are taking care of her. How could she do that to you and the baby! I really dont know how you can take care of a 3 week old baby , but you have to show her that you are her father. You love that baby no matter what! Play with her and do anything like a father would. When she grows up a little it will be a little easier on you! I wish ya the best of luck! X0`

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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
thanx

You need to comfort her and help her get through this. When she has this baby be there for her. Let her know tht whatever she needs that you are willing to help her out. Love her and dont ever stop being best friends with her! Tell her that everything will be okay and that you will always have her back! X0`

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i g2 bms scool an i like diz grl but i don wanna ask her out cuz shez ben 1 uv mi bes frenz since da beginnin uv da skoll year i don no if she likez me da way i like her wtf shud i do??????

Does she know that you like her? She might like you too, so I think that you should ask her out! If you guys ever end up breaking up or anything you can still be as close friends tho! X0`

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Hey i am trying to decide if my advice column is okay! Could you guyz go to Soccurboi48 and tell me if it looks alright! I rate fives!!!

Cody

I like it! I like your advice too. You get right to the point and its sweet too! X0`

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UGH im about to go crazy this one girl form my school ok wow she got a cell and she wont freakin shut up about it I mean people told she she goes on and effin on I told she to stop but Its not working ITS A DAMN CELL but she doesnt understand!

Haha! I hate when people brag like that! Ignore her tho! Be like omg really? Awesome! Look I got one too!!!!! Mine is so cute.. she does that on purpose so do it back! Hehe! Love ya! X0`

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This might be a little long since I'm giveing you background info.

Ok, This girl named Dee (fake name) needed a friend at the time. I decided to take that role in her life. Every day there would be something new, example: "I hate my life", "Nobody likes me", "My stepmom did ______________ and made me __________". And it never ends!

So one day I decide to break the fake friendship tie that I had set up. And I went through with it. The thing is that she keeps coming back. She tries to be nice to me, says a perky "Hi!" everyday. The reason she does that is because she thinks she can fix it, but its way to late for that.

My question is: What can I do so that I have no kind of contact with her?

My opinion.. I think it was really bitchy to do that to her in the first place. You wanted to be nice so you were. You were her friend for a little bit. But you shouldnt of even tried being friends with her if you were just gonna drop her in the end. You should of talked to this girl about what she was doing wrong and maybe she would of stopped. If you really dont want to be friends with her tell her. Just tell her what you did. Tell her that you wanted to be friends with her so she doesnt feel left out!! If she gets her feelings hurt that sucks but its one of the ways to get rid of her. Or you could just tell her nicely that you dont want to be friends and for her to just leave you alone. She will get the point! X0`

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