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♥[?]♥ Can you give yourself a orgasm without popping your cherry?

Most definitely!!! And not all orgasms aRe clitoRal, ya know! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.

The best way to get oveR someone is to find someone new. FoRget about this loseR.. he's not woRth a single second of youR time. Don't even botheR to talk to him. ConcentRate on otheR fRiends, school family and such. If theRe is a guy at school you like, tRy getting close to him... that'll do you a woRld of good!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom?

PeRhaps it would be best. That way she can set you up with some of the best RazoRs and cReme/gel, oR even an electRic RazoR! Hope I helped!

♥[?]♥ This is gross. I had a baby in January, and I haven't nursed her since March or April, but I'm still lactating. Is there anything to do to make it stop, or at least slow down?

Oh, Gosh.. to be honest, I have nooo idea! I've neveR had a baby, noR have I known someone who has expeRienced this pRoblem. The only thing I can suggest is to see youR doctoR. SoRRie I can't be of moRe help, but I DO wish you the veRy best!! =D

♥[?]♥ what does "pops the cherry" mean?

FiRst off, a "cheRRy" is a thin piece of skin located on the inneR-side the of the female 'pRivate paRt'. GeneRally, it "bReaks" on contact. "CheRRy" is the moRe common [slang] woRd foR "Hymen". A "cheRRy pops" when the Hymen becomes intact, oR Rips basically; this can happen seveRal ways : mastuRbation, inseRting tampons, playing spoRts and so on. Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.

I've always known it to be: FIRST-Kissing. SECOND-Mutual MastuRbation [Handjobs/FingeRing]. THIRD-ORal Sex. HOME-Sexual InteRcouRse. Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ ok so i like this guy and he likes me but we arent going out. so he tells me he loves me and i say it back, and it becomes a regular thing. so then today, hes leaving and i say i love you and he doesnt say it back. i want to talk to him about it but i dont want to come right out and say why didnt you say i love you too like you always do...any ideas to hint to him?
thanks

I say don't beat aRound the bush. If theRe's something on youR mind I think you should come Right out and say it, that way theRe's no confusion on the subject of topic. Be bold; you can do it!! Hope I helped! =D

♥[?]♥ When a guy fingers you (I have lots of questions about it). Does it hurt or will you bleed? and should we make out at the same time..just, what happens and how does it feel and do guys like it when your wet and..well what should I do to make it the best for him too?
And what exactly is an orgasm.
I rate good.
PLEASE HELP!

Uhm, sometimes it MAY huRt. He could be going to fast oR too haRd. If it does huRt, just tell him to take things a little sloweR! FoR some giRls it bleeds.. yes.. but not foR all. And should you make out at the same time.... uhm, peRhaps?? Just go with the flow! It'll happen natuRally! And yeah, guys geneRally DO like it when you'Re "wet", because it lets them know that you aRe, infact, sexually excited, and then they feel like they caused it and it makes them feel studly. And an oRgasm is the peak of sexual excitement.. kinda haRd to explain that, but heRe ya go.. a dictionaRy's definition : "an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female" TheRe ya go! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u

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boy in denile

Aww!! That's so sweet of you!! Aww; that Really IS cute!! Gosh, I'd N.E.V.E.R be lucky enough to have someone like me THAT much. I'm willing to bet that whateveR guy she is with... he's not even *H.A.L.F*T.H.E*M.A.N* you aRe!!!. You seem to be a veRy consideRate and kind peRson. And fRankly, it sounds like it's moRe of HER loss than youRs, by faR!! I say if she's going to ignoRe you and play immatuRe games.. then she's not woRth youR time anyhow!! I wouldn't woRRie about it... I'm shoRe a teRRific guy like you won't be single foR long! Just keep youR head up, and push foRwaRd!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!!! Hope I helped!!! =D

♥[?]♥ hey i need help. i like this guy, but only as a friend with benifets and i said a joke and it made him mad and now he wont talk to me. please help!!

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I would just tell him you'Re kidding. If he's such a gReat fRiend.. he'll eitheR undeRstand, oR come aRound eventually. Goodluck. Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ I think i am a pretty cute girl,i have a great personality, and all of my friends love me. i just can not seem to get the attention of the guy i like. we are friends but i like him more than friends. i just dont know how to let him know i like him without messing up our friendship. what can i do to let him know in suttle ways that i like him?

I think I would just say it - that way I get all of my emotions and thoughts out, and hopefully theRe is no misundeRstandings. PeRhaps he's feeling the same way, and when he sees that you aRe bold enough to just come Right out with it and make the fiRst move, he may RetuRn similaR feelings! Be bold - you can do it! Hope I helped!! Best wishes!! =D

♥[?]♥ ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors

- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black

p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL

Anggie

Well, I'm not shoRe if you'd be open to it, but they DO have glow in the daRk paint. HoweveR, I've only seen it in ONE coloR.. Salmon, which, if you don't know, is a funky coloR Resmbling pink. PeRhaps it could be cute if you did that, and then painted butteRflies oR faeRies on youR wall in a diffeRent coloR.. so theiR image would appeaR in lit up Room. I don't know.. just a suggestion. Goodluck deciding! I'm shoRe whateveR you do will look gReat!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ Heyy...i want to wear a lil makeup its lite but im in 7th grade and my mom wont let me wear it out of the house.....should i just not wear it ask her or just wear a lil lipstick?

Well, I Really don't encouRage disobeying youR MotheR.. but if it's EXTREMELY impoRtant to you.. you could always put it on at school. OR if you don't want to disobey heR [which is pRobably best], ask heR if she'll settle with some lipstick eveRy now and then! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

Uhm, well ya pRobably shouldn't have made out with his best fRiend, foR staRteRs, but what's done is done, I suppose. HoweveR, I say if the Relationship is no longeR enjoyable, what's the sense in caRRying it out??? Just tell him you feel like you'Re dRifting apaRt, and you'd like to go out and expeRience new things. Goodluck!! Hope this helps!! =D

♥[?]♥ I am starting college in September, seeing I will be meeting a whole bunch of new people and not knowing that many of them. Any ideas of how I can get a lot of friends?

Just always be polite and fRiendly. If you see fellow students in the way to class, oR at some local hang out, don't be afRaid to say hello. Also, [this something I a.l.w.a.y.s make a point of doing] if you happen to see someone who is lost oR alittle scaRed, go up to 'em and offeR youR seRvices - I find this a shoRefiRe way to make fRiends!! Also, I've noticed that it's always gives me a waRm feeling when people intRoduce themselves to me, and offeR a handshake. I think that is *B.Y*F.A.R* the *V.E.R.Y*B.E.S.T* fiRst impRession you can make!! Don't sweat it; I'm shoRe you'll be fine!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hopefully I've been of some help!! Take caRe!! =D

♥[?]♥ Wow im so sorry in advanced for this being so so long!But i think i really need to tell someone.Ok here it goes.Im 16 and I've only had sex once.I have never been fingered or eaten out.Anyways i was at school and my math class teacher said he could tutor me.I thought he was a nice guy so i said ok thanks.He invited me to his house on last saturday morning to study.I agreed and drove to his house.Once i got in he decided to show me around his house.When we got to the bedroom he said "so what do you want...to do?".He moved up closer to me and our bodies were touching.I said uhm I think we should study now.He pushed me on the bed and said ok lets study.He handcuffed my hands and legs to the bed and put layers of ducktape on my mouth.I tried to get out but it was impossible!Then he took off his clothes and cut off mine.Then he fingered me and gave me my 2nd orgasm which was incredible.Then he ate me out and then he had sex with me.Then after about 2 hours(im guessing) of this going on he uncuffed me and took the ducktape off.I should have ran but i didn't.I stayed and we 69ed and alot mroe.It felt so good.I dont think i could have had more orgasms in one day.Around 6'o clock PM he let me go because someone might have worried about me.He invited me to "study" with him again.I said yes so he would let me go.On Monday when i went back to school and math class he kissed me in front of EVERYONE!!Then what made it even worse was i had a orgasm in his class.Im supposed to go to his house to spend the night with him tonight at 6.What should i do because i think i liked it.I need help FAST!!His coming in about a hour!

Uhm, oh gosh. In the time it took me to Read youR ENTIRE question.. night has alReady come and gone... THREE TIMES!! And to be honest, this question seems soooo suRReal I'm doubting if this is a "Real" pRoblem oR not. But I know theRe is a possibility that it MAY be tRue, so I'm going to tReat it as if it is. Shall we begin? K, so this was youR teacheR.. bottom line.. that's Rape; and if I weRe you.. I'd DEFINTELY get his ass foR that!! I suppose I can *kind of* see how you might have liked it. It CAN be exciting being dominated like that, and if it's a moRe expeRience man, it's even moRe exciting. And also the fact that he is a teacheR and a tRusted figuRe in youR life, but he has sick mindedly, not to mention illegaly, invaded youR peRsonal space... I suppose that could add in some excitement?? Well "exciting" oR not.. it's illegal, and you Really should NOT let him get away with it!! You need to imfoRm youR paRents, oR a tRusted adult, so you can take legal action heRe. What he's doing is obviously wRong, and you need to make absolutely shoRe that you DO NOT play any moRe of a Role in his wRong-doings than you alReady have. PeRhaps you did enjoy it to some ceRtain degRee, but I know you weRe upset by it - anyone would be. Don't let that happen to somebody else. And anotheR thing which confuses me, and even makes me think this may be a bogus question : if kids in youR class saw him kiss you.. why didn't they RepoRt it????? By Reading my answeR you know you should DEFINTELY NOT go see him tonight... [figuRed I'd thRow that in incase you didn't catch on] Hun, Really.. DON'T be afRaid to do something about this... you have to do the Right thing!! Just be bRave and keep youR head up! I wish you the VERY BEST of luck!! I hope eveRything woRks out. And hopefully I've been of some help heRe. Feel fRee to come back to me WHENEVER you need something; anything!! [AiM: SiMPLY x GiRL] Take caRe!! =D

♥[?]♥ my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?

Yikes!! That's gRoss!! I'm soo soRRie!! My heaRt bleeds foR ya, Kidd-o. That Really is quite unpleasant! Uhm, I would say let it slide this once. HoweveR, if you notice it's becomming a fRequent thing, I'd speak up about it. Tell 'eR you don't appReciate the sound effects, and you'd pRefeR that if she must play aRound inside YOUR home.. to do it at a time when you'Re not home to eavesdRop!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ okay im not fator anything..im only 105 BUT like my stomach is so weird looking like its thin and tight then like rigt under my belly button theres this huge buldge..i hate it..how do i get rid of this? cuz like it looks so nasty its like all skinny then BAM this buldge/roll thing under my belly button..HELP!

I know people say this all of the time, and I'm shoRe you've Read it befoRe, and I'm soRRie to thRow it atcha again, but foR THAT... I Really WOULD Reccomend cRunches!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped?

It vaRies fRom peRson to peRson. Some giRls may expeReince veRy miminal bleeding, otheRs none.. oR some aRe coveRed in it. It Really DOES just depend! Hope I helped!! =D

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