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I am having an affair with a wonderful man and the sex is the best I've ever had. We both agree it's as if our bodies were made for each other. There is no issue with getting him hard - the minute we're in the same room together I can tell how "excited" he becomes! Our issue is that he can go for hours without losing his erection and I cum over and over again. While this may sound amazing, it's frustrating because we wear out and the only way he has an orgasm is by masturbating himself. He said it's been like this with every woman. He's not on medication and is healthy. How can I stimulate him to cum inside me? What's wrong? (link)
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thats really harsh wat that person wrote..dont worry if it helps im not judging you.do what makes you happy and dont listen to anyone else
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19 yrs old/female.
my best guy friend and his girlfriend of almost 3 years broke it off about a month ago or so. i feel so bad for him though because he want's to have fun, live the single life with no worries. but everytime a girl gets close to him or hangs out with him, his ex girlfriend FREAKS out on the girl.
and one time me and him were watching the movie obsessed with beyonce in it and he was like now you know what i have to go through! and i feel so bad for him because he doesnt have a mean body in his bone and for him to be like "hey listen, we're just friends, i can hang out with who i want" or something of that is something he would never do.
how can i help him? can i even? i feel so bad for him! (link)
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its really mean the way shes treating him..why did they break up?sounds like shes still inlove with him and sounds like hes still inlove with her and under her spell. she needs to know that shes hurting him like this! watever you do dont get invloved because shell manipulate him to stop liking you then your friendship will be broken. thats how it starts!..you need to talk to him and try and make him snap out of her brainwash..whats happening will only ruin him moving on is the best way. tell him how you feel and just let him know that your not attacjking him or want to pick a fight you just care for him and his feelings. dont tell him what to do just suggest it and be really understanding because he probibly wants you to understand him rather than try and make him stop listening to his ex..he probibly doesnt want to let go of her just yet so before you talk to him makesure hes still not hung up on her too much
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15/F. So the guy I am dating right now is my first boyfriend. He's sixteen, almost seventeen by the way and we've been dating for four months. Before we started dating I had no experience what so ever, like, I had never even kissed before. He on the other hand, has gone pretty far... Well he's pretty understanding about that, that I want to take it slow, and that its all really new to me but sometimes I feel like he gets a little frustrated. Because I mean, he is almsot seventeen and he's done a lot of stuff... haha... and I tense up every time things start going southern, but I do try, and he knows I do, and I think he trys really hard not to let me see how much he wants to take things further, but I'm pretty observant and I can pick up on it. Like what his body does, things he can't control whenever I stop him. I just feel bad kind of though. I mean, I want to make him happy in that way becuase every other part of our relationship is perfect but I feel like I don't satisfy him... and I don't know...Should I just get over this and start letting things move forward? I think he wants an HJ but I have no clue how to even try to do that... I think I want to start taking things furhter, I just don't know, and I don't know how. (link)
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awwww you sound soo sweet!i luv how you say things are just perfect between you two.im really happy for you..if you really really like him then just go for it, dont talk to him about it just do it. like when your hooking up start stroking him down there and stuff, start slow. dont do anything until your very very sure your ready. and with HJ all you need to do is unjip his pants and stroke it then he should just lead you into doing what he wants you to do...itll just happen once you give him the green light in the intimate moment
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i hav a 16 yrold daughter who has been living with me for 2 mth,and she tells me last nite she is 5 months preg.she is a below average student,with out a plan for the future.she wants to keep the baby and i am against it,i have told her my reason.i also told her she cant live with me with a baby.was i to hard on her? (link)
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heyy!..if your daughter is 5 months pregnant then its too late for an abortion and even if she had one it will mentally ruin her. i think she also knows that shes too young for a baby and didnt do this on pupose but she wants to bring something of her own into this life and by telling you it means she wnats you to be there for her, she wants the grandmother of her child to be there for the altra sounds, labour, first baby steps. think of it as a good thing not a bad thing. its happened and shes going to have the baby either way it may aswell be around you where you know how shes doing. shes family and we stick by our family through the tuff and the worse. i guess shes got to learn by her experiences that life isnt going to be easy for her and a baby is a responsibility. you a really great mum to ask for advice, most mums wouldnt do that so i respect you alot and good luck
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i've always wondered if getting a brazillian wax and like bikini waxes and stuff was weird? Haha, like they're all up in your business and what if you have discharge and stuff, is it me or does anyone find that getting these types of waxes is a bit personal? lol (link)
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LOL hahahaha this is a funny question brings back memories..i was exactly like that!i thought the lady would think i was hairy like i was ashamed shed compare me to her other clients lol but im the adventurous type and i went and got it done..i must say it was worth it!sure itll hurt abit but seriously the lady makes it seem normal shell talk to you about your life and shes done it amillion times so she doesnt mind trust me it looks and feels so much better after
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its the first time i have met her today, we both seem'd reluctant to talk to eachother at first but we kept glancing at eachother across the store then looking back with a near embarressed feeling. I think i have a small crush but i have got to get to know her better shes absolutl'y beautiful.
normally i dont fall for people so easily but theres somthing about her, the way she moves, the way she looks at you... but unlike normall i didnt feel shy to talk to her i didnt have to act up a little bit like i normally do to make myself feel comfortable. anyways..
She kept glancing at me and looking away almost instantly but we kept on doing this for most of the morning, is there some teensey possibility that she could be at all interested? or think im cute? or somthing like that, or she could just think im a propper wierdo :P
i will add now that i dont even know if she's allready taken... and i wouldnt be surprised if she was, good on the guy who has her though. (link)
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you sound like such a sweety!ok well she sounds like she abit tad shy..and by the sounds of things it sounds liek she thinks your cute but doesnt want to seem like shes starring at you.just incase im wrong which i hope im not i would ask you to get to know her like try talking to her and smiling at her.ask what her name is to begin with!then see if you two actually click because theres no point liking her looks and not her personality!goo for it whatr you waiting forrrr!hehe hope it helped
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i am 13 an latley i have been watchin alot of shows on the t.v about pregnancy it sounds strange i no but i would really like a baby now but i wouldnt if you no wot i mean i wouldnt wont one as i am 13 and still live with mom but i would because it would make me feel like i had something of my own to love i dont wont to tell my mom this because im scared she will just have ago at me and wont understand (link)
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heyy..alright so you want to get pregnant?before doing that you need to understand that there is a high chance of you dying because your body will not be able to handle child labour and all that pain.imgaine you got pregnant at this age and you died in labour!your baby would have no mother and you wouldnt get to have the baby youve always wanted...most of us girls want children its our nature to want to be a mother, to want to have soemthing to love, have soemthing that is a piece of us. but eventhough, life is tough and your just not old enough to be a mother yet.wait a few more years.i know you may think i dont understand but i do.iv wanted a baby since i can remember its gotten so bad that everytime i see a child/baby near me everything around it become a blur, its just me and the baby.please dont try having any babies just yet..its not all fun and games babies are a big responsibility and not to mention they are very expensive,live your life first.your lucky because you have a choice to have fun and live your life but some people never got that choice a baby can really change your life and if your unable to care for the child then it can change your life for the worse
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my friend is suffering from anorexia. she used to be bulimic and then recovered, but about 5 or 6 months ago it came about that she was anorexic again. her parents are aware and she is in counselling with a psychiatrist for it. thing is she has made herself sick 3 times now that i am aware of (but i think it is more) and neither her parents or psychiatrist are aware of this. she only eats up to 200 calories a day, and constantly exercises, and lies about her weight to me too. im not sure what to do anymore. (link)
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im really sorry about your friend..its really sad.anorexia is something that is very hard to over come. does she see herself as being fat?i cnt imagine how it makes you feel.ofcourse, it must be very hard for you. There are rehab facilities that she can go to if counselling isnt working or she can join a support group because soemtimes its good for her to be around people she can relate to. she must feel alone or she may feel misrable after she eats or if she doesnt work out but there are people that feel the same thing and if she joins a support group they can be the thing to boost her conficence.
Mostly she need you to be with her through this..i would say that you need to be thorough with her and be strict.if shes not eating well enough then get angry about it let her know that shes hurting you because you care so much for her and you dont want to ever see her disolve. she needs your support the most just be strong and be there for her but also be fair and dont let her test you or let her get out of line!
i wish you all the best
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On March 10, 2008, Nathan Alan Morgan, 25, was murdered at Venice Beach CA. His killer is still loose. An undevelped disposable camera was found in his hotel room. It was sent to his parents, who had the pictures developed. They are posted here: nathan-alan-morgan.com. There are pictures of Nathan and friends in a white limo. It has been suggested that one in a white hat is Eminem. Those pictures were made in Los Vegas. Would everyone please look at the pictures and tell me if you think it is Eminem, or just someone who looks like him. We need answers. Please help if you can. There is a contact page on the website. Thanks for your time. (link)
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Thank you sooo much for replying back to me!
i know you would understand how much i want this murderer to be found because im sure you want him to be found amillion times more. Dont listen to the police, i think those photos are cruicial evidence! if theres anything i can do at all let me know..stay strong..and have hope.
His friend stepped infront of a train!!!!whyyyy!ohhh nooo if he was going to kill himself he should of told you what he knew. if he did know something he would of felt alot better. keep inmind that he may of knew nothing and just couldnt take the pain of his friend murdered. maybe he blames himself thinking he could of stopped it.
I just cant believe how people could be soo violent..were they on drugs???what kind of worl do we live in!ill pray you find those bastards!
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Hi,
I am a 17f. Theres this guy I met and have known for several months. He is 18 and he is the absolute sweetest guy ever, which is why I like him. We have hung out a few nights and cuddled a little. The problem is, I know he has another girl that he feels strongly for. He told me about her and hes told me he loves me, but its not the same love that he has for this other girl. Then he tells me later that he just loves me. He also said he wants to kiss me to see if theres 'a spark', I didnt think that would be right so I didnt let him. I dont want to get closer to him, expecially knowing he has another girl. Everyone thinks we are dating and I keep telling them NO WE ARE NOT. I think I really like him, Im just unsure. I think hes unsure as well. He makes me feel like I have never felt before, but I can't help but think that he will end up ditching me or I might find someone better.. you know? I told him we should just be friends..deep inside I want it to be more;I am sure he does too but..yeah. I have never dated before, cuz all the other guys I know are losers and just want sex. I want it to be right. I am not the kind of girl that dates just anybody for the hell of it. Please tell me what you think, Just be friends or.. ? (link)
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your just like me, doesnt just date anybody and if this was me i wouldnt date him..i mean he has another girl on the other side so hes pretty much playing both of you.hes manipulating you to think he likes you, maybe he does but who know maybe you two get together and another girl comes along that he likes hell do the samething he did to you to another girl while being with you..think of the other girl hes with dont be the other woman its not fair on her..even if he breaks up with her or lets her go shell still try get him back and hell still wanna be with her especially when he sees her with another guy..i say dont do it but thats only me and my opinion
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i got fingered for the first time and at certain points it kind of hurt..like i was telling him what i liked but i kept getting tense and shaky and it hurt a little bit...i use tampons too soo i don't get it...oh and do you think my cherrys popped now? i didn't bleed when he fingered me but i could have bled when i had my period so i wouldnt have known....thankkss. (link)
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he would have probibly damaged it abit..the reason why it hurt could be becuase you werent wet enough or he used more than one finger and tried to force it up there..the more wet/lubed you are the less it hurts :)
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I just posted a question asking how I can get my hair like amy's on the cover on "fallen" and I meant to ask you, but I accidently sent it out to everyone. Typr in evanescence mystery if you don't know. (link)
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if its the same cover iv seen its kinda hard to tell because its a mug shot doesnt really show you her full hair..she got it pined to the side her hair has a messy layer to it and shes got random bits of thin plats. Shes also got dreds in her hair that youd need to go to a hair dresser to get them done..theyr not the corn dreds they like the bunched up hair dreds dont no what theyr called sorry.
i hope this helps its just hard to describe..its the best i can do
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hi, i am a girl and i was with my friend / gf today. we are lesbians i guess. her parents know but mine didnt. and then my idiot asshole friend, who is a boy, sent me a txt msg talkin about me and my gf. my dad decided to read my txts. he saw it. now im flippin out and so r my parents!!!! my gf and i fear we will never be able to see each other again. MY FUCKING FRIENDS SUCK!!!! what do i do? my gf and i are hysterical and idk wat to do. plz help me :(!!!! (link)
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alright just breathe..becoming a homosexual is parent's worest nightmare. i dont even know if parents will ever accept something like that..its really dumb i know and just so you know you have all my support its not fair for you.if you love this girl then all i can see you doing is lying to your parents.
id teel your parents that you broke up with her and because you wanted them to be happy make sure that they know that it really hurt you like do some crying and maybe even become depressed around the house so they understand what theyr doing to you.
try and see her behind their backs untill your old enough to make your own decisions thats when you can sring the bomb shell on them and either they can accept ti or they can loose you.
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you can tell them the truth tell them how you feel about her and how much you want to be with her..i dont know if your parents are that understanding but just pour your heart out to them and hope for the best.
they should understand that soemthing like this will ruin the relationship you have with them.
good luck only you can know what to do because you know your parents well enough
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19/f
everytime i mess around with a guy, whether its even just playing strip poker, or hard core flirting, him feeling me up, ANYTHING i get soooo wet! and it feels disgusting.
i usually wear a pantyliner everyday, because i tend to have a lot of discharge but when i'm with a guy, obviously i'm not going to wear one and then it gets all over my underwear and its all nasty, and pretty much soaked it makes me feel disgusting.
does this happen to anyone else...?
i wish i didnt have to go through this. (link)
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dont worry it happens..dont be embarrassed. its cuz your so turned on you have abit of an orgasim and the more your turned on the more wet youll get. you cant stop it wear a tampon unless you know your ganna go have sex or be getting poked them definitly dont wear anything and just go wit it. dont worry guys think its attractive cuz it means your really liking what theyr doing to pleasure you
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okay i recently discovered that i have freaking strech marks on my tummy & my sides & its sooo ugly i dont wanna take my clothes off around my boyfriend because of them. i kno that he doesnt really notice them cause they're not that bad but its bad enough wat can i do ?? (link)
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go to the nearest health store and get some organic rose hip oil its reeeally good for scars and stretch marks etc just apply some on everyday
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Hi, I have 15000 $ and I am buying a 2 story home, however i only have 10 crew members so, i need 5 more, if your interested in adding me on face book and being in my crew let me know! I promise I won't ever send you any other requests, invites, etc. THANKS
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LOl yeah sure i dont mind.. you wont be able to search me so give me your name to add you or your email addy just incase one doesnt work..sweet lol
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now.
I feel like I shouldn't be in this relationship at all anymore. He's always so clingy. Like I have to be at his house every night and if I'm not by a certain time he starts freaking out calling and texting like crazy..And if I tell him one night "hey I just want to sleep at home tonight" he freaks out like "why?? you act like it's so horrible coming over here".....well YEAH it is because all my stuff is at home and everything I have to do in my life and take care of is at MY HOUSE. Sometimes I just want my space and I don't want to sleep in your bed where you want to cuddle and cuddle until I can't breathe and I can't sleep with someone on top of me.
I can't hang out with my friends anymore and I hate it I feel like I have no life anymore. And I've tried telling him this and he freaked out he was like "Well wtf now I'm not a part of your life?? Fine well if you'd rather hang out with your friends then whatever" and he always talks about how he's not just a stepping stone and whatever and he talks like he thinks we're going to be together forever....when I don't want to be! Even if these problems didn't exist I'm 20 years old I'm not trying to get married I'm young I want to have fun and live my life not be tied down to some psycho!
Also he does this whiny high pitched voice all the time and I know it's just him trying to be cute but it bugs the hell out of me. I can't stand it. You're a man act like a man not like a little girl....it's not attractive....and on that note I'm not physically attracted to him at all...when we first started dating I was attracted to him because we had fun together...but now all he wants me to do is after work shower and come over just so we can sit around and watch tv until we go to bed....and then he has the nerve to ask me why I never dress up for him anymore....(DUHH BECAUSE WE NEVER GO ANYWHERE!! I'm not gonna dress up to sit on your couch!)
So that attraction I had for him is now gone and I'm left with somebody that I don't want to be with....
I made the mistake of telling him I loved him when I wasn't really in love. He kept saying it and saying it and I kind of felt obligated.....well now I don't mean it and every time he says it if I don't say it back he freaks out like "what you don't love me???" I just want to be done with it.
And on top of all this I'm going back to college in two weeks and I'm not going to have time for him....but he's still acting like he's gonna want me to come over every night and I don't even WANT to have time for him.
I just want to be done with this relationship but I don't know how. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to sugarcoat it so that it seems like we're gonna get back together, because I don't want to...and he has anxiety attacks and every time I get mad at him he has one and once I got so mad that I just left his house and he got REALLY angry started kicking his car and screaming and yelling then sent me like 100 text messages about it.
I just know he's going to freak out and get super pissed and I don't know what to do please help me.
I need advice on what to say and how to bring it up. Should I blame it on school? I'm still going to be working while going to school so I really wont have extra time to deal with his needs. (link)
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well wow thats the most clingy iv ever herd of..sounds like he reeeally reaaallly likes you like over the top. ok so you for sure want out of this relationship?then my advice to you is you dont go to his house when you want to break up with him..take him to a public place maybe like a cafe or a park. sit him down and make sure that your really calm about it, no matter how angry he gets stay calm and just be fully honest with him tell him that you dont feel the same anymore and you think its best to go seperate ways because theres nothing here for you.tell him your sorry for doing it but youd hurt him even more if you lead him on pretending to be happy.give him the ful explanation so that he doesnt keep asking questions then walk away dont give him a chance to tell you that hell make things better that hell change because hell trick you in staying with him just say look im sorry and walk away. itd probibly be best if you changed your number or if he txts you delete his txts without reading them itll make things easier that way...good luck break ups are never easy no matter how you go abouts doing it
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I dont know how to flirt at all.
i need help.
and part of that makes me not know how to talk with guys. please help me learn how to flirt. tell me what i need to do.
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i agree with sally with the eye make up..maybe dont twirl your hair because youll look abit barbish but like flip you hair to the side or brush your hands in your hair while talking to him, stand close to him when talking to him but not enough to invade his bubble..make sure that you give him lots of attention and pretend that every word hes saying is interesting...if someone interrupts your converstation make sure that you give him one last sweet look before you turn to look at the other person because that will send a signal to his brain that you like him and hell like it too. just remember that flirting can be done in many ways with what you say or body language just give him the attention that he wants.
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I know that looking good in public is important and that guys like good looking girls but my friends are getting on my nerves about it! They are so obsessed with having the "perfect" figure and make-up so that these "hot" boys will show interest in them. One of my friends finally told me that the rest of the group is upset with me because my boyfriend is "hot" and I didn't even have to "try" to get him. I did "try" though...I approached him at lunch after our science class and said, "Hey, I think you're neat. Would you happen to be free this weekend?" That was it! They're upset I didn't go to extremes like they did, I guess.
Yeah, I do my make-up and I dress nicely but I don't spend hours in the bathroom or need to "touch-up" multiple times at school. I don't do my make-up to look like a raccoon or a boxer with two black eyes. I do my (light) make-up in the morning for like 10 minutes and then go to school and be MYSELF. I don't spend a fortune on clothes because I know they're just not worth it. I don't flash my boobs or anything in front of boys to get their attention.
I tried to explain to them that the kind of attention they're getting isn't what they are REALLY after. I told them to just talk to boys and let it naturally flow but they're SOOOOO obsessed with appearance. All they're going to get is used and I keep telling them that! When they DO get used they seem so shocked. I'm so tired of them.
Should I just stop being friends with them and go my own way or what? They don't listen to what I tell them and they are so extreme. It's gotten to the point that I laugh when they have their hearts broken. Can this be fixed or are we just not compatible as friends? (link)
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wow i wish i could just go up to a guy i liked and say that!you got gutts how can they say you dont try because you did, you scooped up your balls sucked it up and asked this guy out that takes alot! to be honest they sound jealous i dont know if youd want to be with jealous girls like that because that could get dangerous, they wouldnt try steal your boyfriend from you would they?its up to you?what good are they doing to you when theyr sticking around. are they there for you when you need them?are they being your friend?they should be happy for you that you found someone that makes you happy not be envious of it..i think you know what to do
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2 weeks ago my fiance and I of nearly 2 years broke up, she said I had become like a brother to her, but we were going to try to work it out. We were already dealing with a lot of stressful family situations as it was. Things were going as well as they could be, until her cousin called her, and said that my parents and I said that she left for a bunch of reasons, none of which were actually mentioned. She got mad at me, because obviously she believes her cousin. We got in an argument, and she said she never wanted to see me again. The next night she called, and we talked about things. After that stuff was ok, until she talked to her cousin again. Then she decided there was no chance for us to get back together. She tried to call later that night, but i had fallen asleep for a couple hours, i didn't want to call her back, and wake her dad up, because he drinks a lot, and I didn't want to start trouble. She got worried that I did something to myself, and had a friend drive by, which I was already up(this was 3 in the morning), and she saw me through the window, now she thinks I'm lying about that. Then someone told her I was going to hurt myself, so she'd come to see me, but I never said it. Now she's deleted all history of me from her life it seems, right down to deleting me from her myspace, and all the pics of us. I really think this is the girl I was meant to be with. Is there any hope of me getting my soulmate back, or did her cousin win? And what exactly might be going through her head? (link)
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you are such a sweet guy!im realllly sorry that her cousins are being such jerks!
Ok here it goes..if you love her then you will fight for her, you wont let her go until you know she doesnt want to be with you for sure until you know that shes making the decision nor her family. its always harder when the family bad mouths you to her about you. take her out to a romantic dinner at your house make it really romantic be different maybe put a blanket out on the floor with some wine next to the fire with some candles, tell her that your here tell her that shes the girl for you and the only one you want to spend the rest of your life with. look her striahg in the eyes and tell her that you werent lying and never will lie to her because you want this more than anything and your here to right for her to stay. tell her youll only leave when you know she doesnt want you from the bottom of her heart. tell her that you just want it to be you and her no one else right now to give you two a chance to find out what you truly want..if that works then i say hang out with the cousins and try get them to be friends with you try get them to know that your not an ass and you love your fiance very much once you get them on your side then things will be better.
Be romantic k..fight for her its what you both deserve..its something id want someone to do for me
good luck
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