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Lifetime goal, to save a life
E-mail: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Zealand
Occupation: University Student, soon to be teacher
Age: 20
MSN: sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
Member Since: March 11, 2009
Answers: 565
Last Update: August 13, 2011
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:) Thank you

Thanks!

Thanks

I am happy most of the time but i feel as if he isn't anymore. We have tried the whole rostor thing before it didn't really work. Cleaning isn't the only arguement we have, i seem to be sitting at home every night while he hangs out with his friends. We all used to hang out togeather but it was just too much i can't stand to be around all men all of the time. I work with all men all day and at least one of his friends have lived with us since day one until now. I just feel like anymore drinking with his buddies comes before spending time with me. We occaisonally will go to eat lunch but that's were it ends, to him thats enough time to spend togeather since we live togeather. Honestly the only time i see him at home is before he goes to work ( he works 3rd shift) and on his days off at night after he is already drunk. To me he is the sweetest man in the world when he is sober but when he is drunk he dosen't care. He isn't really the most romantic either if it dosen't sound just a little bit apealing to him he refuses to do it.I am just worn out!

thanks for your help i did apologize to her but for right now im going to stay away and just get myself together because he best friend hates me and doesnt want to even see me so maybe i should back away even though Elvia doesnt feel her self with her own best friend but im not sure if i should just leave her like that even though left me like that too.So what is your opinion?

thanks heaps. since i asked this questions a lot has changed. he's started talking to me again, and apparently he wants me back. i wont go to him but i think i should be there for him just in case because i know he can get very depressed. i have no idea why i am drawn to him. i know can be an ass and he's not very nice to me, but for some stupid reason its like i cant let go of him. i dont have any feelings for him anymore, i just dont understand why i keep thinking about him. thanks for your help :)

You are AWESOME! You even asked your guy friends for me? Awesome! Thank you and it makes sense. I am going to stay a virgin.

I don't think you get it

ouchhh haha i donno how the guys who's balls i've seen get it hairless... but thanks :)

Thanks!! Good point about not putting too much out there right away for him. I think I'll do that pillow thing :D

thnx

I thought so thanks :)

Thankss Even if thats not right, its a possibility (: But whyy would you get "Muscle twitching" ?

as allways a brilliant answer, i will talk to her the next time we have some time alone. thanks again sasa :)

well actuallly i need my boobs to grow. and i need to gain weight. in 99 pounds. 13 yr. and 32b.

thanks a bunch, it definitely does.

ok il try, yet i just got home from haveing my heart ripped out

Thanks. I hope so. I hate having these ups and downs. Like today I ate too much and I feel pretty horrible about it :/. But I'll try your idea.

:)

Thanks, you made me feel a lot better :)

sooo helpful thank you

I actually like teaching, and I especially love english. So Im going to look into, my high school english teacher said she's going to help me look around for colleges and stuff. =] thanks for the advice

thanks :)

greattt :)

yeah thats true, thanks.

thanks...good advice :)

wow! that was really good advice thanks :)

Thank you for your input and for sharing your experience. I'm not sure it is on my thyroid though, as it is closer to the back of my jaw, below my ear. Next time I see my doctor, I will ask about it.

thank you so much! this is so helpful!

o that snds good

haha true dat girl!

Thanks! :D

THANK U ALL 4 YOUR ADVICE IT'S SO GOOD TO KNOW THAT PEOPLE STILL CARE 4 OTHERS AND DON'T JUST LOOK THE OTHER WAY. THANKS SO MUCH

I think you're right, I'll follow your advice through and see where it goes! Thankyou so much! :)

thanks so much!

thank you so much you have helped alot :)

Thank you! That's so sweet of you. I truly appreciate it, and hope everything falls into place soon....have a great day Sia!

It was actually my first year, and the career I chose was not really at my level. I only decided to come back just so I could finish my studies here instead. I regret my decision but I guess I just was not ready. I was at a different level as everyone else culturally. Thanks for your honesty!!!

thanks

Thank you! Tha is really good advice!

thanks but im on crutches cant walk or drive or anything they have me pretty much under house arrest and they wont even let friends come over but they keep saying " dont worry your not in trouble at all"...

wow thanks!

Thank you so much for understanding. I'm going to try your advice. I can't be anymore hurt and it might be just the thing. I will stop letting her push me around...in a nice way. Thank you so much. You made me feel so much more hopeful for this holiday season. XXOO p.s. I hope your holidays are great too!

:) :) Thanks!

lmao that was a cute story, thank you :) i did end up telling him and i was glad i did because he was like, "you made my night.. i could tell something was up at first but youre a really good kisser for that being your first time." so basically you were spot on with everything haha thanks so much <3

Makes sense, thanks soo much! <3

Thank you :)

Thank you

lol thanks i'll probs try that :)

thnxx 4 the advice nd me nd dis kid does all dat

thanks so much xx

Thank you for answering, and I appreciate your icebreaker suggestions lol. It makes me sad though that you compared my heartbreaking situation to the Twilight Series.

thank you so much! i just hope i can find nice heels in time for the dance, haha. i always have bad luck with shoes. but i really like that beach waves hair style. :)

thanks!

Thanks :)

thx that really helps me

Oh Cool. Thank you. I just love Nancy Ajram. I think she has the coolest, most authentic singing style from her culture (as far as the young girls).

thanks for all your help, i did add you. im Dobby240@hotmail.com i dont think moving with her will help all that much. as much as i do love her i think that letting her go will be for the best im just glad that we are going to stay in contact. but if all goes well again in 3 years time depending on what way goes were i would love to try again... but for now these have been the best 3-4 weeks of my life for a long time thanks again for all your help

thank you

thank you! i always get worked up over things like this, but you helped:)

Awww,you're so cute thank yo so much !

A BOOK BETTER THEN TWILIGHT? :O is it possible?! haha.. ok, i will for sure check that book out. :)

You are sure welcome. :-) Take care, and read the dad's story some time. It really clears things up.

that you that was really good advice... kinda brought a tear to my eye. This thing I went through had made me cautious and I am afraid it made me to cautious to where I have trouble trusting other males

thanks so much again :) i really really do appreciate it

its not that im trying to lead my self into thinking i am.. its just those are the exact symptoms i had when i really was pregnant and now there back..

hahaha i like it!

Hey, thanks for the suggestions. =) I really liked Dance with the Devil by Immortal Technique - it definitely had meaning. I enjoyed some your other suggestions as well, especially run dmc. =)Thanks again.

Thanks =]

Aw omg thank you so much. You are really sweet! &hearts;

i like it!! that dvd idea may just work! except using different activity :P im still tryin to find out if she has a boyfriend, i think she does :S but nothings certain yet

brilliant advice i alredy used it

thanks :]

my brother is so hard headed but i care alot about him, he's on his senior year so thanks i think i'll get through ti him sooner or later.

thx it really helps and i would do anything for him

thanks that was really6 great advice

thank you!

haha thanks alot :D she wasnt in today :( hopefully i will see her again though i havent stopped thinking about her lol

hahahahha :) thanks

Yeah, what you said is very true. Thanks :)

Thankk you=)

Thanks!

thanks. but each scholarship I got gave me the check out right in my name, so i could cash them into my bank account.. so do u think that would still be ok?

you're right...I guess I'll have to take chances...

thanks, i'll try

Thank you so much for the help, it really put my mind at ease : )

Lol thanks for the advice. And I swear...I DO dress like a normal girly girl. I follow all the advice but a the end of the day I'm confused. ^_^

Thats true! im so sorry to hear that! you deserve so much better =] Thanks

thanks for the advice. They are out of control and i guess i just need to move on. thanks again :)

Thank you, I thought I was doing the right thing. I just wanted to make sure. ^^;;

thanks so much , great advice ;D

thank you i hope ur rite that in time things will get better

thank you! that was really good advice, I'm going to go with it. :)

you hit the nail on the head about him changing. I have thought about that many times bc when we were together we were in high school and it was almost 4 yrs ago. Im sure he wouldnt be the person I loved then.

THANKS, im tryin 2 calm down but the situation is out of my hands, (the father is not exactly my boyfriend or a good guy either and he shouldnt knw) but THANKS alot im trying 2 not panic, im scared when saturday is comin THANKS AGAIN ALOT!!! xx

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he didn't sleep with her yet i caught him a few days before he was supose to see her.

hey thanks (:

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