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flirting
I dont know how to flirt at all.
i need help.
and part of that makes me not know how to talk with guys. please help me learn how to flirt. tell me what i need to do.
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1. Smile! If you're not smiling, chances are the guy won't be interested.
2. Don't always talk about yourself, let him talk about himself, too! Balance the conversation. Yes, conversations are a HUGE way to flirt more indirectly ;].
3. Think about what you do. Don't just blindly go around flirting with everyone. Some people don't want to flirt, and you can tell by their body language, facial expressions, etc.
4. Be nice. I can't tell you how many times I've seen girls be complete bitches. It's SO irritating. If you're not nice, then it isn't worth the effort. Guys don't like bitches.
5. BE YOURSELF! I know you said not to say this, but as the above question told you, if you aren't yourself- who are you going to be? You aren't being truthful with the guy if you're making up things about yourself or you're doing things you normally wouldn't do. The guy will get the wrong impression and may like something about you that isn't even a part of you.
6. HAVE FUN! If you aren't at least doing that, I don't know what to tell you ;]
--Jack
(17/m)
P.S. Guys hate excessive makeup.
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i agree with sally with the eye make up..maybe dont twirl your hair because youll look abit barbish but like flip you hair to the side or brush your hands in your hair while talking to him, stand close to him when talking to him but not enough to invade his bubble..make sure that you give him lots of attention and pretend that every word hes saying is interesting...if someone interrupts your converstation make sure that you give him one last sweet look before you turn to look at the other person because that will send a signal to his brain that you like him and hell like it too. just remember that flirting can be done in many ways with what you say or body language just give him the attention that he wants.
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just be interested in what the guy has to say and what they'v been up to. laugh and smile A LOT, find any excuse to touch his hand or sholder ect.
try and talk a lot, twirls your hair.
tip:wear eye makeup so when he looks at your eyes they stand out and he is drawn to them.. mascar, eyeliner but not eye shadow because it will be too much.
goodluck:) xxxsal
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i think you should just let yourself open up towards guys, like you're with your girlfriends in a way... just different gender. LOL, i flirt with guys without knowing it, i just be myself. and laugh alot but not TOO much where they think i'm just retarded, just laugh at their jokes or because they're cute or some sort. smile alot, give them hugs, or whatever you think the time is right to give them a hug. go up to them when you see them.. and start off a conversation. it's like small shy flirting, where you can barely tell.. but then, guys can get a hint of it. you don't need to be a huge flirt. (:
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flirting is just another way of telling a guy your interested in him so without really using many words complement him tell him he looks nice or that you like his eyes or his hair then twirl you hair around in your fingers laugh at all his jokes and just smile at him a lot. Good luck :)
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