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shyness i need advis.
im super super shy and i cant help it.
it ruins everything. my face gets beat red. and i start like idk stumbling over stupid words. and i just get sick of it.
i get all nervous. adn i never no what to say. can someone please help me to overcome my shyness, im 15 by the way.
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Oh my gosh I can totallyyyyy and completely relate!!! When people are talking to you, just make sure to breathe, and just loosen up your body, litterally. Try not to think about how red you might be getting, because that will make you turn either red, or more red. When you relax, you will be able to hear what they are saying so much better, trust me. Dont try to rush into commenting back or anything, take it slow, think about what you are going to say, and then say it. I know you feel like you will stumble over your words but if you just take everything slower, and dont rush into things then everything will be smoother. Remember to smile, everyone including yourself will feel more comfortable if you smile.
Good luck!!!!
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Hey i used to have the same problem! i used to be REALLY shy.you just need to be comfortable around your classmates and friends.
Dont be scared to vioce your option, i know its hard when your shy but trust me people wont talk to you much if your shy unless you talk to them first, iv experienced that! it sucks.
Start by saying hi to whoever your sitting next to and just get used to talking to them first. just say whats on your mind and dont hold back.
once you'v got that, it will be easier to talk in front of a group of friends.
its hard being shy when no one talks to you cos your quiet and they dont know you. once they get to know you, you'll make friends in no time.
start by saying HI.. thats all it takes! once you get used to talking to people the nerves will go away=] xxxxsally
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Coming from myself, I think you'll just have to start talking to people. Who knows, you may even make new friends. :) I'm really shy, but I've managed to start a few random conversations to people I don't know when I took summer PE, and we ended up being really good friends! I just started out say something like "heyy what's your name?" and the convo just took off from there lol. Try to to worry or think about it too much. Before you say something, think before you act. That may help you overcome your stumbling of words. Don't overthink though, you'll probably get even more nervous! You should have a good friend, or a couple/few hanging around too. :D When I'm with my friends, even if it's just one person, I feel more comfortable around people I don't know, and less awkward.
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well the only way to get rid of shyness is to get comfortable around the situation if something happens and you start to get that shy feeling stop and think about the situation and then find a way to make it seem funny and amuzing to you that way you wont be shy and if that doesnt work then when you start to get shy stop for a minute breath in and breath out and tell yourself everything is okay and you should be fine hope this helps good luck :)
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