Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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I have been reall in love with this guy...it wasnt a crush it was really love...what should i do? (link)
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does he know? first of all you should tell him that you think he's great and that you've liked him for awhile now. also maybe invite him to go somewhere with you alone to make it more romantic =)
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I like this guy, I don't know him that well but he is really cute and is in my honors class so he is smart too. From what i hear, some other girls like him too. We haven't really had a conversation since i've only been in school now for 1 week. I don't know if i should tell him that i think he is hott like some of the other girls, or just look for a guy that isn't in everyones mind.
If i do tell him, how should i say it or bring it up in a conversation. (link)
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maybe you shouldn't start off the bat by telling him you think he's hott. i think you should maybe say that it's really cool that you're both in the same honors class .. or congratulate him on a good test grade. alot of girls don't notice that in guys that are smart - and the guys probably don't want a girl to notice him just for his looks =) good luck with this!
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what sort of crunchies do you need to do to get abs? like how far off the ground? like little ones that ur shoulder barely gets off the ground or like.. all the way up? please answer: {1}- how far off the ground works best? {2}- if i run 3 times a week and do that everyday how long (approx) will it maybe take? (link)
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{1} - usually between 3-6 inches off the ground is a good work-out! =) and {2} - it depends on how far youe running and how long (time-wise) it takes. it should take maybe a couple months - good luck!
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my best friend is having her sweet 16 on september 4th. my question is, does anyone know any good sites online to shop at? like girly stores. thanks. (link)
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victoriasecret.com * pacsun.com * forever21.com * abercrombieandfitch.com * wetseal.com - i hope i helped! =)
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im going to a new school and i have a friend there that hangs out with a lot of guys. for some reason im really shy around guys so, what do i do???
how do i break the barrier of being shy towards them?
HELP!! (link)
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don't look at guys like they're a whole different species (even though they act like it!) .. pretend that your friend is just hanging out with a bunch of other girls .. LOL! they're not too different from girls - just talk to them, laugh with them, hang with them - that should break the barrier. good luck! =)
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okay i really need help on this...me n mah boyfriend have been together for a year n 3 months since sunday...but it seems like all we do is fight...but i know deep down in my heart we r meant to be....but we fight over the most dumbest things...like tonight...we was at the fair n i didnt wanna ride this one ride...n he got all pist n shit...n we fought n like always..he ended up cryin n i told him i was tired of fightin wit him n that things was gonna havet to change n he asked me if i was gonna break up wif him..n i said no...of course...cuz i love him way to much...but sometimes i feel like i should just to see what else is out there...but i cant bring myself to it...its like god is tellin me not to...like we r meant to be and just stick wit it..and also he claims that he dont know why he acts the way he does...(in yellin and cryin all the time bout stupid shit)...and i dont know what to do or what to believe or anythin else...someone plz help me! (link)
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maybe you and your boyfriend should take a break. you DO need to go out and see what other types of guys are in the world. he shouldn't be crying .. and he seems very tense and angry to get mad over a ride @ the fair. tell him you want to take a break for now - and just leave it @ that. you don't even have to hear what he wants to say -
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Are there any sites where i can get custom templates for my column?
xoxo thanks, Manda (link)
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not that i know of .. but you can edit your column settings and there's 4 pre-made ones. they're really cute! also if you know HTML and have some time on your hands, you can probably make your own custom template! good luck =)
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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care? (link)
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yes there are still guys your age that are virgins! think about the catholic ones - if their parents really stress absinence. he's probably hoping that there's a girl out there for him - just like you! keep waiting and i'm sure you'll meet the guy of your dreams =) good luck!
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pick one from each -
hilary duff or lindsay lohan
hamburger or hotdog
jessica simpson or paris hilton
ruben or clay
chad michael murray or adam brody
spiderman or batman
jojo or ashlee simpson
milk or choocolate milk
pink or purple
mario or luigi
mary-kate or ashley
=) (link)
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lindsay lohan
hamburger
jessica simpson
ruben
chad michael murray
spiderman
ashlee simpson
chocolate milk
pink
luigi
ashley
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WHATS A GOOD AT HOME PRODUCT YOU CAN USE TO GET RID OF PIMPLES/BLACKHEADS QUICKLY? (link)
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first of all, if your pimple is about to explode .. just POP IT! lol - also i use clean & clear and it doesn't irrate your skin, it's really good. also proactive is really great for people who have acne - other good brands are clearasil and neutrogena .. or maybe just add a dot of TOOTHPASTE to that zit! =)
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what do guys like in a girl around the years 15-17? Liek how do they like girls to dress, act, personality..that kind of stuff. (link)
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it really depeneds on the guy and where ya'll live. i know a bunch of guys are really turned-off by girls who dress as sluts or who think they're sluts. they just love it if you act your true self (goofy, wild, smart) - good luck with them! =)
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i dont know how to flirt and i wish i did... how do you flirt?? (link)
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there's no certain way to flirt .. it just comes naturally. it's just kinda acting really sweet to a guy you're interested in and being really nice to him. laugh @ his lame jokes .. lol i don't really know how else to explain it! good luck hun! =)
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Ok, I'm 13 and I have just a lil bit of acne but I just want it to go away. Does anyone have suggestions? I don't want to buy stuff I just need some help and encouragement! (link)
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it's okay! you're definitly not the only 13 year old who has acne! i know you don't wanna buy stuff - but my friend uses proactive and her face is so clear now! also any clean & clear products are fabulous! it's okay - don't worry - plus the acne can't stay forever! i hope i helped =)
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It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;
I rate! ^_^ (link)
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yes! lol - but you're so lucky to find a guy that likes you for your personality! alot of my closer guy friends (the ones i would never date) know the real goofy me - but the hott single ones just think i'm pretty and you really shoulnd't judge a book by it's cover! haha =)
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How do you make a link of your advice column and put it on an instant message to a friend? (link)
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you highlight & copy the URL web address (the www. part) in the top of your screen - for instance, mine would be http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=liddylflirtx3 - and paste it into your friend's IM window
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Brad: u goin to the BBQ
me: oo yeah u??
Brad: i might have to make an appearance
Me: how r u getting 2 the bbq
Brad: miself - most likely
Brad: i can ask madre if i can drive you .. if you would like- im not suppose to drive but she knows i cheat
Brad: just let me know if you need a ride
Me: yea so wuts been goin on in the life of brad lately...??
Brad: busy busy little booy
Brad: :-P
Me: eww put that tongue inside ur mouth
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Brad: :-P
Me: nasty
Me: nasty
Brad: SHUt it
Flirtin or Talkin?? Does he like me as a friend or more than a friend??
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it definitly seems like brad likes you as more than just a friend. he wants to personally drive you to the BBQ - plus he seems really nice. if he makes a move .. go for it! =) have fun @ the BBQ!
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see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!! (link)
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this guy sounds like a total jerk. i mean - imagine if you were in that other girl's shoes. she must feel humiliated - he doesn't even seem like good boyfriend material .. just a jerk and he's not worth it!
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I have a problem with opening up to my friends. I've been a big flirt for like my whole life! I even won biggest flirt at my middle school. But I havent really DONE anything if you know what I mean. Like I kissed but didnt make out. ANYWAYS i have two best friends and they havent done that either! But I have a secret. I actually have gone farther than that a couple times... I'm not comfortable telling them about it because they asked me what happened when "john" came over to my house and I told them NOTHING! so then they would know I lied to them. I dont want any answers saying something like "be honest cuz thats the best" blah blah blah!
I just dont know what to do.... (link)
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you don't have to tell anyone what you do with guys. it's really none of their business .. it's your own "sex life" .. not their's. you're right to just tell them that you did nothing - and if they don't believe you then ask them why they don't - and if they're true friends they would =)
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ok me and my boyfriend have been having a bad month - he tried to break up with me the other day but knew i was sad and ended up not .. he told me he loved me still and was being an idiot and crap like that .. but it stil doesnt seem like he still likes me.. i dont wanna bother him but i want to know the truth! sry its long! (link)
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lol it's not that long .. talk to your boyfriend and tell him you want to know the truth when he says he loves you. and if he really did he wouldn't want to keep breaking up with you. tell him you want to get to the bottom of this relationship .. good luck! =)
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When I get period on my underwear, I try to rinse it out in the sink as soon as possible. My question is this-- should I use hot water to rinse it or cold? I've heard both opinios for the following reasons:
*You should use hot water because it will rinse it out better.
*You should use cold water because hot water will cause it to set and then it will be stained. So I guess my question is, is this true? (link)
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yes - cold water is the right choice. rinse it with cold water to work out the stain a little. then put stain stick on it and wash it in the washer on the warm/warm setting. then check to see if the stain is still there. if it is - DO NOT PUT UNDERWEAR IN DRYER that will cause it to set - do as before - hope this works - it does for me! rate please*
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