Hello, my name is Sam. There's a lot that I can say about myself, but if you'd like that then you could always message me and we can have a nice cup of tea together :D
I am not very old, so I might not have too much life experience, but I do like to help people. I know that life often throws unexpected blows at people, but I am so extremely optimistic. Hopefully some of my optimism will rub off on the people to whom I am giving advice. I am happy to help with anything! :)
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i am not into ny one at the moment but i cant seem to find ny one suitable for me i want to have a boyfrend and be happy but it is happening :(:( (link)
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you dont need a guy to make you happy. there are much better things in life then love. you should be hangin with ur frineds and having fun. looking for guys isnt that important. one day the right guy will come along and you will have a bf. until then dont worry, we all want bfs at one point or another. just wait for him. he will come eventually. i promiose =)
SAM
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i don't get it. when i get into a relationship and i want to be serious about it i let all my guy friends go, and my guy friends are fine with that cuz they understand me and how i don't beleive in cheating and shit.
but my problem with my boyfriend now is that he kind of makes a big deal out of it, i just finely got him to fix his damn myspace top friends thing, cause it was me and like 50 million other girls.
i trust my boyfriend, but shit like that makes me 2nd guess, he hasn't done anything to prove me wrong, if i'm not at his house we are on the phone will we go to sleep pretty much.
i just don't know what i need to do. cause i think it pisses him off when i bring shit like that up. but yet he is glad i tell him so he can know.
and it really hurts his feelings when i tell him i have a hard time trusting him sometimes.
but i've been cheated on way to much these days. (link)
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its easy for us to second guess our bf/gf sometimes because we are just naturally jealous. hah its not our faults we just are. i think that if has proven to be a good loving bf then you have nothing 2 worry about. he loves you. e cares about you and trust is very important. also i know its hard being cheated on. this happens way too much~ but it sounds like he really loves you and cant stand being without you. dont worry so much, hun. =)
Alex
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i feel like my boyfriend is making me sad all the time. all of these girls that he's friends with tell me that he likes THEM and he's going to cheat on me for THEM. at first i didn't believe it, but then i found out he hung out with them yesterday and it made me feel hurt.. he did invite me to the movies but he said he could only stay for a half hour so i decide i didn't want to go and he said "i love you and i wanna see you" but after hearing what those girls told me, i was too hurt to see him. he said he's sorry if he hurt me and he loves me.. i asked him if he liked kayla [the girl who said he was gunna cheat on me for her] and he said he MIGHT like her. and i said why? and he said "because she actually showed up to see me." now i don't know if i can trust him because that girl said that he wrote a song for her and sang it to her and told her that he loved her. i don't know who to believe (link)
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i think you should do yourself a favor and break up with him. he should not be telling you that he might like her. he should realize that this type of thing would hurt you and even if he is sorry, he still likes her and thats wrong. i say you end the relationship and just be friends, because it wont get any easier, its gonna hurt more as time goes by. and hes not worth it. i hope i helped.
LOVE,
SAM
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Hmm, okay in order to make my question short, I'll just ask one question and anyone willing to help, please give me your e-mail, AIM, YIM, MSN or some way of me being able to contact you.
Are there any bi, gay, or lesbian columnists on this site because I'm having trouble and issues with coming out [I'm bi and 14/f] and I would really like your help on how to deal with things and what to do...
No offense or anything but if you're not out, you're obviously not going to be able to help me [unless your friend goes/went through the same thing]
Thanks very much!!! (link)
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my aim is spicyismyboy. i go by SAM. hope i can help you.
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Ok so I am 13 and hav alot of hair on the bikini line and vagina. I dont know how to ask my mom if i can get a bikini wax. Also is 13 to young what is a good age? I wanna look oGood in a bikini this summer. Also is there any good advice to make it hurt less or any kits even (link)
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i think you should just shave around the bikini area because u r kinda young to get a wax(which hurts a lot anyways).
SAM
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My sister and her friend (they're 14 years old in middle school) asked me if they could go to a friend's house at 11:00 tonight. I asked them about it, and they said that they would go to a guy's house who's also 14. He lives about a 10 minute walk away from our house. They don't want me to tell our mom.
Basically, I said no. My sister and her friend told me that the guy's parents don't know about it and that they would WALK there. I explained that 2 girls outside at 11pm is very dangerous. So they asked if I could drive them (I'm 16). I said no to that because no parents know about it, and I just don't have a good feeling about it (I don't think they'd have sex, I just think something bad will happen, like get caught).
My sister doesn't understand because earlier this year, I came home from a party because of my 11pm curfew, but I went back to the party til 12am when I found out that my mom was asleep. I think that these are completely different situations: there were parents at the party who knew about the party, my mom was drunk that night so she wouldn't get mad, and I wouldn't be walking.
Did I do the right thing by telling my sister and her friend that they couldn't go tonight? (link)
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well im 14 and personally i would hate it for my older brother or sister to tell me i cant go. but its probably the right thing to do. make a deal with them, some sort of arrangement so that it doesnt seem totally wrong. just make it so that maybe they could meet this guy on another occasion where the situation is slightly different because the way it sounds, if you or your sis and her friend got caught it would get blown way out of proportion. my parents would freak out. you seem like a good sister whos only trying to do whats best. your sister is very lucky to have someomne like you thats looking out for her.
SAM~=]
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okay so tomarrow im going to the mall with a friend. my dads ganna be there but he'll most likely let us walk aorund on our own. okay so i really need bras and underwear. like really badly. so i wanna get like some nice underwear andd thongss. and bras. ha. but like.. i know there victoria secrets.. and american eagle.. but where else has some nice stuff. and not to mention the fact that im really embarressed about getting the thongs and like underwear. and like i need to get measured for bras.. so like idk what to do.. its embaressing and but i really need this stuff done. its like the fact that i have never worn a thong before, shopping for that stuff is just awkward, asking someone who works there what size i am in the boobs and like underrwearr is also embarressing. (and like how would i ask her...). yeah so please advice. on like anything. i dont want my dad to know i got stuff like that at the mall too. thankss. =] (link)
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i know this stuff is so embarrassing at times but not to worry. ok well there is a simple method to figure out ur bra size. go to this website to fid out how.
http://www.lifespy.com/2007/how-to-find-a-right-size-bra/
and about your dad. ugh dads and "girl stuff" dont exactly mix. yes its awkward. haha well if you are going with your friend have her hold your bras and thongs. like if she buys something else for example a shirt from a different store, put your things inside her bag. that way you dont have to explain to your dad. well im not too good with underwear sizes sorry. but im sure like if you go to victoria's secret the ladies there are very nice and you could ask them about the sizes. dont be embarrassed they will understand. well i hope this helps.
LOVE
SAM~=]
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Okay. So there's this guy(he's 15) and I like him(14). We're at this spot where I feel like we're more than friends, but he doesn't see it. He is very... blind? He asked me out two halloweens ago at a dance, and then 9 months later told me he didn't know we were going out. >_< Anyway, I love this guy, a lot(no its not dumb high school stuff. I want him. For life. I would MARRY him if he asked me. srsly.)
Last night we went to see a play(slasreveR neveS[he's so backwards... he loved it]) and the whole time we were messing around, playing with each other; poking, teasing. Afterward, I called for our ride, and we were hanging out in the lobby with this girl, and it was fine, totally natural, no jealousy, no flirting with her. Well, so we got in the car, and the next thing I knew, his hand was with mine. I'm like WHAT? he didn't hold it all through the show, but the minute people couldn't see us...? He also brought me a present... Earrings. GORGEOUS earrings. darkish silver, circular with red beads. perfect for me.
the only thing is, he doesn't like me. I asked him to the Sweethearts Dance at V-day, and he said IMMEDIATELY; "Just as friends right?"(he went, we danced the one slow dance)
Anyone want to clue me in? (link)
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Ok im 14/f and i know exactly what you are talking about. the same thing happened to me. my best guy friend made it seem like he liked me by doing things that you described, the hugs, holding hands. and he would always wanna sit next to me or be with me. and then he found out that i told my friend that i thought he liked me. and so he came up to me and told me that he only wanted to be friends. it really sucked because even after he said it he still acted like he liked me. some guys are afraid of commitment, as in they dont want a girlfriend rite now. i know you love him and want him and feel like this is the only guy for you. but my advise is to just give it time. just be friends for now and if he keeps flirting and stuff well you cant really control that. what i did was get over him, it was the hardest thing ever to get over a guy you wish you had soooo bad. now whenever i see him i dont feel awkward or anything. i know i can just go up to him and play around like friends. maybe in the future this guy will actually like you but i wouldnt count on it. if hes anything like my friend then he is really flirtatious but doesnt want to commit. i would ask him directly if he likes you. if he says no then move on. if he says yes then you know hes just afraid to commit. message me back if you have more to the story. i would relly like to be able to help you. and yes guys are soooo confusing!!! haha yea they are well hope we can tallk more later.
love,
SAM~ =]
ok im responding to your feedback. the same thing happened with me he never actually told me no i dont like you until i said that i needed to know the truth and asked "Do you like me or not?" and then he said no, which was a real shock! but maybe this guy likes you and just doesnt want to commit. my friend had a bad experiance with his last gf and doesnt want the same to happen again so he just wants "friends" rite now. Ask him strait out and if he starts talking about something else or tries to avoid the question then ask him again,tell him you NEED to know because you are very confused. sorry this guy is causing you so much confusion. hope he gives you the answer you want! if not then you will need to move on, trust me some guys are not worth the hastle.
SAM~
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First off im 15 F. And I know alot of people aren't going to like this but whatever. All of my life i have never gone to church or anything, and I want to, like I want to have a church family and everything and I really would like a place to talk about my spirituality. But I cant find a church that I like. As for my religion, I basically have christian based values, but anyways here are my beleifs.
1. I beleive in god as a force and not a being.
(basically I believe in god as love in general.)
2. I dont believe in the devil. I think that was a
a story made up to scare people that if you sin
you will go to hell.
3. I don't believe in hell. I believe there is
heaven and thats all.
4. I know there was a man named Jesus and he taught great lessons, but I dont believe he rose from the dead and all that.
5. God is Love and Sin is Evil.
6. And last, people should be entitled to their own religion without anyone giving them a hard time.
Anyways, there is just a basis of whatI believe. So my question is, do you know of a church or religion that is basically all of those?
Also, I had this idea, maybe I could start a website forum where people could talk about this, sort of like starting my own religion,(hehe that sounds weird). Do you think many people would join me on that? Do you think anyone believes the way I do?
Any way, sorry its so long. I just really want to talk about what I believe and where I'm from, you would get beat up because everyone is very conservative baptist around here. Like I am the only democrat at my school. : ). soo, if you have any views on this, please tell me. Just keep them nice. Thanks in advance!! (link)
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hi if 14/f and i think i have something that might work for you.
>i dont believe in god as a being either more as a force that is all around us. This force lives within us so we do not need to seek anyone or anything outside ourselves to become happy. We all have the same potential to become happy.Also i dont believe in the devil or hell or Jesus resurecting. And yes i agree that we should ALL be able to believe or worship whatever we want without being judged.
I am a Buddhist. I am part of the SGI, an organization that is devoted to world peace. (no i dont believe in the fat-buddha guy as a god)-i chant the words NAM-MYOHO-RENGE KYO to become happy. These words mean devotion to the mystic law of cause and effect through sound. Most people dont believe this but these words are actually the rythm of the universe. (An astronaut came to our "community center" once and was amazed because he heard all of the members chanting NAM-MYOHO-RENGE KYO and he told us that in outer space the same sound is repeated. We believe that by chanting this phrase we can become one with the universe and change our lives in a positive way. Our organization is without priests and it is the philosophy of hmuan revolution and promotes world peace. We are always looking for ways to help others and become happy. And its a lot of fun. As youth members we go and have meetings where we talk about anything and make friends and there are even preforming groups. For example if you play an instrument or like to dance or sing then you can be involved in this sort of thing. I have been a member since i was 6 and since then my life has changed so much. I love my religion. Its like no other. They dont say we cant eat certain things or put any limitations on us like that. If you are at all interested or maybe if i confused you at all with this explanation(sorry its so long!)then you go to this link:
http://www.sgi.org/about/about.html
It talks about the religion and organization more in depth. It offeres a better explanation. Also if you want to find a "comunity center" where you can go that is near you then go to this link:
http://www.sgi-usa.org/thesgiusa/findus/index.html
Oh and please if you need to know anything at all that i may have forgoten to explain then send me a message. I hope this answered your question. I really hope you go and meet the people. They are amazing and so caring. If you do decide to go and find a location near where you live ask someone when the next youth meeting is. These are the ones that are most helpful for "guests" who want to know more about the practice. =) sorry for the infinateness of this! lol----
SAM~
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14/m
Ok..Me and this girl I like have been friends for about a year and a half. She used to think I was weird and what not, but now she's like my sister. But the thing is...I like her. But I'm not sure if she does...She tells me how sweet I'am and that anygirl would be lucky to go out with me...But she also gives me nicknames and what not (none of them are bad) and I'm not sure if she likes me or not..You think she does? Thanks in advance... (link)
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Well if she's anything like me then she probably does like you. many girls have the same dilema that guys have. i always wonder whether a guy might like me as a friend or as more than a friend. if i were you i would be flirty around her. girls like that. and also probably you can find out is she likes you by having someone ask her who she likes.if you know a good friend of hers that she will tell any secret then that person can ask her if she likes anyone. if she says yes then tell her you like her. she most likely likes you back, but if not dont be upset there are a lot of girls out there. i hope it works out and if you need anything leave me a message. good luck!
SAM~
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This is quite a simple question.
How does one get someone else to notice that they like them without overdoing it or confessing? Besides trying to talk to them whenever one can.
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well if you arent that good of friends...i suggest maybe whenever you see that person try to make conversation.make an effort to see them more..lol if you go to skool with this person you can somehow find out their classes or where they hang out, and in a [nonstalker] kinda way just "bump" into them occasionally. its a great way to get to see that person more and even hang out more. and even if you are shy try to be flirty, joke around(have an inside joke with him) and then always bring it up. hope it works out! if not then dunt worry about it there will be other guys. hehe cross ur fingers. lol
SAM
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ok im 15 and i think im crazy like rele almost all the close guy friends i have i like or have liked but the thing is i usually get over it and i wonder why i do this, is this like normal cuz im rele tired of likin sum1 then they get a gf and i lose all my feelings for them
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hey ur not alone..this is normal. yea it sux liking a guy with a gf and espeicially if its a best guy friend or even a good friend. it happens to me all the time and sometimes i have no idea wat to do. then i do the same i get over them and its weird. yes i hate the feeling but this is just how it goes sometimes. i like a guy who has obviously no feelings for me watsoever and hes my best friend. so ill get over him. trust me there will be the day when you find a guy that likes you and has no gf and you'll be great together. but until that day comes dont worry about it, its perfectly normal for us teens to be confused about these feelings. hope this helps you.
SAM~ =)
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So there is this kid lets call him Greg. Well last April Greg and I started hanging out and getting really close. He liked me and I liked him that whole situation. We never really talked about it with eachother, like how we felt about one another but my friend would talk to him and his friend would talk to me and that how we both knew how one another felt. kinda akward i know. So after we had been getting to know eachother for about almost a month my friend who get jealous alot, espically with me since were so close decided to tell him that i dont like him and i dont want a relationship with him and that i only want to be friends just so she could hook up with him and get him instead of me. Well that didnt work out too well because when he thought I didnt like him he decided to find another girl and that he did. Well she had him whipped and he was wrapped around her little finger. Now they've broken up for good and she has a new boyfriend and all that. Now im realizing that i want to give him another chance, but I deffinatly want to do it differently this time. Im not sure how to start talking to him again and i dont want to and then be rejected. If you can help me out i would greatly appreciate it. thank youuuu =) (link)
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i would talk to him directly...the whole friend thing seems extremely awkward. see wat he says if he doesnt want to hen thats ok you'll move on. but the only way to make sure is by talking to him. and if he says no be cool with it and just brush it off.
hope this helps
SAM
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14/F
There's this guy. We'll call him "joe" And there's my friend, we'll call her "kara." I've like Joe since this summer, and we've become great friends and we've been talking a lot and we text everyday. I admitted that I liked him Friday night, because I couldn't hold it in anymore, and I knew he already knew, so I would feel better if I told him. Well, he came over for my birthday on the 23rd, and my friend Kara and another girl were here, but he left around 9. Me & the other girl went to bed around 12 or 1, and Kara called Joe and stayed on the phone until 4 am. Well I found out about this he next morning, because she told me. Kara invited Joe over saturday night, but my grandma wasn't home, so I made up excuses as to why he couldn't come. He did finally come though, but he came to my window, which were luckily nailed down, because I didn't want guys in the house while no one was home. So when my grandma did get home, they left and we went to eat, and they came back later that night to my window. Kara wanted to unnail them and I told her I didn't know where the hammers were, so she went to look for them. (but we keep them where she wouldn't think to look) So they stayed at the window until 5 am talking to us, and I made them leave because my grandpa would be up in a few minutes. Well Joe called my cell as they were leaving, but I was already asleep. (I was tired) So Kara answers and stayed on the phone until 7 am. then they came over Sunday and we hung out for most of the day. (my grandma was home) But I could tell Kara likes him, and I don't know what to do, because everyone can tell that Kara likes him. She's gorgeous, and can get anyone she wants. And they've talked everyday since last Sunday, almost more than me and him. When I told him I liked him, he said he likes me, but that I was like a sister, so it would be awkward dating me & that I was too young for him. I convinced him that I wasn't too young for him. (2 years) He was going to explain what he meant by "liking me, but that I was like a sister so it would be awkward dating me" meant, but he was extremely sick last night and couldn't really talk. And when I told him I liked him, Kara was on the phone with him. I just have no idea what to do, because I don't want to keep him from being happy, but I don't want to lose him to Kara. They've known each other a week. (link)
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I know the feeling of liking someone that isn't sure what they want. with me i liked this guy who "obviously" liked me back . we've been freinds like forever and now we are really close. he hugs me and puts his arm arouund me and flirts all the time. but i told him that i like him, he said he cant commit or watever but still flirts and stuff. but honestly i dont wanna make you sad or put you down but you need to talk to him. and the chances are he only wants to be friends because you are like a sister to him. i hate it when this happens. i wish i could just go up to the guy and say "you love me!!!! you wanna be with me!!!" but it doesnt work that way. and as for your friend maybe you should also talk to her. ask her if she likes him. tell her that you do to. and sweetie if he doesnt want to go out with you, or would rather go out with her, then you have to face it. and you have to get over him. its the only way out. otherwise you will get all obsessed and/or depressed and nobody should get all worked up over a guy. some people are better off as friends and there is someone out there for everyone. look at me i was all confused and sad until i forced myself to get over my friend and now i just see him as a friend. i let go of the feelings, and of the pain. its the hardest thing to do. but the worst thing is to hold on to a guy that doesnt feel the same about you. i hope this helps and if you need anything send me a message or ask for my AIM and we can talk.
with love,
SAM~ =)
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K so my parents said i could redo my room.... k im 14/f an liek i just dont want one color or anythng...im just mostly doing my walls....so anyways does anyone know any good designs for my room....i wa thinkin about doing graffi or something...or paint splatter but does anyone know any other good ideas? Thankyou. (link)
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hey thats great that you are gonna redo your room! i know i would put up the best quotes ever and then go paint happy and splatter the rest. maybe you can do some stipes and circles. and then there are also swirls! even though they make me dizzy i love then. ;) hope you have fun
SAM~
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last night i was at a party that my girlfriend dropped me off at because she trusts me, but i got really drunk and cheated on her, now she doesnt know anyone that was at that party, and if i dont tell her, shell never know, but i feel guilty because she does trust me, but the whole reason i dont wanna tell her, not so im not the bad guy or not so she dont leave me, but because it will hurt her, and i really do love her so thats the last thing i want to do. overall im not a cheater, i was really drunk and would never have done it sober. should i tell her?? (link)
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i wouldnt tell because it sux when girls get hurt because a guy made a mistake. i think the best is to completely forget it. but make SURE it never happens again. if it make you feel better buy her a present and make her feel special. everyone makes mistakes and im sure you've learned your lesson. =) hope i helped
SAM~
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Ok So i like steven.. :)and I just dont know how to show that I like him without showing everyone else... I was thinking of ugh i donno. Im ganna like kiss him and see what people say lol. But i, this sticks because im a joke! Im ugly and ughh he also likes Olivia. so this sticks. How do i show him I like him without showing the holl world i do. (link)
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if you like steven you should tell him you like him. and maybe if you want you can ask him out. and if he says yes then who cares if the whole world knows! haha trust me your not a joke, im sure you are beautiful and funny. i hope this helped. by the way i think i might know you but im not sure. hmm probably not just i know someone who likes a guy named steven. lol im sure there are a lot of stevens! well good luck!
SAM~
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a black judge on america next top model is it a guy or a girl. not to offened or anything im just not sure and im curious. http://www.catherinebarr.com/photos/westender2005/citytvtopmodel/thumbnails/PICT0018.jpg
the black person i think thats him. (link)
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yea hes a guy but he is gay and yea ppl call him "miss J". hes funny though. lol!
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13f. this is long srry. i cant get a therapist. i just need advice. i have nobody else to talk to. i am totaly different at school and home. at home i am so mad all the time at school i am just either acting happy at least tryin or i am when i talk to him exept when someone gets me mad. i have never got detention i never get in truoble and no i will not be a snitch. nobody understands me at all anymore. i have no idea who my real friends are. ive been in every clique. my mom gets so mad at me when i wear black or chokers. but i useally do but when she wont let me i cry bc its all i feel good about. nobody at all has seen me cry exept my mom and brother my mom even said i didnt cry that much at all even when i was a baby. is something wrong with me. again srry no therapist. im shy but im starten to get louder. i get along with anybody. bc i only have 1 real friend at least i think? hes a guy hes been kinda close for about 7 years. he used to come over but now my mom found out i loved him and he loved me. but i think it was bc hes all i have. so he could never come over or i could never go over we couldnt see each other. but we would 'casually' hehe meeting w/ alot of people at the mall. he used to actually say best friend so i thought he realy was my bff. but is he just sorry for me. we havent been as close since i am so deppressed. hes a blonde dumb nerd lol we joke about that. im kinda in the group of all the gothic people who everyone hates. i never really talk to guys exept him and other guys who hate me and i hate them seriosly hate they would like come up and call me like a bitch or kick me then i do try and like kill they practically. if someone makes me really mad theyd regret it. i have knocked the air out of like 3 people. but not at school. i have enamies. whenever i think i have a friend they always turn out fake. ive been acting so deppressed lately. every1 says im gothic BUT IM NOT! atleast i dont think. i dont wear chains i dont dress all black usually jeans and black shirt and ALOT of jewelry. me and my mom dont get along. i have no chores ppl say im spoiled. and i just hate my life. any advice on..
what im deppressed about. if it was real love.
if hes a real friend. was he just sorry for me at first. whats wrong with me. am i gothic. how to become friends with all my old friends. why every1 hates me. why our parents wont let us see eachother i told my mom i didnt love him anymore he was just my only friend then she just got mad. and anyothers i forgot that i wrote at the top. no therapist or phyciatrist or whatever. ~help me~ (link)
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i can relate like 100% with this story. My best guy friend (who i still like) i dun know if i was in love with him but i liked him sssoooo much and still kinda do. hes just so awesome and a nerd(lol we have so many jokes together) i know wat its like to have a screwed up life. i am always depressed, my parents say ive changed. i started wearing black eyeliner and black shirts(with jeans usually) where as before i wasn't like this at all. i hate my home most of the time, my parents dont let me do anything i want they just wanna control me, wont let me see my guy friend either...it pretty much sux. and at skool i try to act happy, random people come up to me and say im emo and it pisses me off!! there are things that NOBODY knows about me and im tired of people telling me wat i should do or what the hell im supposed to act like. my parents think im crazy. i have worn chokers too and the people i hang out with are just like me, well they are "different". i dun care what people think anymore. honestly i dun know why im depressed i just feel happy sometimes, and then i feel really sad. nobody sees me cry i cry in my room at night sometimes. all i can say is you should try to be you and not let anyone try to change you. if your old friends dont wanna be with you then they dont deserve to. its weird the way people hate other people just because they are not the same. i dont wanna be the same. i dont know who i am. im just me and i could care less about everyone else. be with people that understand you, not with the ones that wanna change you or think you are not good enough or whatever. have fun with the friends that make you laugh and if you wanna see this guy friend of yours then you are just gonna have to meet up with him secretly. like at the mall with a group of friends. hope i helped a little. i completely get wat its like to want a therapist. i need one. because sometimes it seems like no one else understands or even cares. but im ok. and you should be too.
SAM
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I have a friend whose parents are really overprotective. She's a girl, I'm a guy, so obviously her parents have a problem with her hanging out with me. She can only see me when we go in a big group that is mostly of girls.
I was thinking about approaching her parents and telling them that I'm a Christian [like them], I don't drink or do drugs, I'm only interested in friendship, I'm a virgin and will be until I get married..basically that I'm a good person. What do you think are the chances that they'll change their mind and let her hang out with me alone? (link)
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im a girl and my parents are just as over-protective. they also think it should be a big group, mostly girls.i tried to talk to them about it but my parents are really strict to their ways. i think its a good idea to approach her parents. that way they would at least know that you have good intentions. also, if worse comes to worse then you can go in a big group to the mall for example, and then go alone with her and meet up with the group later. this is something that would have to be planned out. other than that i cant think of anything else. i hope this helps, good luck!
SAM
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