i feel like my boyfriend is making me sad all the time. all of these girls that he's friends with tell me that he likes THEM and he's going to cheat on me for THEM. at first i didn't believe it, but then i found out he hung out with them yesterday and it made me feel hurt.. he did invite me to the movies but he said he could only stay for a half hour so i decide i didn't want to go and he said "i love you and i wanna see you" but after hearing what those girls told me, i was too hurt to see him. he said he's sorry if he hurt me and he loves me.. i asked him if he liked kayla [the girl who said he was gunna cheat on me for her] and he said he MIGHT like her. and i said why? and he said "because she actually showed up to see me." now i don't know if i can trust him because that girl said that he wrote a song for her and sang it to her and told her that he loved her. i don't know who to believe
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iwantthetruth answered Monday March 12 2007, 8:24 pm: i think you should do yourself a favor and break up with him. he should not be telling you that he might like her. he should realize that this type of thing would hurt you and even if he is sorry, he still likes her and thats wrong. i say you end the relationship and just be friends, because it wont get any easier, its gonna hurt more as time goes by. and hes not worth it. i hope i helped.
punkrockprincess answered Monday March 12 2007, 7:25 pm: Boys, boys, boys. Can't live with 'em, you can't shoot 'em either, hah :]. I experienced a simliar situation myself. As the relationship went on, he just got worse and worse until I just couldn't stand it anymore. If he treats you this way continually, I say break up with him. Get out of the relationship as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. [ punkrockprincess's advice column | Ask punkrockprincess A Question ]
phatdopelove answered Monday March 12 2007, 4:44 pm: JERK ALERT!! -Your boyfriend should not be the one to make you sad he should always be the one to make you happy not sad. It can matter what all the other girls said if he said he "might like another girl".He shouldn't have ever even said that. It sounds like to me he's playing games, and likes to shoot down your self -esteem, you don't need a guy like that. If you're honest with yourself, even if you love him, that this relationship is not working out the way its supposed to be, get out of the relationship and save yourself from the heartbreak, you deserve someone better. hope this helps. [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
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