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letting go...
i don't get it. when i get into a relationship and i want to be serious about it i let all my guy friends go, and my guy friends are fine with that cuz they understand me and how i don't beleive in cheating and shit.
but my problem with my boyfriend now is that he kind of makes a big deal out of it, i just finely got him to fix his damn myspace top friends thing, cause it was me and like 50 million other girls.
i trust my boyfriend, but shit like that makes me 2nd guess, he hasn't done anything to prove me wrong, if i'm not at his house we are on the phone will we go to sleep pretty much.
i just don't know what i need to do. cause i think it pisses him off when i bring shit like that up. but yet he is glad i tell him so he can know.
and it really hurts his feelings when i tell him i have a hard time trusting him sometimes.
but i've been cheated on way to much these days.
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its easy for us to second guess our bf/gf sometimes because we are just naturally jealous. hah its not our faults we just are. i think that if has proven to be a good loving bf then you have nothing 2 worry about. he loves you. e cares about you and trust is very important. also i know its hard being cheated on. this happens way too much~ but it sounds like he really loves you and cant stand being without you. dont worry so much, hun. =)
Alex
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Think of it this way:
Your boyfriend loves you. If he wanted anyone else, he'd have broken up with you by now for them. Doesn't the fact that he's still around say anything to you? Cause it should.
I've been cheated on too, so I know exactly how bad that can affect your trust, but jealousy in the relationship can be a big issue.
I'd know, because I just broke up with my boyfriend for his. Jealousy makes me feel like I can't breathe, or can't be trusted. I've done things to break people's trust, but never his, and the fact that he didn't trust me made me kinda upset. I had a picture on my MySpace of me and a guy friend [just friends; he has no interest me, and I have none in him], and I told my boyfriend that, but he didn't care. He made me change my default anyways. Jealousy can be good & bad. Good because it shows you care, but bad because too much can make a person feel crowded, annoyed and untrusted. I felt the negative way, and so I ended my relationship. He completely regrets it now, but I'm not giving him a second chance because I know his behavior won't change. Most of my friends are guys, so if a picture can set him off, then I might not be able to hang out with people.
But anyways, your boyfriend is with you & if he wanted somebody else, he would've left already. You've got nothing to worry about. He loves you, and if he didn't, he'd be gone.
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well i'm pretty much im in the same boat. lol i do trust my boyfriend but at the same time i can be a very jealous girlfriend. like when there's 398712487 other girls on his myspace..yeah i question him but then he just reminds me "im not your ex i havent cheated on you and i dont plan on it trust me. i love ya too much to do that" or something like that. but he does get offensive about it so i stopped asking becauses it causes unnesscary fights. Just keep this in mind HES NOT YOUR EX'S. lol that's a big one for me. if you keep that in mind then it'll probally help your nontrusting issue a lot. it did for me. hope i helped some. (:
//PLRx
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